Family & Relationships - 2 May 2007

Im 18 and ive been talking to a girl that is 15. She is a reallynice girl. I seem to like her alot and we have alot in common. Is she to young to start dating, or not. I dont want the sex and all i just really like this girl. It seems like we can just do nothing and as long as we are together playing pool in the garage for 4 hours we are having the time of our life. What do you think?

2007-05-02 18:17:03 · 25 answers · asked by Rob D 2 in Singles & Dating

I have an issue with an ex-girlfriend. We broke up about 6 months ago after a short-lived but intense relationship. After some fighting and a rumor saying that I called her 'easy' was spread (and she refuses to believe it was a mere rumor), we didn't talk for a couple months. Now we rarely talk at all, and when we do she is very rude and condescending. She has also been telling mutual friends and co-workers of mine that she hates my guts. Normally I would just ignore her and move on but we both work at the same place (in different departments). Why is she doing this? Is she just bitter or is there something more to this. And also, how do I go about handling this?

2007-05-02 18:16:11 · 7 answers · asked by haha10488 3 in Singles & Dating

well me and my husband was on bad term and we separated for about a week i was hurting so bad my girlfriends took me out to a party i did so drugs and lots of drink i met up with an old friend there at the ttime he seem as if he could take the problem away and make me feel better well he did not i got pregnant and had the baby but we me and my husband go back together we had sex and does not know abou the sex with the old friend i am scared of telling him his only child my not be his i feel so bad i just knew tthe fight we had had end us forever i never thought he would still love me now it is kill me i want to tell him but i do not want him to leave again now we are doing good in our marriage what do i do

2007-05-02 18:14:51 · 12 answers · asked by Promise 2 in Marriage & Divorce

started a *new* life, after an unfulfilling marriage, then suddenly after awhile met someone else and HAVE A PASSIONATE RELATIONSHIP beyond belief?
what I mean by older is 55 or more?
I think 'maybe' a lot of folks out there are convinced for some odd reason that after a certain age, passion can't exist.
I'm way under that age, I'm asking coz I am in an unfulfilling marriage, don't know where it'll end up after yrs. to come, want to give it a chance to survive, but w/more yrs. to see, NEED SOME HOPE that if it doesn't , well thenI can feel passsion again w/some0ne new eventually--and a LOT of it, to make up for the heartache or stagnation,ect.
thanks a bunch

2007-05-02 18:12:57 · 7 answers · asked by deirdrefaith 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I'm not exactly speaking from experience (I'm single!) but I'm wondering how this situation usually works. Say a couple has divorced but they have an infant, so they need to keep communication and all. The ex husband is already with someone new, who the ex wife hates for some usual reasons. There's tension which can affect the overall communication and cooperation between the exes.

Now, where are certain lines drawn and what should be expected? For instance, should the exes have days spent together with the child, as a "family outing" let's say? Should the ex husband's girlfriend/partner/fiance feel strange about it or does she have a say in this? Should the ex husband tell his partner if he stops by his ex's home? What if the ex-wife is very degrading toward the girlfriend; should this affect the situation or cause her to feel uncomfortable about him being around his ex?

So tell me your thoughts & opinions! Thanks : )

2007-05-02 18:12:44 · 7 answers · asked by Miss.Understanding 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I just broke up with my gf.shes been under alot of stress and broke up with me because I made a mistake. The mistake I made was that I had flirted with a girl on myspace and said some things I shouldnt.It meant nothing cuz i love this girl with all my heart.I also commented a friend saying that I wasnt single i'm just tryin to get her attention and that i hope things will work out between us but im goin to keep my options open.I also lied about it.I kno I made a mistake by doin what i did. She keeps tellin me she doesnt want to deal with this and just wants to be friends.I feel something different though because I feel that she is just basing her decisions on bein extremely stress and also cuz she is hurt and mad by what I did. I want so bad to get back with her because I really love this girl.Please someone help me with what I need to do to get her back.

2007-05-02 18:12:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just want to know what one says.

2007-05-02 18:12:09 · 7 answers · asked by Jules 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-02 18:09:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiance doesn't seem like mister right. but my friend is really nice, thoughtful, buff, athletic, funny, and cute. Now my friend may be my mister right. My fiance is two years older than me and i have not seen him and 3 weeks. My trouble is, my fiance is exstatic. I like my fiance, but now I'm seeing my friend in different ways. It's confusing! HELP!

2007-05-02 18:08:35 · 8 answers · asked by flirtygal23 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 18:05:56 · 18 answers · asked by Sexah Mamma :) 2 in Marriage & Divorce

literally SAVED YOUR MARRIAGE?
and did it take a LOT of convincing to get your spouse to FINALLY give it a try and finally go together w/you?

2007-05-02 18:02:53 · 4 answers · asked by deirdrefaith 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a great libido during marriage,lately though I have had trouble with the new women in my life,is this a common thing?

2007-05-02 18:02:17 · 8 answers · asked by mike p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is 23, has a great career in the music industry and I'm ready to be married... but a lot of my friends say I'm too young.

2007-05-02 17:57:07 · 32 answers · asked by loque 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-02 17:55:57 · 11 answers · asked by winters_wildfire 1 in Singles & Dating

well i want to go to my boyfriends house when we hang out so we can cuddle and you know all that stuff, but if we go and stay at my house then my mom gets really annoying and worried and doesnt let me go to my room. I want to go to his house more and what should i tell my mom?

Also what can i say to get her to let me hang out more often at his house witout her saying "you guys hang out too much ,soend some family time.>:O garr...

2007-05-02 17:55:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why do you think fathers rape there kids?? and why dont the kids moms listen to them wen they tell them wut happened???

2007-05-02 17:52:03 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Family

My girlfriend and i enjoy "chilling" in the car at some random park. we tell our parents that we are just driving around and exploring different neighborhoods, but our parents are getting suspisious and we dont want them finding out what we are doing together. (We arent going all the way so save the comments).
Some of our ideas for excuses are saying we are going to a movie and then not, or saying we are going downtown and then not.
any other ideas that we can tell them that we are doing?
thanks

2007-05-02 17:39:22 · 12 answers · asked by bob j 1 in Singles & Dating

my very best friend is thinking about moving back to where her family is, halfway across the country, but i, of course want her to stay here. i ALSO don't want her to feel even more torn between her family and her friends...like i won't love her if she goes back or they won't love her if she stays here. would it be a good idea to make a pro/con list for her? i'd get together with her and do it but there's no way we can get together before she has to make her decision at the end of this weeks. would a pro/con list be too pushy?

2007-05-02 17:38:29 · 11 answers · asked by smileyfaces 1 in Friends

I recently had my relationship end in a violent way...I was knocked around, slapped and bruised up...I really thought this was the man for me, he had the brains and everything...We were both tired and a little tipsy..He promised that he would never hurt me in such a way, but the broken heart hurts more than the bruises...How will I get over him?

2007-05-02 17:36:31 · 10 answers · asked by hotmom74631 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Lets just be nice people...;)....im an analyst of human behaviour but naive as hell!! haha

2007-05-02 17:30:33 · 18 answers · asked by Sexah Mamma :) 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been a stay at home mother for the last 4 years of my life. I did this for my 3 wonderfull daughters...(5,3,and almost 2)..My husband is abusive towards me (God, I hate the way that sounds, but I guess it's the truth that's always hardest to swallow)...anyhow I don't currently have a job, which means that if I did leave...I have $0 to my name. Do you think it would be wrong of my to hang around here for a while longer. One of my friends informed me that she would be able to baby sit for me free of charge...Then another friend informed me that he could get me a job at the resterant he is the Manager at. Anyhow my main question is....do you think it would be wrong of me to pretend that everything is A.O.K. just long enough to get a place of my own and some money in the bank???. My friend who is getting me the job is going to have me work while my husband is at work...so he wouldn't even know!

2007-05-02 17:25:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in long term relationships before and am 'normal' in that I do get sexually attracted..to men, and enjoy intimacy but I have never enjoyed penetration.. and have always found it very painful..
Honestly if I never had intercourse again I would not miss it.

It has been 2 years now since I was last in a relationship..and I have closed myself of from that world...

But at the same time I do miss the other aspects of a relationship, and have always been very domestic and maternal. I really want to have a family and not end up an old maid living alone with her cats..


Please give me advise.. Is it posible to find a husband who doesn't want sex. Or is that a given thing in mariage?

2007-05-02 17:19:04 · 69 answers · asked by ???? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is very rare especially because most of latinas are not the size they like i mean u know we the latinas or african have alot to show lol but naaa just kidding ........ .why is that ?

2007-05-02 16:58:10 · 7 answers · asked by Jolie Vu 2 in Singles & Dating

Let me try to sum it up...
My friend told her best friend about me, I showed interest which led her to do that. So I sent over an e-mail, she sent one back. It's really only been two days of swapping e-mails but its been for one or two hours straight a night. Now my question is, would it be ok to swap numbers with her having a boyfriend of two months who she makes it sound like she's not too sure about? Is it too early to do this or should I keep it only emails. I have no intentions of breaking them up, but just get to know her better. Should I ask for a number?

2007-05-02 16:53:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are getting married in June and I want to smooth things out before we tie the knot. Right now he's reached his sexual peak. He wants nothing but sex all the time. He never tells me until it gets to a point where he feels neglected to say that I am not initiating sex enough. At the same time I really don't have much fire to offer. I heard that women don't hit their sexual peak until thier late thirties. I am still hot for him and think he's the sexiest man alive I just can't keep up with his sex drive and feel bad when he has to masturbate when I'm not up to par. I'm I wrong for feeling bad? I do try to initiate things but I gues I don't know what he's expecting or really what to do anymore. I don't want to fake anything with him but I also want him to be satisfied and know that I am here to be able to please him as he does me. What do I do or what can you say from your own thoughts that can help keep a womans mind at ease?

2007-05-02 16:49:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My grandfather is always trying to tell me i am his favourite,saying not to ever talk to my sisters,and saying they said this/that,and not to talk or bother giving presents to my grandmother(his wife)constantly,but just ignore the comments.lately he has started doing the same to my sister,and that she is now better than me,and says that i should be like her,and is constantly degrading me and constantly putting me down and saying i dont know anything and i should be like mysister.why is he constantly trying to cause trouble between family?

2007-05-02 16:49:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My grandfather is always trying to tell me i am his favourite,saying not to ever talk to my sisters,and saying they said this/that,and not to talk or bother giving presents to my grandmother(his wife)constantly,but just ignore the comments.lately he has started doing the same to my sister,and that she is now better than me,and says that i should be like her,and is constantly degrading me and constantly putting me down and saying i dont know anything and i should be like mysister.why is he constantly trying to cause trouble between family?

2007-05-02 16:48:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok today in class this guy I like was talking to one of his friends after I had gotten up and went over to the teacher (I sit right next to the guy I like) and when I came back I heard him say "I'll ask her" then when I sat down they both went quiet and the guy I like smiled at me. What could all this possibly mean?

2007-05-02 16:44:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 16:36:29 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I cheated on my wife a year ago, we tried to work past it but she could not leave it alone, every fight we got into she brought it up and help it over my head since then... Now we have been seperated for three months and she has cheated on me, she wants to come back... I am wondering if it will be different since she got it out of her system or will it be the same...? I am not mad at her for doing what she did, i just want to hear it from her mouth... Should we give it another chance?? or will it be the same as always...

2007-05-02 16:25:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce