I hate my job, poor as hell $1000. a month after taxes, the people are lazy and keep tossing more crap my way.
The main thing is my abusive, sometimes violent fiance'.
I left him 8 months ago because he hit me again. I started dating someone, fell for them too fast just to lose him because of something mean I said. I still think of him after 5 months of no contact. :( Which sent me running back to the jerk. Who I do love, and know inside and out, he is mostly sweet and we are very close. But he screams at me often, acts like he will hit me, cusses, over anything, like if I don't clean. But how can I clean when I would rather die? I want to leave him but can't afford to live on my own, I can't even drive! I fancy the idea of marrying a man with SOME money, I'm not a gold digger but security looks nice right now, and I think I could love anyone if he was just a bit nicer than who I have now. But I am so lame I can't even be alone to find someone else.
2007-05-04 05:14:35 · 5 answers · asked by pdx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER. Think of people that may have it worse than you and stop being helpless and do something about your troubles. First of all if you dont make enough money where you are then find yourself a school where you can get an education. Based on your income you qualify for financial aid. Learn how to drive so you dont have to depend on anyone to take you places. and about the guy: LEAVE HIM because he won't stop hitting you and it will get worse and worse as time goes by. Trust me, I know. If he gets violent, get a restraining order. Carry Mace with you at all times. You can order it online for like 10.00. I learned after going through worse crap that feeling sorry for myself wont get me anywhere so I did what i had to do. I'm almost finished with college and have a good job now. You'll always find a way to get by, if you LOOK for them.
PS my aunt used to get hit by her husband until he finally killed her. Keep that in mind.
2007-05-04 05:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by vixalle21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make a 1000 dollars a month after taxes!?! Leave all of them behind and buy a condo or a get a neice apartment. I'd kill for that kind of money right now. Do what someone told me once... take care of yourself and good women will notice, meaning guys in your case.
2007-05-04 05:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by K.S. THiS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU need to fix yourself before you get into another relationship. It is essential that you do that in order for you to be emotionally and mentally ready for another relationship in the future. If you are not you will be rebounding and that is never good. Be supportive of yourself not just worrying about other guys and what they can do for you. I hope things work out for you though.
2007-05-04 05:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by MOM OF ONE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a jerk when you find someone nice, until then get used to being abused.
2007-05-04 05:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave
go to a shelter
stop dating till you get your head straight
2007-05-04 05:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋