Well, you see, I have a crush on this wicked cute guy and I know that he likes me back (I've got enough proof!!!) but I'm way to scared to ask him out and it seems that he is feeling thesame, and he won't ask me either, so I need some advice! Just read the quetion! It's kind of obvious!!
Anyway, yeah, can you help me out here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-18 09:02:09 · 36 answers · asked by ashied404 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 13 and I am in love with my friend! Please tell me what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-18 10:10:52 · update #1
Think through what's the worst that could happen. If I figure out how I would handle all the bad situations and decided that I could deal with any of them, it makes the experience less threatening.
2007-05-18 09:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by cool girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 12-14, I suggest using a friend that knows him. Then tell them to ask him for you, but you have to talk to him yourself soon. If he says maybe or something like that, I think he wants you to be living proof, he may think it's a joke. If you are 15+ I suggest you practice in front of the mirror and then put up the courage to ask him yourself.
Good Luck
2007-05-18 09:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by aaronwinner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know this guy? Where do you see him? At work? School?
I would just work up the courage to go and say something to him, like hey you want to go to a movie sometime you know something like that. Trust you dont want to sit around and wonder what may have happened if I just had the guts to say something. I know it can seem hard but in the long run you will be much happier if you say something to him
2007-05-18 09:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok plz don't take this the wrong way and don't pick me for best answer but if he's acting the same way being a chicken isn't going to get you any where becuz then if u don't ask and he don't ask it juss give somebody else the oppertunity to come "inbetween" and they you culd get stuck in a luv triangle so y don't u sit down with him and express ur feelings then maybe (hopefully) it'll incourage him to express his to you
hope this helps
2007-05-18 09:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by La_Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't get him to ask you out, so you need to find a way to muster up the courage before someone else beats you to the punch.
What's the worst that could happen if you ask him? He might say no, right? So then you'd be no worse off than you are now...why be scared? Just do it! ☺
2007-05-18 09:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok the time will come but u can start with this ...
1- act kinda flirty
2-ask him if he wants to go with u get a drink or bowlind or whatever u like n he does too
3- talk to him n make him feel comfy with ya
4-b ure self
5-dont be scared , noth will happen
hope i helped ya :D
2007-05-18 09:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by smileyandshiney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he like coffee? If so, ask him if he'd like to join you at Starbucks?
Is there a movie he'd like to see? Ask if you can see it together.
Whether it is fishing, biking, some sporting event, Vietnamese food, or a local music venue - find something that you have in common and invite him along.
Life is too short to dawdle... Go for it, now!
2007-05-18 09:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by Sheila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST DO IT! Ask before you no longer have the chance. Life is too short to not take a risk at finding true love. Would you rather spend your life asking what if?
2007-05-18 09:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by linehancomputerservices 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see try making small talk he might get the balls to ask u or u can suck it up and ask him if he says no it doesnt matter there are a lot of guys out there
2007-05-18 09:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by nathan c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...he sound just like my bf....oky this what actually i did.....we where actually eating some fries...his kinda feeding me and i know in my heart that he wants to kiss me....so what i did is i put the fries on my mouth and i ask him to bite the other end...well he didn't just end up biting the fries but also bite my lips and that lead us kissing...lol and that nite he end up to be my bf...and after that he told me if i never did that move he wont have any gut to kiss me or either to approach me to be his gf..you know what i mean...his a shy type of person....
now my point....we are in a new civilization now...so i guess it doesn't really matter who make that first move....right??
anyways you mention its very obvious that he likes you too....but his shy....i'm pretty sure he is....
my suggestion be friends w/him...and then flirt a lot w/him....and if you got a change to be kinky...just like what i did...don't wait do it!!!! good luck
2007-05-18 09:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋