I think I am attractive, nice, and pretty outgoing yet I can't meet mr right. What is wrong with me? Is there any such thing as "mr. right"? Should I just settle for someone less then Prince Charming? Maybe I'm just to picky. I just want to feel "love".
2007-05-18 10:06:37 · 19 answers · asked by smp1000_1999 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The last thing I would do is settle. I did that once and it made me more unhappy then I was single. It was hard to break up with him too and after awhile it will be hard to be affectionate with him if you truly don't like him. I have been single for almost a year now and it easier than ever. I will have the occasional day where I hate being single but not often. lol maybe we're supposed to wait and in the end we end up getting the best "Mr. Right" I hope it works that way.
It sounds like you have great qualities too. It could just be that everyone is taken where you are because I think that's part of why I am too. Plus guys are shy sometimes too and scared to approach girls because they feel intimidated. Seattle is supposed to be the #1 place for single men - I'm thinking about going there! lol I wish you luck and I bet you'll find the perfect guy for you that makes you happy because everyone deserves it!
2007-05-18 10:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriends and I talk about this all the time. We swear there's something wrong with us, but there isn't ... we're just really picky!!
You're perfect, remember that. Any man that comes along would be lucky to have you and to share his life with you. But until you find "the one" or "mr. right" (which I don't think exists ... maybe in 1950 he did, but not 2007), just enjoy being single and seeing whats out there.
Don't assume you have 'type' or a certain guy you always go for because if you do that, you could be missing someone great that you never really saw before. Does that make sense? haha
Never settle, cuz you won't be happy with that. I just think you need to be open to every possibilty and enjoy what happens. When you're not looking for love, love finds you :)
2007-05-18 17:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Define what prince charming means to you and then figure out what it would take to attract your prince charming. You won't find someone with all of the qualities you're looking for, so make sure you correctly prioritize which qualities are important. It's always good to get opinions from a good guy friend if you have one.
Manage your expectations wisely. You're going to be disappointed is some way with anyone you find. Make sure you're able to accept the bad with the good because you can’t change anyone.
Good Luck.
2007-05-18 17:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by JMoney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, don't expect anyone to be perfect. And don't just settle for someone. Some of us are just pickier and sometimes that's the best thing. I lost my pickiness for awhile and found some horrible beasts out there who seem great at first. Luckly I haven't found anyone really horrible but as for stalkers, assholes, and drunks.....found some. So I'm back to being picky but right now I'm stuck waiting for an old love to come back.
Just wait and maybe search alittle and you'll find a great guy. But he won't be perfect. You gotta learn to love his imperfections.
2007-05-18 17:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are single because you haven't yet met anyone with whom there is a mutual desire to date or be more 'serious'.
Do not settle...speaking from experience, it doesn't work and you just end up kicking yourself for wasting "x" amount of your life on something when you could've been more happy during that time as a single.
Make your life as grand as you want, whether you are in a relationship or not...then there'll never been reason for any regrets or looking back and thinking Life wasn't good.
2007-05-18 17:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is like looking for a needle in haystack, but you will find sooner or later. i believe everybody meets with a right person once in a life -short or long. some people miss the train while being busy with wrong ones or other things, some people dont realize that they found the right one, so they always say that they are *still* waiting, very very less people find and hold eachother strongly till they die. good luck.
2007-05-18 18:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever settle for someone just because you feel like it. Go with someone becuse you want to. Soon you'll find mr. right. Just be patient and be social!
2007-05-18 17:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by your face=] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think a lot of yourself. Are you self centered? Cocky? Arrogant? These things may be the reason that you're alone. Maybe you'll be someone's princess when you treat someone like a prince?!!
2007-05-18 17:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, wait for Prince Charming or your Knight. I had a hard time looking too for my girl. Your man will come in no time. Stop looking, just wait.
2007-05-18 17:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by Bakekang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isnt that many mr rights. There are very few of us. I think you are attractive. So you will find him. It just might take awhile
2007-05-18 17:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Chris F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋