Just went through a separation with my wife. We met through friends. It's now been 7 months since everything went down. It was my fault and have made that known to our friends. We sat down one day with our friends and discussed what happened and how we are going to fix it. She moved out two days later. She has sinced stopped talking to her friends. I still care for her. What type of behavior is this?
2007-05-04 04:44:38 · 21 answers · asked by john d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe she wants to figure it out for herself. your friends may be so into helping you fix the marriage that she doesn't think they can be partial enough to help her decide if she WANTS to fix it. leave your friends out of it and try asking your wife what she's going through. she might open up, or she might have already separated emotionally
good luck
2007-05-04 04:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by twosey ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is probably very embarassed by the whole mess. I was on the receiving end of a similar situation and it was pretty humiliating. Good friends didn't know how to deal with it and everything was awkward. I sort of turned hermit for a while and just disappeared until a very good friend came and dragged me out on the town.
2007-05-04 04:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Alchemist 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may be going through a grieving process. Being alone may be the only solution for her.
What you have to realize is, this woman may have put you up on pedastal and you blow her faith and trust in you. You hurt her.
Has anyone seen her, family? If not, then you need to be a little concerned and have her family check on her.
Good luck
2007-05-04 04:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just needs some space away from you and anyone to do with the relationship.It could be that she feels sad and just needs time away to herself to feel better . Perhaps she thinks that the friends will want to talk about the situation and she doesn't want to right now. Just give her some time.
2007-05-04 04:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by jayne1653 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels ganged up on.
She's taking space to decide who she is.
So many couple lose who they are when they become a couple and then have a hard time re-discovering who they are.
The stronger you are as people makes you a stronger couple, but the opposite holds true too.
2007-05-04 04:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like denial. If I were you, I wouldn't fool with her. You can't say you're fix things, and leave 2 days later. Obviously, she does not care for you, or respect your feelings enuff to keep her word. If I were you, I would move on with out her, and find someone new! You deserve a good woman.
2007-05-04 04:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sorry but basically she ended all connections to you. It is truly over. You may be seeing the Divorce papers arriving also. Im sorry I know it's hard.
2007-05-04 04:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by AngelwingsFL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though she changed her mind and is really embarrassed to go around her friends now.
2007-05-04 04:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means there will be no reconciliation. You may forgive yourself, but she doesn't. A divorce is in the near future.
2007-05-04 05:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes trying to heal. Best way to heal is to avoid contact with anyone that is going to bring it up. Give her time, she will come back around
2007-05-04 04:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋