One of my girlfriends is always blabbing about her sex life to me and always asking me about mine. I try to change the subject to more appropriate topics but somehow she always steers it back to sex. I don't feel comfortable putting my business in the street. Especially not to her. She is good people but I don't want to hear about her bedroom adventures. That info should be kept between her and who she does it with. How do I ask her to cool it without hurting her feelings?
2007-05-04 06:10:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Just tell her. The next time she starts up put up your hand as if you are a cop directing cars to stop. You don't want to hear it and you've told her. She doesn't seem to worry about hurting your feelings.
2007-05-04 06:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by Beach Saint 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say exactly what you just told everyone. You need to be honest with her and tell her how you feel. And let her know that you don't feel comfortable knowing all of her business. Also try to make something good out of it and that its more intimate when you keep that business to yourself. And you are not lying. I used to be just like your friend until I started keeping my adventures between me and my fiance. It's actually pretty cool because it's a bedroom secret that only you and you man know. Good Luck!
2007-05-04 13:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by alexbeauty333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely don't discuss ANYTHING personal with her, that you don't want made public.
As for her discussing things that you don't care to hear about, simply be honest with her. Tell her you enjoy her as a friend but the sex talk is uncomfortable for you and you really would prefer not to discuss it at all. You know there's much more in her life than that, so would love to talk about other things she has going on. Let her know that's just something you consider very private and although it's a popular topic for many, it's just not your cup o' tea.
Hopefully she'll respect your desires...otherwise, if she keeps bringing up sex simply say "that's not something I care to discuss, what else shall we talk about?" and then move on...
2007-05-04 13:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are your options....
1) straight up tell her you don't feel comfortable sharing sexy time stories
2) continue changing the subject and suffering inside
3) tell her you are becoming a nun
Me thinks 1 is the best course of action. Your call. Good luck.
2007-05-04 13:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by The Cincinnati Kid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's easy, that's what ive been looking for.. let her ask me.. (joke).. i mean, i am open with these talks.. im just so curious about you miss princess.. i think you are pretty and may look great.. 'cause you always have some links about the topic sex.. its a great topic really, maybe we can relate some ideas..
2007-05-05 06:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you're uncomfortable discussing something like sex because you find it too personal. that shouldn't hurt her feelings because you don't really talk about it with anyone so it's not like it's just her!
2007-05-04 13:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by JM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAY STOP
YOUR GETTING TOO PERSONAL
YOUR MAKING ME UNCOMFORTABLE
THE END
2007-05-04 13:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the truth. tell her your feelins.
2007-05-04 13:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋