relationship in our future. I am possibly pregnant which is scary but we are both mature responsible adults. The problem is he is very conservative and Im very liberal. He does not want to co-habitate until after marriage. I want to go through this pregnancy and relationship under one roof. I dont want to go back and forth from home to home. How do I find a middle ground?
2007-05-04 05:01:44 · 8 answers · asked by maritzacala_2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok if you see a future together and may be pregnant, why not go ahead and compromise and respect his wishes enough to not live together before marriage and that way if you are NOT prego nothing lost if it doesn't work out, but if you are it is in the best interest of everyone at this point in time to marry. It is scary (been there) but you won't be going from one home to another and only marry him at all if you are sure you can see a future with him. If you have any doubts, don't do it. And the most important things you have to have in a relationship is trust, communication, and compromise. Best wishes.
2007-05-04 05:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mature responsible people do not become pregnant without any plans. Just a thought that came into my head. I am sorry. Especially after only 2 months.
Does he really want to be together under one roof at all? Seriously. The first thing he should have wanted was to get married (now) and find a place for everyone. Or live together now. Maybe he wants to wait and see if you really are pregnant. At 2 months into a relationship, he probably is even wondering if it is his (I am sure it is, I am only speaking the truth here on what he may think). Or he may want to wait until you are at least 4 months along.
I am sorry for being brutally honest. However when children are involved, it is best to look at things clearly. It is time for a sit down talk to gain some conclusions on what will be.
The best of luck to you and your sweet baby (to be!).
2007-05-04 18:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a mature responsible adult, he will provide a place for the 3 of you under one roof.
2007-05-04 12:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one, but if you guys are having a baby and you see a future together, why not start talking about marriage, you have nothing to lose. if he is stuck in his ways, there is no way of changing him or finding middle grounds in situations like this one. good luck
2007-05-04 12:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by TE TE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think the middle ground could be called marriage?
2007-05-04 12:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your the one that is pregnant he should be asking what you want your the one who is going to have a baby???? he should be helping you out
2007-05-04 12:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by Ange 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married at city hall now and save yourself all the grief.
2007-05-04 12:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better file for child support now because he isn't going to compromise at all
2007-05-04 12:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋