i've been dating this guy for about 2 months now and i really like and he really likes me but, we are both very busy! Every week day i only see him for about 5 minutes and thats when he is walking me to one of my classes, n then later in the night after we get done with our practices/games we talk on the phone for awhile. so normally the only time that we have one on one time is on the week end but last weekend i saw 1 day and we weren't even alone n then this weekend im going to his game and then have to leave right away cause i have to work, and maybe if we are luck we hang out alil on sunday. I don't know what to do we are both so busy but i really do like him and miss him so what should i do? Do you think this will last?
2007-05-04 04:42:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds good. If you both really like each other it can last. Don't let the negatives get you down. Many people have busy lives and don't get to spend the time they'd like with their friends and loved one. Sounds like you already try to get every bit of time in that you can even if it just a minute here and a minute there.....Go with it......if its meant to be, nothing will stop it.
Always remember the quote...
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder"
People that spend too much time together often times have more problems than those that have to spread their time thin. When you dont have as much time together, you cherish the time you do get and that special person alot more.
Good Luck!!
2007-05-04 04:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want it to last it will me and my guy are adults and we live together and we dont get much time together either but you have to do what you have to do and dont let time ruin your relationship being away from each other is sometimes good cause when you do see each other it makes it that much better so dont worry and dont let it stress you out just hang in there things will get better when I first started seeing my guy because we didnt live together and we both worked totally diffrent hour we only got maybe a half of an hour together everyday on my lunch break and on the weekends we sometime didnt even see each other at all but the time we did have was great even though it wasnt that long and now we live together so even though we both work and usually when he gets home I am already falling asleep we get to sleep in the same bed and hold each other every night so dont worry things will get better over time
2007-05-04 11:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty this does not sound much like dating to me. This is okay because it seems as if you have A WHOLE LOT going on. That is great. Why don't you try putting a relationship on hold until the summer when you will have more time to devote to one another? In the mean time keep doing what you are doing as far as hooking up when you can, but keep it as friends for now because you can not have a meaningful relationship without fully knowing someone and you can not get to know anyone in 5 min intervals.
2007-05-04 11:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you both like each other and he is as busy as you then it might last. If he has alot of free time on his hands and he is young as your question seems to show then he may wander. Young guys like attention and if he has free time you dont he is going to look for that attention elsewhere sooner or later. Remember this is just a guy, you dont need to change your life for him. If he really really wants you, then he will find a way to work around it. One thing you could do is map out your schedules way in advance so you can identify free time you can share with each other and plan to make that extra special.
2007-05-04 11:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by mraandmisse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANYTHING is possible if you TRULY want it. Things will be scarce, but you both really like each other, and want it to work, then it is possible. You will have to establish an understanding so that it can work out. You'll also have to sacrifice (the both of you) if you want to be able to spend time together. For example, request a weekend off so that if your going to his game, you can spend time together after-wards. Don't get me wrong, it won't be easy. It will take to TWO of you to make it happen. Good Luck!
2007-05-04 11:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by mylinda2239 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work as long as its not a continual thing... I mean Military families are separated from 6- 18 months but they still make it... its all about trust and communication...
Good luck and God Bless
2007-05-04 11:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um... I hope so but i don't really know. If you two really like each other then yea, but if you or him meets someone else you really like and can spend more time with then, well you know the rest... but on the bright side, absence makes the heart grow founder
2007-05-04 11:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by :Dazed and Confused: 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of you both like eachother you will both find the time and it will work for both of you. i know there are alot of things that you are busy with but your never too busy for a person you care about
2007-05-04 11:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by Ange 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are busy, then find the time to spend together, or better yet, go on a romantic vacation together.
2007-05-04 11:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by Louise Smith 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want it to work you will find a way to make it work!!
They say the best love is the missing love!!
2007-05-04 11:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋