She stopped calling me or texting me on Sunday after I missed her calls since I was busy with school. She texted me two days later saying "Im sorry. just couldn't do it anymore". I said "Sorry to hear that. Hope you find someone who makes you happy" (At this point of trying to make her happy for four months I am tired). She wrote back "Me too". Then I wrote "There's a better way to do these things since we have been together for six months. I don't have a chance and never will until you do something to get better (she is always depressed). I said she doesn't have to believe me and have a good night. That was last night, haven't heard from her. Think she is completely done? What should I do? Make no contact? See if she misses me? Or does her text mean its over?
2007-05-04 06:07:36 · 17 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make no contact. Move on with your life.
2007-05-04 06:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm tough one. You know, I'm going through a somewhat similar situation myself. We're on a "break" of sorts, because he said he needed to back away from everything for a while and fix his life so he can be happy again. He's depressed, and said he doesn't like the person that he is now. If she is unhappy with her life, I'd say back away from her and give her space. Sometimes it is hard being around people you care about when you are down and depressed. Let her know you are there for her if she ever needs to talk. If she comes back to you, she's yours. I know it's hard to let someone go, believe me this has been the hardest thing I've ever gone through. Just continue your life, keep yourself busy, but no matter what ANYONE tells you, follow your heart. If your gut is telling you that she'll come back to you, listen to it. It's probably right.
2007-05-04 13:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it's pretty much over. But if you care for her and don't want to end this relationship, I would suggest sitting down with her face to face and talk through this. Find out where her head is right now. She sounds like she's trying too hard to please you because she's insecure. Which, I'm sure is a total turn off. But like I said if you care for her talk to her. If you end up together again, compliment her often, tell her if she does something, even if it's trivial, that you like. I know it's not your job to bring her out of this depression, but it'll sure help with her self esteem and make her seem more attractive to you. If you don't want to get back with her, leave things the way they are and just let it be. The relationship is over, don't worry about it.
2007-05-04 13:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's over,sorry. The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy,get over it and move on. I know it's tough but in time you'll meet someone who is probably better suited to you.
2007-05-04 13:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and move on. It's really hard because it's a huge change in your life for the time being. Fill your empty space with something constructive and before you know it you'll meet someone else.
2007-05-04 13:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by BoTheDrummer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just text her a smiley face and a <3 and everything will be peachy. Does anyone do things via CONVERSATION anymore?
Oh, and it sounds pretty over, move on dude.
2007-05-04 13:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Bigglesworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sounds like its over... just give her her time alone for a while. if she thinks she made a mistake and wants to make things work then she'll let you know.. and she should do it because shes the one who broke it off not you... good luck
2007-05-04 13:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jaime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is leave her alone if she wants to be with you she would but she told you that she can't do it anymore so just give her some space and accept it.
2007-05-04 13:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. Just stop texting her.
2007-05-04 13:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by Taryn K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make no contact and move on.She'll probably miss you and try to contact you again but don't take her back.You deserve better.Her problems are not for you to fix.
2007-05-04 13:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by one_man_gang2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋