We met playing pool, and now we talk like for hours a day. He asked for a picture, but Im afraid if I send him one, he'll be dissappointed and won't talk to me anymore? What should I do? I love talking to him and he says he loves talking to me, so I don't want that to change! Help me please!
2007-05-04 04:50:23 · 14 answers · asked by Brandi S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought the same thing when I met someone on-line the beginning of last year. He was everything I was looking for in a guy smart, funny etc.....We (like you) started talking for hours at a time (due to the fact that I live in Florida & he was in California) Well I finally got up enough courage to take the chance, and I'm glad I did, he moved over here to be with me 2 months ago.....Good Luck!
2007-05-04 05:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by Karen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl, get a grip on yourself. If you look down on yourself physically, so will others. If you learn to appreciate you, you can make anybody accept u as u are. Be confident, u are beautiful. Know today, that beauty is not only about your physic. Any matured mind knows that.
You should only be afraid if you have made him to believe you are something you are not. You can also share your fears with him. Be open. If your friendship is going to grow beyond the present stage, truth,trust & openness will come in very handy. Wish you all the best.
2007-05-04 05:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by Becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I meet my guy on the Internet and was open with him how I looked we talked for ages then we meet that was 7 years ago .We are still together.
If you are honest with him what do you have to loose , If he stops talking to you because of a picture what kind of person is he .
Do you know what he looks like is he begin honest ..
2007-05-04 04:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sue H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you talked for hours on the phone I'm pretty sure that he told you what kind of physical attributes he likes in a girl.
Besides that if he dont like what you look like then sweetie he definitely wasnt the one for you because of any thing you two could still be friends......
(Be careful, you might not like what he looks like!)
2007-05-04 04:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by Black Elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply let him know that you'd prefer to keep your talking relationship as it is.....since you both have your own mental picture of each other. Never be afraid to speak your mind with anyone.
If someone is unable to accept your wishes, then they're not really your friend. NEVER be intimidated to say or do something that you do NOT feel comfortable with.
2007-05-04 04:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are just a normal looking lady than i suggest you to send your picture, you are only concerned about talking right? than what is the problem? you are what you are? you cant change your look for anyone, you cant change your shape or physical structure for someone, be practical&realistic!!!
2007-05-04 05:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him the picture. If he doesn't talk to you after he sees your picture than move on. If he truly loves talking to you, he'll still talk to you after he sees your picture.
2007-05-04 04:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him see a pic. it won't change the way u guys talk. If he enjoys talkin to u then he shouldn't care what u look like!
2007-05-04 04:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by skull_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that you're that ugly, then I would just give up and live my life in a shell. Luckily we do live in the modern era and there are ways to make you more attractive. However, this normally requires expensive surgery, so you better start saving if you truly are as ugly as you say you are. Good luck!
2007-05-04 04:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by Kurt Stevenson 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just get a picture that u think u look nice in and ask a friend's opinion first then send it to him. how does he look?? ur stressing over urs and he could be ugly as hell...something similar happened to me.
2007-05-04 04:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by ch@L@nt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋