Family & Relationships - 4 May 2007

All he does is play on the computer and drink alot.
I come in at 4 in the morning from work and and cant even take a shower without him DEMANDING I cook for him before I go to my day job ?
Please help!

2007-05-04 05:17:09 · 20 answers · asked by MRS. EVIL GENIUS 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-04 05:15:23 · 90 answers · asked by Mrs. D 1 in Weddings

I hate my job, poor as hell $1000. a month after taxes, the people are lazy and keep tossing more crap my way.
The main thing is my abusive, sometimes violent fiance'.
I left him 8 months ago because he hit me again. I started dating someone, fell for them too fast just to lose him because of something mean I said. I still think of him after 5 months of no contact. :( Which sent me running back to the jerk. Who I do love, and know inside and out, he is mostly sweet and we are very close. But he screams at me often, acts like he will hit me, cusses, over anything, like if I don't clean. But how can I clean when I would rather die? I want to leave him but can't afford to live on my own, I can't even drive! I fancy the idea of marrying a man with SOME money, I'm not a gold digger but security looks nice right now, and I think I could love anyone if he was just a bit nicer than who I have now. But I am so lame I can't even be alone to find someone else.

2007-05-04 05:14:35 · 5 answers · asked by pdx 1 in Singles & Dating

In a nutshell - I'm a graphic designer and run my own business from home, I do pretty well (yet busted my a$$ for ten years to get here) - my fiance works part-time (25 hrs) per week and goes to school. We discussed our financial situation last night and basically what she told me was " She fully "expects" me to cover all the bills including groceries every week"....... so at the end of the day I feel like she's getting a free ride - yes she works and goes to school but every adult in this world pays a bill or two. She says the $800 (or so) she makes per month will go towards her credit card & car insurance, gas, etc...... everything else falls in my lap given I make alot more than she does........ Does this seem reasonable? Maybe I'm over-thinking it...? She's always been a hard worker (from what I understand) but has NEVER had a full-time job as she has always been in and out of school living off student loans, etc........ any advice would be appreciated.

2007-05-04 05:13:23 · 56 answers · asked by tommytsi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone seems to tell me that I am a very funny and attractive young, and I get loads of sex, but nothing past that....and people tell me that I may never get more then that....Im bisexual, and I am very more interested in men then women.....

2007-05-04 05:13:03 · 9 answers · asked by kracseyman 1 in Singles & Dating

I have over over over protective family, and gets to be very controlling at times.... I'm not a kid anymore, I'm 24 years old, but I'm the youngest here. How can I make them let me decide what's good for me and what's not!!

I've been a rebel when I was a teenager, It was exhausting, they didn't bend the rules... I'm sick of this and I want to take things by hand...

2007-05-04 05:12:15 · 14 answers · asked by ♫ Chloe ♫ 6 in Family

only to find out it was not greener or worth the heart ache to your family and wish that you would have given your marriage the effort that it needed.....ie- watered grass a little more?

2007-05-04 05:12:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you date me for my beaty or my brains ?

2007-05-04 05:09:20 · 13 answers · asked by lilly l 6 in Family

2007-05-04 05:06:40 · 15 answers · asked by bubblybanu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-04 05:02:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My grandad died on wensday morning and i have to attend his funeral on friday. I want to say a few words at the service but I have no idea what to say. My cousin is also saying something but she is reading a poem. I want to say something else but i don't have a clue on what to talk about. I am 15 and have never been to a funeral before. I was very close to my grandad and even though I'm not much of a public speaker I want to say something because I know I will regret it afterwards if I don't. Any help will be greatly appreciated

2007-05-04 05:01:45 · 24 answers · asked by .x. Lottie .x. 1 in Family

relationship in our future. I am possibly pregnant which is scary but we are both mature responsible adults. The problem is he is very conservative and Im very liberal. He does not want to co-habitate until after marriage. I want to go through this pregnancy and relationship under one roof. I dont want to go back and forth from home to home. How do I find a middle ground?

2007-05-04 05:01:44 · 8 answers · asked by maritzacala_2003 2 in Singles & Dating

I never met him before, but we chat so much, and we see each other on the webcam..
we say so many nice things to each other, like we are in love.
we are going to meet one day, but he lives far from me..
but, are going to feel the same when we meet?

2007-05-04 05:00:08 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it was one girl and I know the reasons why he did it, but how do I get over the past? We have a 2 year old together. He has done EVERYTHING I have asked of him and it's not fair to him for me to keep dwelling on the past and keep asking the same questions 15 times over!!! He has tattooed my name on his ring finger and has only gone to work during the day. He left the band he was in and got rid of old cell phone he had to prove to me that I am the one he wants. Why is it soooooo hard to get over the past and live for today? Help me please?!!

2007-05-04 04:59:43 · 11 answers · asked by PNJ T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'll try to be brief. I got a call from his HR dept at work asking me if I knew where he was, if he was sick etc.. Apparently he hasn't shown up for work since Monday and will be fired. I'm so upset, I know he hates his job so much (sales) b/c he has to follow up on alot of paperwork and has to meet a quota but he also know we desperately need his extra income. He would get up and get dressed like he was going to work fooling me. I'm hurt b/c all this aside he's a great dad and seemingly good husband. When I told him about the HR call he said it was a mixup with regard to voice mail and he spoke to his boss (whom I spoke to today and said this was a lie and she hasn't heard from his since last week). That part tore me up, I hate him so much for doing this to me and our kids. My eyes are blinded with our years together so any outside help would be appreciated. Is this the end?

2007-05-04 04:58:17 · 3 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'll try to be brief. I got a call from his HR dept at work asking me if I knew where he was, if he was sick etc.. Apparently he hasn't shown up for work since Monday and will be fired. I'm so upset, I know he hates his job so much (sales) b/c he has to follow up on alot of paperwork and has to meet a quota but he also know we desperately need his extra income. He would get up and get dressed like he was going to work fooling me. I'm hurt b/c all this aside he's a great dad and seemingly good husband. When I told him about the HR call he said it was a mixup with regard to voice mail and he spoke to his boss (whom I spoke to today and said this was a lie and she hasn't heard from his since last week). That part tore me up, I hate him so much for doing this to me and our kids. My eyes are blinded with our years together so any outside help would be appreciated. Is this the end?

2007-05-04 04:57:36 · 33 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has been seperated from his wife for 11 years and he found out that she is claiming social security and disability... can he recieve social security along with his children from her and how if he can?

2007-05-04 04:56:03 · 6 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-04 04:55:07 · 10 answers · asked by mohamed ragab 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i really want to get her something very special but i dont have any ideas. please help

2007-05-04 04:54:43 · 13 answers · asked by little one 1 in Singles & Dating

just want to know

2007-05-04 04:54:35 · 14 answers · asked by Candie gurl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-04 04:53:54 · 15 answers · asked by bananas! 3 in Singles & Dating

We met playing pool, and now we talk like for hours a day. He asked for a picture, but Im afraid if I send him one, he'll be dissappointed and won't talk to me anymore? What should I do? I love talking to him and he says he loves talking to me, so I don't want that to change! Help me please!

2007-05-04 04:50:23 · 14 answers · asked by Brandi S 2 in Singles & Dating

i met this bloke on line and we have been phoning and txting for the last week ....he said he would meet up this wk for a coffee but his been so busy with his job he hasnt had the time
hes a policeman and has been doing alot of over time
i didnt contact him one day just to see if he contacted me and he txted me that night ...
im going on hol next wk and want to meet him before i go ....
do i push him for a face to face meeting ? or shall i just leave it and see if he arranges to meet me ?

2007-05-04 04:49:15 · 11 answers · asked by cowgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Anyone notice how easily "fun" is made out of the topic of male erections? Countless comedies, and even nightly sitcoms there are constant innuendos and graphic images of males getting erections but you never hear anything about females getting wet?? I'm personally sick of all the movies such as Something about Mary, American Pie, Austin Powers, etc. filled with erection jokes, images, etc. NEVER do you see or hear about female excitement. Double standard to me.

2007-05-04 04:48:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last year, I took my son to a psychologist and he got diagnosed of 'Autism'. My ex didn't know anything about it and neither the school psychologist nor the doctor has interviewed him about the child's condition. Can I ask my ex-husband for more money in court because of the child's condition? Can my ex-husband contest the diagnosis in court because he didn't talk to the doctor? Can my ex use this to change custody or ask for joint custody because I didn't tell him things about the child?

2007-05-04 04:47:59 · 27 answers · asked by uglym 1 in Marriage & Divorce

His mom isn't the type to be satisfied with a yankee candle or a fuzzy bath robe..she is really well high maintenance i guess you would say.. the type who bleaches her hair and wears teenaged clothing.. shes in her mid-forties. don't get me wrong shes a sweet woman i'm just trying to describe her personality so you can help me out here.. i don't want to get her something to young that might insult her. i have no clue I'm completely stumped. please help. hah thank youu

2007-05-04 04:46:38 · 6 answers · asked by Beeg 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just went through a separation with my wife. We met through friends. It's now been 7 months since everything went down. It was my fault and have made that known to our friends. We sat down one day with our friends and discussed what happened and how we are going to fix it. She moved out two days later. She has sinced stopped talking to her friends. I still care for her. What type of behavior is this?

2007-05-04 04:44:38 · 21 answers · asked by john d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am used to dating jerks and people who make moves a little bit faster.
This man does not. We go out, eat,drink,watch movies. Even at his home, he is not the guy that is all over me. And, yep its driving me crazy.
I think he likes me because we go out and we are flirty, but he has not held my hand or made a move? And I am confused by this. I think I see it as him taking it slow and getting to know me, is this the more mature thing to do? And I am I right at assuming?
Am I reading him wrong?
I like him so far, just waiting for him to do something dumb. Or do you think he thinks of me only as a friend?
Somebody help me.........I dont know what moves to make or what?

2007-05-04 04:44:37 · 11 answers · asked by baby_rost 3 in Singles & Dating

i've been dating this guy for about 2 months now and i really like and he really likes me but, we are both very busy! Every week day i only see him for about 5 minutes and thats when he is walking me to one of my classes, n then later in the night after we get done with our practices/games we talk on the phone for awhile. so normally the only time that we have one on one time is on the week end but last weekend i saw 1 day and we weren't even alone n then this weekend im going to his game and then have to leave right away cause i have to work, and maybe if we are luck we hang out alil on sunday. I don't know what to do we are both so busy but i really do like him and miss him so what should i do? Do you think this will last?

2007-05-04 04:42:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that she could be cheating on me? She also showers in the basement first thing when she comes home. Should I be worried?

2007-05-04 04:41:31 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce