He is taking it super slow.
He will grab my hand and let go. He wont actually make a move........
Not sure as to why so slow, he does flirt and we have fun.
I think I want to break out of our regular dates and do something different........any ideas?
2007-05-18 08:20:59 · 30 answers · asked by baby_rost 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*Sounds like he's trying to scope you out further to see if he wants to make a move on you.
.I think you should suggest something new and different to change up your routine of things.
~For example:
*I think you should put the move on him, quit waiting for him to do it...because odds are that he is waiting on YOU to go first. Or he's afraid to do it, b/c he doesn't know if you're ready yet....
.then I'm sure after you make the first "big" move, then you'll come to find that he'll be very intrigued by it...and things will take care of themselves and you will both know what to do from then on.
......so good luck and make a move.
be bold.
2007-05-18 08:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't give your approximate age, but by the sound of this guy I would guess you're a teen. The guy may just be shy, or doesn't like to show affection in public places. Is he more affectionate when you're alone? Maybe he doesn't know what to do since you're his first girl? Maybe you should rent movies that are about relationships and people dating, this may give him some ideas.
2007-05-18 08:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Aries25m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push it. It's obvious he likes you, and maybe he wants it to be more than just a physical relationship!
Enjoy the attention. If anything, thank him for a night out with a hug and a kiss on the cheek. Make sure that the hug is nice and close and not a "hug your sister" hug. He'll get the picture!
2007-05-18 08:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by dancing_in_the_hail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be upfront and honest with him. Ask him why he wants to take things slow, maybe there is something behind his actions that is justified. Suggest something else, you plan the next date and take him out, this way you can do something different and since you planned it he will go along with it and see how he reacts. Good Luck
2007-05-18 08:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by heathermichelle9 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him. Make the move. The poor kid is scared, help him out a little bit. He's probably afraid that you might not be ready, and a kiss avoided is a very awkward situation. Go ahead step in, and let him know that it's okay.
2007-05-18 08:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by Rhyno 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him no how u feel and make out the french way. tease him by kissing him. im a guy, and boy oh boy does that ever work on me. my girlfriend did that to me and i only wanted her even more. dont tease too much with the whole kissing thing or else he might really want u right then and ther werevr u r
2007-05-18 08:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by clin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why donlt you just make sure the next time he lets your hand go, you grab his right back. Who says the man must make all the moves. You like him, you want more, go for it and speed up the inevitable
2007-05-18 08:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on where you live,
Where I live, we go on four-wheeler rides on dates, but you could also go to the mall (even if it's just to look around), or you could go to the park and have a picnic, just keep it simple. If you make an elaborate plan, chances are it won't go smoothly.......lol.....i know this from experience
2007-05-18 08:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by pocketful_of_sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest to him what you want to do, he may be just shy and trying to take it slow so the relationship can grow before the sex gets involved
2007-05-18 08:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know or find out what his interests are besides movies. There should be many other things that you're both interested in. Once you find out what you both have in common you can plan something new to do.
2007-05-18 08:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋