Family & Relationships - 4 May 2007

Okay....so who has done this? Some of you prob. gone to craigslist's "casual encounters" section. Do they work, have what have your experiences, posting online for a hook up? Did you host or she host ? how awkard or dangerous was it ? Just answer with any experience you had or heard about this...

Thanks.

2007-05-04 03:34:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you were married for 21 years and your spouse gave you the option to either find a friend to have threesomes with and occasional nights out or get a divorce, what would you choose? Do you think your spouse would really follow through with the divorce if you choose not to have a threesome?

2007-05-04 03:34:20 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-04 03:33:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-05-04 03:30:13 · 4 answers · asked by rebel 1 in Singles & Dating

Our power and other utilities are getting disconnected and our agreement was that I pay the mortgage (which takes one whole paycheck) and he pays the utilities. Nothing is getting paid and I have had to try to pay everything myself to keep things going. We have two children and recently received notice that our home is in foreclosure. Does anyone agree to divorce and let lenders have the house. We are already in Ch. 13 so there's no more bankruptcy options. I believe he is spending his money on drugs and gambling. How do I tell my kids Mommy doesn't want Daddy living with her anymore? Help, I've cried for days and have no family to help me or talk to. My parents are dead and extended family have all passed also.

2007-05-04 03:28:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

have u ever regretted dumping your boyfriend - the one u thought was the one simply because you needed space/time - or maybe u want to test the waters - see if the grass is greener on the other side? When u know that ur boyfriend was almost perfect (no such thing as perfect) - u know he would have done anything for you would have been there for u no matter what, and he loved u with all his heart - very romantic - feelings were mutual between the two of u - very much in love, talking about marriage and kids - moving in together, etc - knowing and telling each other that u were the one to spend the rest of ur life with - will girls be willing to throw that all away - just for a stupid reason like that? If yes - describe if u would go back, or what happened? would u go back if u knew that u broke his heart and hurt him so badly? and can there be trust after this?

2007-05-04 03:28:00 · 7 answers · asked by questions 1 in Singles & Dating

right now at this very moment my soon to be ex husband is in court finalizing our divorce.
I am so bummed.

2007-05-04 03:27:47 · 36 answers · asked by carolyn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i had a secret relationship with my neighborhood. he has a gf and i have a bf. I ended our relationship, coz i know that what were doing is wrong..my problem is, i was really hurt on what happend and worst is he's always on my mind....hhhuuuuhhhh, i dont know what to do..

2007-05-04 03:26:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a secret relationship my neighborhood. he has a gf and i have a bf. I ended our relationship, coz i know that what were doing is wrong..my problem is, i was really hurt on what happend and worst is he's always on my mind....hhhuuuuhhhh, i dont know what to do..

2007-05-04 03:25:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love a guy and we r planning to get married. we know each other for almost 3 yrs. however recently (like in the last yr) we have had many arguments-some a bit serious, some not , although in the end i feel they all were not worth it- . He is now saying that we need to think well about our decision and that if we get married in a hurry we might end up divorcing in the 1st few months of marriage.
I have started working on things that i do that annoy him and he also has started doing the same.for the past few days it seems we r getting better, no arguments.
How healthy is arguing is? and can u pls tell me ur opinion about the whole issue.
I feel that its good that we argue sometimes, coz if we dont then there's something wrong in our relationship and we might discover it after we get married

2007-05-04 03:24:57 · 18 answers · asked by Samra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-04 03:23:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonnex 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy on an internet dating site, and we hit it off immediately. Since then we have had 3 dates so far and he told me that he is falling in love with me.

But the problem is 1. he has cancelled on me many times just before a date 2. he hardly ever answers his phone when I call him, his excuse is that he is working. But I find it hard to believe that he has to work late into the night, sometimes up to 10 pm. I spoke to him yesterday and he says that I worry too much. But something just doesn't add up, he hardly can make time for me, whats going on????? HELP!!! because I really like him.

2007-05-04 03:22:42 · 6 answers · asked by munchkin 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that when someone cheated once before in a previous relationship that they are bound to do it again? My boyfriend and I have made 6 months together and things are great we dont crowd eachother and i dont poke into his personal stuff(cell phone email ) and vice versa but i was just reading something in a book and it just kind of bothered me. My boyfriend admitted to cheating in a previous relationship because he got bored and it wasnt serious and i was starting to think if that could happen to us if the term once a cheater always a cheater is true

2007-05-04 03:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by Lizzy 1 in Singles & Dating

ex: should they kiss or just gold hands? should they go somewhere formal, or somewhere casual? should they go by themselves, or on a double-date?

2007-05-04 03:17:26 · 8 answers · asked by qtpie16707 3 in Singles & Dating

I earn more than my husband but we want another child so i really him to earn more. He is angry that i dont love him the way he is but i am only 24 and i really want to set up our family so we dont have to worry about money. Im worried this is going to break us up. Any advise?

2007-05-04 03:13:47 · 23 answers · asked by mel_24 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Sad or emotional story that has happened in their lives.

2007-05-04 03:12:14 · 8 answers · asked by Jayyyz 2 in Friends

okay. so i had a boyfriend for almost four months. we went out a couple years ago for about a year. we broke up and got back together in january of this year. everything has been fine. until yesterday. out of the blue he breaks up with me. he says he has too much on his mind. i asked him what was on his mind and he said school, his mom, his neice, and his dad. there is nothing bad going on at school. he's passing all his classes. his mom is getting ready to have back surgery. his neice...i don't really know what is going on in that area but i know his sister just had her second baby yesterday and she's only 19. he's seventeen and has a neice and a nephew already. and there is nothing going on with hes dad. i asked him what any of that had to do with dumping me. and he replied that he didn't want a girlfriend through it all. wouldn't you think that he would want a girlfriend to help him through these things? then he's like well you live right next door maybe we'll get back together in

2007-05-04 03:12:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone always says "oh don't worry, you'll find someone, you'll find the right person, there's someone for everyone, it WILL happen", but they don't really know what will happen. There are plenty of people out there who never find the "right person" or anyone. So why do people always tell singles that they WILL find someone, let alone the right person? I think when people say stuff like this it should be taken as an insult.

2007-05-04 03:10:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it's about the only way to make cheating worse is to do it with your bf's partner...

2007-05-04 03:10:21 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Particularly remembering punchlines.

2007-05-04 03:10:15 · 23 answers · asked by carqueen1 4 in Singles & Dating

Complete please.

2007-05-04 03:07:07 · 19 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-04 03:06:46 · 19 answers · asked by january_fowler 2 in Weddings

if you did/are... was/is it because of your religion, or did you just want to?

and if not... what age did you loose it or plan on loosing it? and do you regret it?

2007-05-04 03:01:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got out of a really bad relationship and it hurt, Im looking for someone to take that place.

Im 16 (about to be 17) and I live near Houston (45 mins away). Im 5'8'', and my eyes are hazel.

I dont want a guy to like just becuase of what i look like, im not looking for sex, i want something not so serious but can turn into something serious.

i play the clarinet, i like to swim and be outside. I work at a grocery store--so i do have income. (not a free loader)
i wanna have fun and quit being so down all the time. i like to go out and have fun.

p.s. that last question wasnt serious!!! lol

2007-05-04 03:00:30 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-04 02:55:59 · 8 answers · asked by Mommyof2angels 3 in Family

my husband and i have been together 16 years.we have a 4 year old and a seven year old.the problem is he loses his temper at everthing.he is a good provider,doesnt cheat,is normal in every other way-cries at sad movies,my family loves him. he loses his temper at the drop of a dime.example-he hates talking about money. i feel i have to because its just normal to talk about finances but he will get mad at me and say-:why do you have to start this crap"-your stupid, you dont think right-ect .if hes mad about work or if me or the kids bring something up he dont like-he blows up-starts throwing plates,remotes anything that is in the way.my parents know,but my mom says my dad had a bad temper-which i remember, but i wasnt abused or anything-my husband never hit.he just says things he doesnt mean-and evertime apoligizes for what he said. we have been dealing with this for at least 12 years.iof course i lash out at him and say things i dont mean.somebody please tell me what i can do.

2007-05-04 02:55:52 · 23 answers · asked by renee p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-04 02:55:30 · 12 answers · asked by Eric E 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy in my class i like he asked me if i would ever kiss a guy like him and i said why and he say because he wanted to kiss me and so i said yes that i would kiss a guy like him the next day he came over to me and kissed me then like twenty minutes later he did again and then he had to leave to go to work and came over and gave me another kiss now we have kissed 5 times 2 times french kiss and he wants to again but im confused does he like me or does he just want someone to kiss?? ps.write after he asked me the question he started bein really nice to me and started calling me if he does like me how do i ask him out im shy !!!!

2007-05-04 02:53:39 · 4 answers · asked by girly_girlhh 4 in Singles & Dating

Here's the story. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We dated for 6 months before he moved in. I have a 4 year old son as well. The past 4-5 months, things have been really tense around the house. We don't connect like we used to. I really love him, but I can tell he's not happy. I think he's only staying because he doesn't want to hurt me. I'm a strong woman and I'll be fine on my own. (I've been single before) I just don't know what to do. I think we need to talk about it...I really think it would be best if he moved back home for a while if nothing else. I don't really want to break up..I just think he needs to be alone for a while and decide what he really wants. What is the best way to go abhout this? Should I just suggest that he move out? I love him dearly and don't want him to think that I don't want to see him...but I can tell that he's not happy. Please....give me some advice!! My heart is hurting, but I want us both to be happy.

2007-05-04 02:51:04 · 14 answers · asked by Justinsmom 3 in Singles & Dating

If they aren't, please help me understand why they won't give living in the same neighborhood a try. They still move in the summer when African Americans move in. It's crazy, we work together, then go to separate train stations at the end of the day.

2007-05-04 02:48:13 · 21 answers · asked by Lady J 3 in Marriage & Divorce