Well my mates been fru alot in her life, and she normanly tells me about it. But the other day she got really drunk and i no it was the drink talking but im still worried, she wa crying saying she has a really bad secret that no nore else knows, and she said something about a man? shes 14. So i asked her to tell me, and she said ''i cant, i would if i could cus i tell you everything but im scared!!'' in the end she didnt tell me. and im so worried, if shes keeping this to herself its going to be harder for her.
what sould i doo?
xx
2007-05-04 05:39:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think I can answer this the best that is bcoz my friends and strangers trust me and tell me their secrets.
Earn the trust! Dont force her to tell u anything thats bcoz if she tells u by ur force then that would probably a lie.
So give her time and be there with an open ear.
She will tell u once she trust u! till then just wait and dont keep asking her about the secret just tell her that u know she has something in her heart and if she likes to share it with u any day then she can and u will keep that in ur heart safely!
2007-05-04 05:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it from her view.If she tells you you'll only burst her bubble.U know that you wouldn't but she fears that you would.You only want the best for your friend.I know that.Don't forse her into saying anything but mabye get her to talk in confidence with someone.If not i know this may sound stupid but if shes scared get her to call one of those helpline you know childline and all that they deal with stuff like that ,teen problems and al that stuff .Try and be as supportive as you can .Just wait she'll tell u whens shes ready don't forse her into any thing she don't want to.
2007-05-04 05:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by madovermusic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the phone book, and look up a crises hot-line, or a youth hot-line.
Give her the number, and tell her she needs to talk to SOMEONE.
They won't know who she is, but that can and will help her.
2007-05-04 07:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient,she will tell you when she is ready to talk ,if and when she tells you be supportive
2007-05-04 05:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by lebinah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be if she want you to know shell tell you.
We all have our dirty little secrets.
Wanna know mine?
I used to be male
2007-05-04 05:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
number one, keep away from alcohol!
number two, she will talk when she is ready
patience friend
2007-05-04 05:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be raped.did she came from germany?
2007-05-04 05:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by lostIP 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait........she'll tell you when.......she is ready.........or you can tell her........dat you'll be there for her.........when she is ready to talk
2007-05-04 05:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋