Family & Relationships - 4 May 2007

How old do you think the guy on the left is and the guy on the right.

Here is the picture: http://BDuta.photosite.com/Album1

Thanks for your help, it's actually for something productive.

2007-05-04 08:16:13 · 8 answers · asked by BINYAMIN D 1 in Singles & Dating

Women: How often do you assume that guys who are physically attractive (really hot, cute, handsome, gorgeous,etc) cheat on their s/o or with other women? Even if you were physically/initially attracted to him and that he asks you out. Would you be cautious or would you be physically intimate and could care less?

Why or why not?

2007-05-04 08:15:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-04 08:13:33 · 2 answers · asked by steven25t 7 in Singles & Dating

I really want to still be friends with her, just two weeks ago she said she loved me more than anything in the world and that no one could ever replace me, then we broke up, she dated someone else for two days and she broke up with him, I didnt talk to her all week then came over for two days and she was flirting with me like mad, I can tell shes very manic right now becuase last summer the same thing happened to me, one minute she said she loved me the next she couldnt stand me and called me all sorts of wicked things, I would like her back, but right now I dont care so much about that, I have known her for years and just want to still be friends, but she snapped at me this morning saying she doesnt want to be my friend anymore, that I was obssessed ( makes no sense I gave her space) and to go find new friends ( she said this same stuff last year) and that I was annoying, even though all last night she was flirting with me and let me play with her hair

2007-05-04 08:11:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-04 08:10:32 · 8 answers · asked by chu m 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
There is this 23 yr old man who gose on y!a and is flirting with me and im only 13!!! He sent me a picture (I dont want to say what it was though!) what should I say?
I dont mind the flirting and getting caled babe but I need you to tell me what to do and say!

Thank You.

2007-05-04 08:08:55 · 43 answers · asked by Lacadema (Role-player) 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a little heavier then your normal 17 year old about 200 pounds. my mother thinks its aweful and really wants me to lose wieght so whenever we go swimming or anything i always have to wear a girls 1 piece bathing suit. She says it makes me look less fat and better. I think it sucks and is soooo embarrising. heres a picure of the type of bathing suit i have to wear. This isnt the one i wear just the same type.
http://f5c.yahoofs.com/shopping/mcid7_26977/simg_t_t600332jpg110?rm_____D_zY6FEIC

Does this really make you looks skinnier?

2007-05-04 08:08:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im in 8th grade... i want to have sex with my boyfriend. now whenever were around eachother we get horny. i really want to. but im scared and feel like its wrong.

was anyone here in middle school when they lost their virginity?

is virginity overrated?

i really want to and i love him. hes my first love. but were only 14... dont think im gonna marry him just cause were so young now.

so i love him but prolly not gonna get married. is it worth it?

2007-05-04 08:07:20 · 37 answers · asked by christine 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay I am not even married.

But what is the most romantic date you can think of????

It has to cost under $200(everything included)
What city?
What place?
What actions?
What Questions?
What Comments?
What touches?
Paint the picture for me!!!
I am not romantic at all and I am about to loose my girlfriend becuase my idea of romatic is sex and left over pizza on my sofa.

2007-05-04 08:04:54 · 19 answers · asked by theman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-04 08:03:54 · 2 answers · asked by chu m 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think having sexual fantasies other than your partner is a way of cheating? If you have fantasies about someone you like a lot either real or unreal(meaning someone you haven't met yet) would you feel guilty about it? What do you think

2007-05-04 08:03:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

PLEASE READ ALL OF THIS BEFORE RESPONDING VERY VERY UPSET!!!

VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY UPSET!!! THIS IS LONG BUT PLEASE I’M CRYING HYSTERICALLY RIGHT NOW!!! WHILE TYPING THIS!!!

I would really like to know what you would do in my situation. This story is a bit long and I’m very upset and I apologize! I don’t know what to do. I’m sitting in the library crying right now because I’m so upset and frustrated with everything that has been going on so I beg of you to help me!! PLEASE HELP!!! It’S VERY LONG BUT I’M VERY UPSET PLEASE!!!!

It’s my senior year and so far everything has seemed to go wrong! (Literally) My biggest prom is my prom. Here’s how this “upsetting” situation began!

During April my friends and I were expected to purchase tickets for prom. They were on sale for one week and one week only. We had all agreed to purchase tickets on a Wednesday. Tuesday during our gym class this girl Stephanie came up to Me and this girl Neha and told the two of us that she had already bought tickets and had forgotten to tell us and that she was getting a limo with someone else as were the rest of our friends. We were a bit insulted and angered by all of this. Neha went home and cried. She told her mother what had happened and Neha’s mother called is very good friends with Stephanie’s mother. She demanded that Stephanie be allowed to sit in the limo with them and attend prom with them. Stephanie’s mother was so angered at what Stephanie did that she told Stephanie that she would not be allowed to attend prom unless she included Neha.
Nobody in the limo really “likes” Neha and honestly there is always drama when she is around. Neha and this one girl Ashley who will be in the limo always fight and I knew there would be problems. To avoid the drama all together I decided to attend my boyfriend’s prom. He goes to a different high school and is a senior as well. I had went to his junior prom and really enjoyed myself.
Well, About two weeks ago my boyfriend and I broke up and I met another guy named Zach. Zach was a junior and really wanted to attend prom with me. I really wanted to go so I paid $200.00 for tickets through a friend who was selling them. I was so excited. About a half hour after Zach found out I spent $200.00 on tickets he dumped me and said he never really liked me and had no intention of honestly going to prom with me!
My ex the one I had broken up with saw how upset I was and saw what Zach had done to me. We got over our break up and began dating again. He told me he would come to my prom now instead of attend his because I had already purchased the tickets. Everything was set...so we thought!
Well, we had to sign up for tables for prom this past week. I decided to sign up with a few “acquaintances” of mine because I knew if I sat with my friends that were going there would be drama with Neha & Ashley and I REALLY wanted to avoid that at ALL costs! So I signed up and then they told me to erase my name because they did not want me to sit there and there table was already full.
I said fine and looked through the people who had already signed there names up for tables and saw a best friend of mine I had known for 12 years of my life. He had asked me about a month ago If I wanted to sit at his table but I said no because I did not think I was going to our prom! Well, there were available seats so I put our name’s down. The next day he came up to me screaming at me telling me I ruined his prom and he crossed both of our names out on the sheet and now we have NOWHERE to sit!
I’m really hurt! My grades are suffering I’ve cried every single day this week. I have the most perfect dress in the entire world and I really want to wear it! I don’t know what to do. I have not been happy since all this prom crap started. I’ve never cried so much as I have this week and I’ve never been backstabbed as much as I have this past year.

PLEASE JUST TELL ME IF YOU WERE IN MY SITUATION WOULD YOU EVEN BOTHER GOING ANYMORE??? I’M SO HURT BY EVERYTHING!!!!

2007-05-04 08:02:13 · 25 answers · asked by LiL Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter turns 15 tomorrow. She lives in another state with her Dad. I gave him custody during the divorce.

He moved due to job reasons and left her in his mother's care. I went to stay with them for a few weeks, but could not adjust to his ways and stay longer.

I sent her some things for her birthday. I just spoke with her and she was very angry with me. I left the house when she was at school and did not tell her that I was leaving.

She said that she is managing okay. I have not called her since I got back. I have been e-mailing and checking her status on Facebook.

She is right to be angry with me. I know I deserved whatever reaction I got from her.

I can't deal with myself though. I know my actions were wrong and I don't deserve to be forgiven. I should have somehow sacrificed my comfort for my child. She is not doing well in school now either.

I have asked my ex-husband to send my child to me and he does not agree.

2007-05-04 08:01:12 · 11 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

yep....im getting a little bit older, and now i can watch time pass by as i thought i would fall in love. i always said ohh im going to give myself to a woman and be her one and only and be the best dood for her, have sex with only her, but obviously it aint happning due to my old age. i knew i shoulda just had sex with the 1st person avaliable, but anyway back on point, at what age do you just give up and throw in the towel lose all hope of ever finding lovebeacuse i think im there right now, and yes ive searched for love, in the highest places, and the lowest places, approached female after female, and not one single date, so me being lazy isent the answer cz i tried very hard

2007-05-04 07:58:48 · 12 answers · asked by themanthemanfrozen 2 in Singles & Dating

I was at work and had to go home so that she could go and see her dad at the hospital, and when she called; it sounded as if he was about to die.
I just told her that now im gonna miss out on my bonus and she got mad.
Should I just drop it and not bring it back up?
It was my first chance at this bonus and I missed it by 3%.
I know that family comes first.
I guess I was just an expensive baby sitter, even though its my own baby.

I just want to know what some of you would have done?

2007-05-04 07:57:02 · 22 answers · asked by jetski 2 in Family

my new husband and I have just celebrated our 1st year anniversary. I thought things would just sort of level out, but their getting worse. He had an image in his mind of who and what kind of person I was, and is disappointed that I'm not the fantasy he emagined. I'm ten years younger than him and I really want to make this work. I have 4 boys in two elementry school who live with their dad and one high school and 1 in middle school wich lives with us, and his kids have are in or graduated collage , I'm worried he just dosen't want to start it all over again espesially if I get custidy of my younger boys back. I just need some advise to get our lives on track so to speak.

2007-05-04 07:55:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hmm coz i think i am *day-dreaming*

2007-05-04 07:54:03 · 7 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you say to him/her? Please help, I am very interested in what kind of reponses I should give to him.

2007-05-04 07:53:19 · 36 answers · asked by worried mother 1 in Family

I'm having a Victorian style, June wedding with swans and red roses (not real swans...). For my favors we are looking into getting/making chocolate swans. Our back-up plan is to fill the little plastic swans with candy. What do you think should go in them? We are trying to avoid the tackiness that usually comes with those plastic swans...

2007-05-04 07:51:16 · 17 answers · asked by BooBoo 3 in Weddings

I remember when my little sister was about 7 years old. My dad had just received a phone call from a telemarketer. He got off the phone and said "Darn those telemarketers!" My sister inquired what telemarketers were. My dad told her that they were people who generally tried to give you something that you didn't want.

"If you answer the phone and don't hear anybody speak for about 2 minutes then just hang up."
"OK Daddy" my sister said.
Later that day, I was sitting on the couch reading when the phone rang. My sister said "I'll get it." She answered the phone and said "Hello?" She must have noticed the pause and looked over an whispered "I think its a telmarter." And she waited. Well you know how they generally come on and say "Hello may I please speak with __________." Well this telemarketer said (she told me afterwards) "May I please speak with Adam?" All of a sudden I hear her say "Well Hell, you don't need MY permission!" and she hung up! It was classic! U have any?

2007-05-04 07:50:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-04 07:49:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if we love in life can we love in death more?

2007-05-04 07:47:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll try to be brief. I got a call from his HR dept at work asking me if I knew where he was, if he was sick etc.. Apparently he hasn't shown up for work since Monday and will be fired. I'm so upset, I know he hates his job so much (sales) b/c he has to follow up on alot of paperwork and has to meet a quota but he also know we desperately need his extra income. He would get up and get dressed like he was going to work. He picked up the kids from school at 2:30 this week saying he was on the "field" so he had time & i notice the house looked messy when i got home like he was there all day . l'm hurt b/c this aside he's a great dad and seemingly good husband. When I told him about the HR call he said it was a mixup with regard to voice mail and he spoke to his boss (whom I spoke to today and said this was a lie and she hasn't heard from his since last week). I hate him so much for doing this to me and our kids. I'm blinded with our years 2gether any help is appreciated. Thank you.

2007-05-04 07:47:17 · 14 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you see she is married(for now any way) to my cousin and i told both of them i didnt want to be invovled in this bullsh*t. what the hell am i suppose to say. neither one of them deserves that kid the way there acting(and no i'm not taking the kid even though i do love him. he's 4)

2007-05-04 07:46:37 · 9 answers · asked by nylotto5k 1 in Friends

My husband and I met when I was twelve and he was 16. We both agreed I was very young, but neither of us wanted to ever be with anyone else. For two years we hung out, and on my fourteenth birthday, with both families in full support, we got married. We both come from very liberal, "hippie" families, and my mother was married when she was 17. I'm seventeen now, and my husband and I love each other still so much. We have our own house, and he's planning to go to Harvard Law School next year. I'm headed to RISD the fall. I just want you all to know we aren't... a weird, hick kind of people. We are both educated, intelligent people. However, we were married so young. He's 21 now, and we are both changing a lot, but our love just seems to be stronger and stronger.
Is this real, or just a long time infatuation?
Is it weird that we were married so young?

2007-05-04 07:46:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we've been together for a few days when she says she suddenly doesn't want to be in a relationship. so we aren't together anymore, but it isn't a breakup. we still love each other. when should i ask again?

2007-05-04 07:46:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Long term Relationship break up

2007-05-04 07:46:01 · 7 answers · asked by tenacious__E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom will be visiting my aunt in texas in july. she asked me to buy the ticket for her and she would repay me. being that my mom is not working and on permanant disabillity i thought i would ask my 3 brothers and my sister for all of us to pitch in $80 for the ticket, since the total is $400. my brothers were fine with it and happy to do it. however my b i t c h a s s sister was like "why"? "she has money" i am so upset because my mom watches her son for her and she is so ungreatful. the question is how do i tell my mom that she didn't pitch in without hurting her feelings. i dont want her giving her credit for this too when she didnt contribute to it!

2007-05-04 07:45:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Mine is a guy who asked me to go out for a drink and we went to a gas station where he proceeded to buy a "tall-boy" beer to "split" with me. LOL I SWEAR IT'S TRUE! I suddenly got sick (in his car) and went home. This AFTER we went to a fast food drive-thru and ate in the car! CHEAPEST GUY I EVER MET!

2007-05-04 07:44:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

separated for like 4years

2007-05-04 07:44:51 · 11 answers · asked by timsbabe 5 in Marriage & Divorce