Family & Relationships - 4 May 2007

How do I end a professional relationship without revealing my true feelings? I recently ended my sessions with my therapist because I was starting to feel romantic feelings for him. He however suggested that he continue to call me to check on me. He calls me at work not on my cell. I do want to one day start my sessions with him again but right now I need to have no contact with him in order to sort through and put my feelings in check. How can I ask him to stop calling me without revealing the real reason behind it?
I was thinking of saying something like "there are some things I have to rectify and I can't work through them with you calling me."
P.S. -TELLING THE ENTIRE TRUTH IS NOT AN OPTION

2007-05-04 06:27:05 · 30 answers · asked by Heaven26 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-04 06:26:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been through a lot of problems lately and I wanna give him something special (or perhaps do something special for him) that could somehow make him feel how happy I am that despite everything we're still together...

2007-05-04 06:24:18 · 16 answers · asked by just me 1 in Singles & Dating

Her name is Tara Maxine Shanahan, born 1/30/77 and attended Shasta High in Redding,CA. - Last known address is PO box 993185 Redding,CA 96099-3185.

2007-05-04 06:19:04 · 3 answers · asked by Tim Patrick 1 in Family

Howdy. I just finished (as of this morning) my latest Web site. I've been working on the text (copy) for 16 months -- seriously!

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Thanks a lot!!

Tim

2007-05-04 06:17:59 · 1 answers · asked by inquiring_mind4u 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-04 06:14:27 · 15 answers · asked by yourhavinalaugh696969 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

whats the best way to get a guy to notice you... without saying one word... hmmm...

2007-05-04 06:13:36 · 5 answers · asked by vanessa v 1 in Singles & Dating

We have all faced significant loss in our lives — or we will. How we deal with it may surprise us. Thinking about this led me to write a play, “The Year of Magical Thinking,” now playing on Broadway with Vanessa Redgrave. To learn more go to http://broadway.yahoo.com/.

2007-05-04 06:13:25 · 2115 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just had a afternoon delight with my Boyfriend but I hate to leave right after it, to head back to work.. have you never walked back into work after have sex and look like it and have your co-workers laugh at you?

2007-05-04 06:11:29 · 10 answers · asked by Grace's Mommy.. 3 in Singles & Dating

One of my girlfriends is always blabbing about her sex life to me and always asking me about mine. I try to change the subject to more appropriate topics but somehow she always steers it back to sex. I don't feel comfortable putting my business in the street. Especially not to her. She is good people but I don't want to hear about her bedroom adventures. That info should be kept between her and who she does it with. How do I ask her to cool it without hurting her feelings?

2007-05-04 06:10:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-04 06:07:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She stopped calling me or texting me on Sunday after I missed her calls since I was busy with school. She texted me two days later saying "Im sorry. just couldn't do it anymore". I said "Sorry to hear that. Hope you find someone who makes you happy" (At this point of trying to make her happy for four months I am tired). She wrote back "Me too". Then I wrote "There's a better way to do these things since we have been together for six months. I don't have a chance and never will until you do something to get better (she is always depressed). I said she doesn't have to believe me and have a good night. That was last night, haven't heard from her. Think she is completely done? What should I do? Make no contact? See if she misses me? Or does her text mean its over?

2007-05-04 06:07:36 · 17 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriend is stubborn as anything and doesn't listen to me when I say there is a big difference between "loving" someone, and being "in love" with someone. he says love is love, the only difference between loving a boyfriend/girlfriend vs. loving a friend is that you can "sleep" with your bf/gf and not a friend. does anyone else thing "love" is love and there is no difference between loving someone and being in love with someone? What do you think the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone is?

2007-05-04 06:06:44 · 11 answers · asked by mel 1 in Singles & Dating

2 years ago me and my friend where involved in a car crash, but unfortunelty my friend didnt make it! for about the past 2 months ive bein having flash back of the car crash n i cnt sleep! please give me sum advise about what i cn do plz!

2007-05-04 06:01:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My Friend katie has a hug hickey on her neck and her parents are crazy about that stuff. I have been there and the result didn't turn out so well 4 me and my boyfriend( we had to break up)...and I hate 4 her to go through that! So give me some ideas!

2007-05-04 05:58:46 · 9 answers · asked by M.J 1 in Friends

2007-05-04 05:56:22 · 13 answers · asked by Dodo 1 in Friends

I just filed a divorce due to irreconcilable differences.While i know that the waiting period of divorce is 6 months, I am afraid that my wife might apeal to court to delay the process so that i can't re-marry soon. Is that possible?

2007-05-04 05:53:29 · 12 answers · asked by Gelo Honey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting ready to make my hair appointment for my wedding...I have 5 other girls that are wanting to get their hair done as well...Do I make all of their appointments at the same time or do I just worry about mine and my Matron of Honors and then give them the name and number of the salon and have them make it theirselves??? I would like for all of us to get it done at the same time.....but if that is not possible I cannot wait at the salon till everyone is done because I have so much to do on my wedding day....please help!!

2007-05-04 05:48:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm having a july wedding, but I'm not sure what flowers to carry. I looked at flowers in season in the summer, and I can't find many that I like. My colors are red & white (any other colors to use would also be appreciated.....I need help)

Also, my maid of honor would like a different bouquet than the bridesmaids.....any help would be great. Thanks!

2007-05-04 05:47:08 · 24 answers · asked by Mrs. Mark 2 in Weddings

I just bought a wedding gown and a small amount of the lace has a tear in it. It's not terribly noticeable, but I would like to have it fixed with the alterations. Can a good seamstress fix this?

2007-05-04 05:45:42 · 6 answers · asked by brooke p 1 in Weddings

I met a wonderful, honest, genuine, caring man and I know that I really have deep feelings for him and want a future with him. He feels the same about me as well. Is it okay for me to actually love him this quick? Ive heard of love at first sight but didnt really believe it. We might be expecting a baby, could that be why my feelings are so strong?

2007-05-04 05:41:21 · 11 answers · asked by maritzacala_2003 2 in Singles & Dating

Well my mates been fru alot in her life, and she normanly tells me about it. But the other day she got really drunk and i no it was the drink talking but im still worried, she wa crying saying she has a really bad secret that no nore else knows, and she said something about a man? shes 14. So i asked her to tell me, and she said ''i cant, i would if i could cus i tell you everything but im scared!!'' in the end she didnt tell me. and im so worried, if shes keeping this to herself its going to be harder for her.
what sould i doo?
xx

2007-05-04 05:39:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've just turned 30 and I'm worrying whether I'm over the hill

2007-05-04 05:38:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to start going to alanon because of my husband and his drinking. If you have gone to alanon, did it help? I don't want to spend time there if it's just going to be a big rag session on the drinker/ex-drinker. I am looking for ways to overcome the issues of the past and move forward so that we can both heal. Any info or thoughts would be greatly appreciated.

2007-05-04 05:28:48 · 9 answers · asked by momofmodi 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What excuse did/do you use to justify cheating?

2007-05-04 05:27:06 · 16 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I started going out last summer. We eventually hit a bump when a guy said that they were going out, but he said he didn't realize we were going out. I broke up with her in october, and we didn't start talking again until march. After a while after we started talking again I saw her myspace page, and it seemed like she was REALLY depressed. She went on and on about how she lost the love of her life because some other guy was jealous and was trying to break us up. Now we're back together and she is a lot happier. She says I make her smile and laugh more than any other person ever. She says I am the only one that makes her feel like she means something. I respect her entirely. She recently told asked me to promise that as soon as we're both 18, we marry. I would love nothing more than to spend the rest of our lives together. I'm wondering if anyone thinks our relationship will last. Does anyone have any tips/comments/advice/anything that would help me?

2007-05-04 05:23:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello my married need help my husband and I are currently living apart we have 3 babies (1-2-3-) I know LOL, we are Christian and we both are in a leadership role at our church we both have issue that need to be fix I start working on my self and building up my self we have tried Marriage counseling (one session) so you know that did not work. We tried to talk about marriage and for while things started to get better but I know my husband have a strong hold and it need to be fix but he think it ok to teach the people of God and preach God words and all the word that he preach and teach do not applied to him it hurt because I want to living a whole and save life but my husband do not our whole marriage is really base on cheating, and lies, and I can not take it no more but on the another hand it hurts bad but I still love him why I ask my self that daily why …..
I know that God do not like this it hard it like I’m marriage but yet living a single life and It is kill me emotionally

2007-05-04 05:23:32 · 13 answers · asked by Jace J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've just finished my school days. I'll be doing many things tat other people do but I really wanted to do something very very unique at least for a week. I want to spare next week on that purpose. Can give me any bright idea?

2007-05-04 05:21:47 · 2 answers · asked by lonelywolf 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We got invited to my wife's cousin's wedding next month. So we got the invitation and sent it back. They just called us yesterday and said we are invited to come to the 350 people wedding BUT we can’t bring our 2 year old daughter.

They say that kids disrupt the wedding ceremony and the dinner at night and take away from the bride and groom.

I’m just floored that the mother of the groom called us to tell us that, not sure how to handle this situation. anyone else have to deal with this?

2007-05-04 05:21:41 · 25 answers · asked by rockystartz 2 in Weddings

2007-05-04 05:19:26 · 12 answers · asked by *RA RA* 5 in Marriage & Divorce