I'll try to be brief. I got a call from his HR dept at work asking me if I knew where he was, if he was sick etc.. Apparently he hasn't shown up for work since Monday and will be fired. I'm so upset, I know he hates his job so much (sales) b/c he has to follow up on alot of paperwork and has to meet a quota but he also know we desperately need his extra income. He would get up and get dressed like he was going to work fooling me. I'm hurt b/c all this aside he's a great dad and seemingly good husband. When I told him about the HR call he said it was a mixup with regard to voice mail and he spoke to his boss (whom I spoke to today and said this was a lie and she hasn't heard from his since last week). That part tore me up, I hate him so much for doing this to me and our kids. My eyes are blinded with our years together so any outside help would be appreciated. Is this the end?
2007-05-04 04:58:17 · 3 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That is most definetly not right. He should not have lied to you, I think you should try talking to him about the whole situation tell what you know ask his side.. There COULD be mroe than one side to the story. Try to figure out what is going on and tell him how you feel. YOu dont deserve to be lied to. Tlaking will help the situartion... IF you love him then it will work even better. I hope everything turns out ok! I mean maybe he has a good reason?
2007-05-04 06:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by Marr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi just wanted to tell you that i can soooo sympathize with you..i am going through the same thing with my boyfriend of 4 years except that the police are involved..i hear new things all the time from friends that i never knew and it just makes me wonder how many more lies i knew nothing about..believe me i feel your pain but since my ex has disappeared i will probably never be able to confront him with the lies..but like your husband i would probably get more lies to cover the first lies..as much as it hurts that hes gone i at least know i'm not being lied to anymore... how can it be so easy for someone that loves you to lie straight to your face??? so obviously i have no advice for you just want you to know your not alone!
2007-05-04 12:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by loving niece 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess if i were you i would tell him that you Spoke to the boss, and the boss never heard anything from you, and you want to know whats up...
this May be the end!!
2007-05-04 12:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋