Is it true that when someone cheated once before in a previous relationship that they are bound to do it again? My boyfriend and I have made 6 months together and things are great we dont crowd eachother and i dont poke into his personal stuff(cell phone email ) and vice versa but i was just reading something in a book and it just kind of bothered me. My boyfriend admitted to cheating in a previous relationship because he got bored and it wasnt serious and i was starting to think if that could happen to us if the term once a cheater always a cheater is true
2007-05-04 03:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by Lizzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you just have to have faith that he wouldn't cheat on you but don't be blinded by love either. kinda "sleep with one eye open" thing
2007-05-06 02:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by flirtalicious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how serious the relationship was. Was he living with her when he cheated? How committed was she to him? My personal belief is that it will probably happen again unless he is a very different man than he was. It could be years from now but a leopard does not change its spots. Unless the man has undergone a Damascene conversion then I would not bet the farm on him remaining faithful. He may be now but did he admit to cheating after you asked him about it or did he just tell you because he was sharing?
2007-05-04 03:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by pwwatson8888 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a matter of time, he will soon get bored of you as well. Who knows he probably would have said same things to his previous girl too . I think some people are born morons and they can never change, once he find a better girl than you he will dump you as well. Infact you probably like his company since he probably is a bad boy..trust me..no girl likes a "NICE" guy.
2007-05-04 03:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dats not true b/c I cheated once on someone and I will NEVER do it again even if I am bored!! because if u do there is no in even sticign wit that relationship if you cant be faithful and yah if they do cheat on you put dem out the door and NEVER let me come back in no matter how much you love dem
2007-05-04 03:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the age of the person when they cheated. If he was a teenager then no. A person does a lot of growing and maturing in their twenties. If he was an adult when he cheated then yes.
2007-05-04 03:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jbuns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only true as long as the guy wants to cheat --- if he makes a decision and commitment not to cheat --- i was a cheater and since i met my lady i am not interested in any other lady now or in the future
2007-05-04 03:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. If the incentive for cheating is high people cheat. and mostly they would if they think they would not be caught.So a high probability for 'once a cheater, always a cheater'.
2007-05-04 03:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by sylvester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if you have cheated once you will do it again. If your boyfriend was tired of the relationship he should of just broke up with his ex. You better watch him!!!
2007-05-04 03:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by lovely Gabbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say yes
2007-05-04 03:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt always happen..if he loves u it wont
2007-05-04 03:22:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋