i met this bloke on line and we have been phoning and txting for the last week ....he said he would meet up this wk for a coffee but his been so busy with his job he hasnt had the time
hes a policeman and has been doing alot of over time
i didnt contact him one day just to see if he contacted me and he txted me that night ...
im going on hol next wk and want to meet him before i go ....
do i push him for a face to face meeting ? or shall i just leave it and see if he arranges to meet me ?
2007-05-04 04:49:15 · 11 answers · asked by cowgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi hun!
Well he sounds interested to me!
a) He's made the effort to explain to you that it's his job and overtime keeping him busy - he hasn't simply said "i've been busy"
b) You didn't contact him one day and he texted you! He was obviously thinking about you!
As for your question..... does he know you are going on holiday next week?
If not, just send him a text and keep it casual, say something like "just to let you know I'm going on holiday next week, etc..." and just leave it to him to decide whether to meet you. Make sure to reassure him that if he is busy with work you can catch up when you get back off holiday.
If he already knows you're going on holiday then leave him to it - he knows the situation.
If you think he may have forgotten you are going on holiday, try to work it into the conversation. For example, if he asks you what you are doing, say you're buying a beach towel for your holiday! That way you know that he's aware you're going away!
I think as you haven't met up yet you shouldn't push it -what's the rush? How long are you going away for? Plus you'll look fab and relaxed after your holiday, so you'll be in tip top condition to see him!
If he doesn't arrange to meet up with you don't take it personally - give him the benefit of the doubt and see where it leads.
xx Emmie
2007-05-04 05:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sparklepop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going through the same thing as me. I ahve been talking to this guy for bout 3 weeks and saying "i love you" to eachother! we really like eachother!
I think you should cary on phoning,txting and talking online to eachother1
2007-05-04 06:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by Lacadema (Role-player) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push him, obviously it seems that work is a priority for him.
Just casually bring up the subject on meeting eachother, and see what he does.
2007-05-04 04:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by Louise B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you need to let him know that you're going on holiday next week, that way he might have the urge to meet you before that.
Good luck!
2007-05-04 04:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sesoid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no....dont wait. make sure you call him though at a time you KNOW he's available. then ask him if you can meet up with him before you leave. if he cant, then just leave it(unfortunately you cant do anything about that busy schedule of his) but at least you've given it a try.
dont expect him to call....men are useless like that lol
2007-05-04 04:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should ask to meet. take the initiative, he obviously has interests in you so i think you should go for it. it will show him that you are interested and hell probably like that you have made the first move. it shows courage. good luck and i hope all goes well! :)
2007-05-04 04:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by million$? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take this very slow and let him make the decision to meet you.
2007-05-04 04:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really is never a good idea to push a guy- let him persue you a little bit. At least that way you know he is really interested.
2007-05-04 04:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by Alissandrya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU should just hang on to see if this person is good enough for you! You should just be nice
2007-05-04 04:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by Michael P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him in the loop about what you are doing and let nature take its course.
2007-05-04 04:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋