2007-05-04 04:55:07 · 10 answers · asked by mohamed ragab 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because your looking.....quit stressing over it. It's understandable to want to find someone, but if you don't chill a bit....you'll send off a desparate vibe which will ruin everything. Be confident, calm and cool....relax. The right person will come when it's time. I t may suprise you, or it may be someone you already know. Also get the fairy-tale image of love out of your head...it's not always love at first sight, or something extravegant....just make a point to get to know people, and be open to meeting new people, be confident and be yourself.....most importantly relax.
2007-05-04 05:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by Leslie S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opnion, soulmates are partially found, but partially made. People have the idea that some day they're going to meet this person who just gets them right off the bat and they never argue and they're always happy and Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny come to their wedding, and....well, you get the idea. The idea of someone who's going to instantly compliment you perfectly, "make you whole", is dangerous because it leads you on a quest for perfection. You could end up ending perfectly good relationships because that person doesn't like the music you like or he has an annoying habit, so he can't be your "soulmate". Relationships take work and they evolve over time. That's not to say you sholdn't seek a great relationship, but maintaining and improving that relationship means communicating and compromising and working hard to express your wants and needs and learn the other person's as well.
2007-05-04 05:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by Demon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a soulmate isn't someone who drops out of the sky with their arms open wide. A soulmate is someone you spend lots of time with and enjoy being with. In other words, a soulmate is what you feel for them, not exactly who they are. Anyone can be a "soulmate" if you put effort into the relationship.
2007-05-04 05:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by Aiden 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you can't. You get out, enjoy life and all it holds. What you may wish in a soulmate now is not what you may wish later. That person is out there but neither of you are ready to appreciate the other.
2007-05-04 07:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you're looking too hard. Just let things fall where they may and your soulmate will come to YOU!
2007-05-04 05:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by Amy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not difficulty about it. men are continually searching too. once you detect the right one you'll recognize it. Society has programmed us to imagine we may be able to't be happy till we are hopelessly in love. i may have a contented life, centred on occupation, have a large number of acquaintances, and be satisfied and not in any respect even searching for every person. you've a lengthy time period earlier you should emphasize about searching the only which makes you ignore all others.
2016-11-25 01:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your soulmate will find YOU. Stop looking, begin enjoying people and life to the fullest! ;)
2007-05-04 05:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God has His own timing, which is perfect. Just be patient and when you least expect it, poof! :) Untill then, just pray for the kind of soulmate you want. Have faith. God bless.
2007-05-04 05:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by suthurnbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are looking!
If indeed yall are soulmates yall will meet!
2007-05-04 04:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Ustes G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will meet guys you"ll enjoy spending time with.Maybe more than 1 at a time.THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A SOUL MATE.
2007-05-04 09:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋