I really want to still be friends with her, just two weeks ago she said she loved me more than anything in the world and that no one could ever replace me, then we broke up, she dated someone else for two days and she broke up with him, I didnt talk to her all week then came over for two days and she was flirting with me like mad, I can tell shes very manic right now becuase last summer the same thing happened to me, one minute she said she loved me the next she couldnt stand me and called me all sorts of wicked things, I would like her back, but right now I dont care so much about that, I have known her for years and just want to still be friends, but she snapped at me this morning saying she doesnt want to be my friend anymore, that I was obssessed ( makes no sense I gave her space) and to go find new friends ( she said this same stuff last year) and that I was annoying, even though all last night she was flirting with me and let me play with her hair
2007-05-04 08:11:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wouldnt let me hug or kiss her because she said we were broken up, but we slept in the same bed and in her sleep she kept curling up closer to me, but now she wants nothing to do with me after all I have done for her and how much I've been there, I really want this girl in my life.. friend, girlfriend whatever, Shes done this to me before because of a Manic episode and snapped out of it in September, but my memory of that is so foggy from pushing it aside that I cant remember every way she acted, just that I know this is a manic episode.. what should I do?? I mean even this morning I asked if she still cared about me and she said yes, but I was annoying her. Same way she acted last year.. I want to be friends..maybe more.. someday.. what can I do?
2007-05-04 08:14:02 · update #1
I want to still be her friend
2007-05-04 08:21:50 · update #2
You are have begun a destructive trend in your life and you are too young to go through this. If a partner jerks you around more than once you absolutely have to get away. Lots of us really like and care for someone whom you don't want to let go of but if we know it is destructive to us we have to be strong and let go. It doesn't matter how old they are, it will continue and you do not want to be washed away with it. GO.
2007-05-04 08:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've experienced something of the like. Dump her.
She's never going to be in a relationship with just you and her, she will always be looking for greener grass and you will always be on guard about it. That is no way to live.
You deserve someone that will just focus on you in a relationship without having to worry about what else she may be doing.
When you do break up, suggest she get some counseling, she seems to have issues and maybe some professional help may help her. However, don't stay in the relationship with the hopes that she may get better, let some other guy that would try to take your girlfriend take responsibility of that mess.
2007-05-04 08:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by darthsuraka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She's just trying to cause you the same amount of pain she feels you caused her. Life is too short for childish bs like that. leave her to her pathetic head games.
2007-05-04 08:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. Change the locks. Change your phone number. Tell her to go away. DO NOT LET HER BACK IN. You may be very sorry if you do. She needs help.
2007-05-04 08:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by magix151 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋