Every time he comes close to me to hug me or to touch me I feel like stabbing him. Every time he kisses me I feel like slapping him. I can't explain why. It is his touch. He is a nice guy but is very demanding and nasty when he can't get what he wants. I am 17, he is 26.
2007-05-18
00:07:28
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Kaitlyn S
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I am with him because I can't get rid of him. I have tried everything to tell him I don't like him and that it is over. He will not accept it and just laughs in my face and says "you are so cute"
2007-05-18
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I won't even address the feelings you have of wanting to hurt him. If you have tried to send him packing and he wont go then I understand how you feel.
This sounds like a very dangerous situation for you. His behavior reminds me of the guys who turn into stalkers and abusers when their girlfriends try to break it off. You really need to seriously think about getting out of that situation.
2007-05-18 00:26:35
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answered by The Eight Ball 5
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Maybe it's time to think about breaking up. He's not a nice guy if he gets nasty when he doesn't get his way. This is a problem that will only get worse. There is a big age difference between you, I say dump the jerk (before you rip his balls off) and date someone who respects you and whom you don't want to cause physical damage.
2007-05-18 07:12:40
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answered by sadie m 3
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hey that doesnt sound right!definately something is wrong!! you need to get away before you do something that is irreversible.trust me that kind of thinking is a precursor of a whole lot of nasty things. he also doesnt sound like a very nice guy. thats how things get physical in a relationship.first its the feelings of resentment and hatred to a certain degree. then things get worse.what you need is sometime away from this guy.get away and get those feelings off your system.
2007-05-18 07:16:32
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answered by Anonymous
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I think that maybe you need to speak to someone. You shouldn't feel like stabbing your boyfriend EVER! The age difference is kinda huge maybe he's just not right for you.
2007-05-18 07:14:48
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answered by Anonymous
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I think he is too old for you. He is taking advantage of you sexually, you need to end this relationship, and let him move on and find someone else, who might like his demanding and nasty ways.
2007-05-18 07:12:50
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answered by That one 7
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I think if you're not at ease with this guy,you need to move on.........If you were at ease and loved him,why would you feel like stabbing him and so on.
Hanging around with someone even after you know you don't like him is more like cheating on him,so i think you need to think about it!
2007-05-18 07:32:28
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answered by rhea 4
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Sounds like you need to show him the door! He sounds very controlling and Trust me they only get worse as time goes on!
2007-05-18 07:12:03
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answered by Psycho Chicken! 5
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Why in the world would you waste your young years with a man like that? You should be out enjoying life while you are young.
2007-05-18 07:13:02
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answered by PEGGY S 7
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No that's not normal! You need serious counselling if you're thinking of doing those things to another person.
2007-05-18 07:10:47
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answered by Dave F 6
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Yes it is normal, i feel like doing it to my husband but we have been together for 17 years so it would be normal for me!!!
He is is very demanding , a lesson for you men dont grow up!! and they often act like spoilt brats when they dont get what they want, :-)
2007-05-18 07:14:23
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answered by Anonymous
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