My fiance and I are getting married in June and I want to smooth things out before we tie the knot. Right now he's reached his sexual peak. He wants nothing but sex all the time. He never tells me until it gets to a point where he feels neglected to say that I am not initiating sex enough. At the same time I really don't have much fire to offer. I heard that women don't hit their sexual peak until thier late thirties. I am still hot for him and think he's the sexiest man alive I just can't keep up with his sex drive and feel bad when he has to masturbate when I'm not up to par. I'm I wrong for feeling bad? I do try to initiate things but I gues I don't know what he's expecting or really what to do anymore. I don't want to fake anything with him but I also want him to be satisfied and know that I am here to be able to please him as he does me. What do I do or what can you say from your own thoughts that can help keep a womans mind at ease?
2007-05-02 16:49:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow, how lucky can a guy get? A woman that wants to please her man. Hows this for a start... let him read your question then talk about it. Oh, then get some baby oil and offer to give him an erotic massage.
2007-05-02 16:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The sexual peak stuff is a myth. They came up with that back in the 50's when women after having been married several years were more open sexually with their husbands in their 30's so the psychological geniuses back then thought...hey...women peak sexually in their 30's...It's total BS. Think about it....when is the best time for a women to get pregnant???....probably 16-25yrs old...right? Not 30 something...women waiting until 30 something usually have to go to fertility clinics to get pregnant. And ultimately that is the purpose of sex...biologically speaking..is to get pregnant. So if nature decided that women should peak sexually in their 30's wouldn't that be the best time for them to conceive?? It's sociology versus biology. Perhaps you're not really attracted to your fiance. And I hate to say it but after you get married women typically don't feel as compelled to "satisfy" their husbands as they did before they were married. You've already achieved the primary objective-that being- to get him to marry you. If you can't satisfy him now then I fear he is in for a rough road after marriage.
2007-05-03 00:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ronin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to be fake, be fake, he's probably so horny he won't know the difference anyhow. But, make sure you give him all the sex he wants, it might seem like work now, but it will pay off big time later as he won't even look at another woman.
Good for you for listening to him, when you reach your peak, he'll still be able to deliver, don't worry about that.
If your confused about initiating things, just feel him up to get him started, believe me, it won't take much.
2007-05-02 23:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't feel so bad. YOu need some testosterone to increase your sex drive. Talk to your doctor. Get plenty of rest and use a vibrator to increase your interest. Keep your body stimulated all the time with out climaxing, Bring yourself to the edge and then stop and do that every hour.
2007-05-03 02:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Toosense2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf seems to be at his peak too, i hate the fact im never in the mood, and i tell him that he doesnt understand that i want a relationship deeper than sex all the time. Men are silly. i dont think they will ever learn
2007-05-02 23:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by Star274009 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to be honest it may seem harsh but the best thing you can do is just up and start sucking his dick out the blue. do it at an unusual time that will always keep him interested
2007-05-03 00:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
to have a relation you need more than a sexy couple you need to talk, communication is every think
2007-05-02 23:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋