I met this guy on an internet dating site, and we hit it off immediately. Since then we have had 3 dates so far and he told me that he is falling in love with me.
But the problem is 1. he has cancelled on me many times just before a date 2. he hardly ever answers his phone when I call him, his excuse is that he is working. But I find it hard to believe that he has to work late into the night, sometimes up to 10 pm. I spoke to him yesterday and he says that I worry too much. But something just doesn't add up, he hardly can make time for me, whats going on????? HELP!!! because I really like him.
2007-05-04 03:22:42 · 6 answers · asked by munchkin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, 9 times out of 10 he probably not only met you on an internet dating site, but someone else. Someone doesn't tell you that they're falling in love with you after only 3 dates. When you have a "feeling" about something, more than likely its true! Forget about him.... Hey, have some fun! Don't call him.... wait for him to call you, and then cancel at the last minute. Don't make yourself so available to him. If he continues to call, and try to set-up dates, then he really wants to be with you. If he doesn't continue to call, DROP HIM!! Also, internet dating can be tricky, be careful!!
2007-05-04 03:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's dating several people. Hello, you met him online, why wouldn't he be going out with other girls he met online as well, just juggling you guys around "working til 10", etc. He's weighing his options with each of you, and if one cancels plans, he can just call up a diff date.
2007-05-04 10:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by Svetlana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he may fall for you but sad to say he doesn't want to get serious involvement yet. His intentions just fade away. Find true love somewhere else. Move on.
2007-05-04 10:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Angelique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him for a little while. Don't let him think he's got you wrapped around his little finger. Don't call him.
2007-05-04 10:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by Fern O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Men are strange creatures at best and don't even understand themselves.
2007-05-04 10:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is either married or have a gf...I think he is just paying with u and not really interested in u..forget him and move on..ur just wasting time on him
2007-05-04 10:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋