Family & Relationships - 2 May 2007

apart from through mutual friends

2007-05-02 09:53:39 · 14 answers · asked by AS 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband have been married for almost a year and a half now and no matter what i say he still goes online and looks at other womens profiles and he tells them they are hot.I have told him it bothers me and it seems to me he does not care about what i think.Is that normal for guys.Am I being paronoid.I just need to know what I should do.PLEASE HELP!!

2007-05-02 09:44:56 · 24 answers · asked by hunnybear737 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend for two months now.
Ever since we got together his ex has been spreading rumours about him saying that they're still sleeping together.
She rang me giving me all the details of their cheating.
I asked him and he swore to me that he would never do that.
The next day she rang me again saying that she was lying about it all.
Was very confused!
I was told the other day that he was seeing her cause they were apparently back together but I wouldn't believe it until I saw proof.
So then my friend rang his ex and asked to talk to him and he was there with her.
I confronted him and he swore to me that it wasn't him on the phone and that he hates her.
He was very upset that I didn't believe him.
I'm sooooo confused.
Help me please!!!!

2007-05-02 09:44:11 · 23 answers · asked by Kayz 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 09:42:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

today in english class the boy i like sat next to me and he always tickeled me and tries to make me laugh. whenever i asked for his help he was there. maybe its because were good friends. but he always hugs me and that kinda stuff. did u think he likes me? help...

2007-05-02 09:40:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a male and it trips me out when a guy ask for yall number and at first you are sexy, cute, hey lil momma but when you say no its B" word this H" word that......"you aint sexy anyway with yo fat A".............that trips me out. lol. what you think?

2007-05-02 09:40:55 · 16 answers · asked by Eugene 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 09:36:09 · 35 answers · asked by Mr. Wallace 1 in Singles & Dating

If someone has an order of protection in place against their spouse...which states they can have no contact with the petitioner or the children for 30 days until the case goes to court, can the petitioner then take the children and move out of state prior to the temporary custody hearing? ...leaving the other party with no evidence of where they've gone?

2007-05-02 09:34:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would you consider a romantic evening?

2007-05-02 09:33:32 · 12 answers · asked by Matsukaze 3 in Singles & Dating

What cologne do you love smelling on a guy?

2007-05-02 09:33:15 · 4 answers · asked by Ceizari 2 in Singles & Dating

I had found a adult cd (XXX) that my husband has been hiding from me for quite awhile and recently I found that he got another one. I know it's normal and I'm not really mad but a bit upset he is hiding it from me.

It's also a bit damiging to my own ego considering I am now pregnant and don't excatly have a great deal of self esteam on my own body image.

Should I talk to him about it or should I just forget about it and be understanding that he is a human and has his own needs?

If I should talk to him about it how do I bring it up?

2007-05-02 09:32:44 · 20 answers · asked by flygrl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-02 09:28:50 · 24 answers · asked by liliacutelili 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband still thinks that he is married to me and that he can control me.

He constantly tries to tell me what to do. He also still cares for me in his own way.

Yet, I don't remember any positive good moments from our life together.

What steps can I take to make him forget me? He has tried to move on but not been able to.

2007-05-02 09:27:25 · 16 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My child's father has been threatening me to get cusotdy of our baby so that he won't have to pay much child support. I live in Minnesota. The waiting list for court is a year and I don't have money for a lawyer and he's rich. I don't want him to have any custody, AT ALL! What should I do??? I'd rather go without child suport than have him get any custody. I cry myself to sleep every night!! He's not on the birth certificate and keeps demanding a paternity test so he can have her. What are the chances that an ummarried couple would get shared custody if the mother doesn't want it??

2007-05-02 09:25:26 · 39 answers · asked by Lovemydaughter07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

read my other info post whatever. i was going to stop my mom form leaving bu my big siter grabed me tore of all my clothes put my in nothing but a cindrella dress one of her friends walked in and said we have alot planned for the next weeks so be ready and by the way to stop me form spoiling it they locked me in acloset with tape ove my mouth and said get ready for your big date tonight i escaped from the clost and wrote this i'mm scarred what should i do

2007-05-02 09:23:54 · 7 answers · asked by cubegod666 1 in Friends

My fiance' is currently deployed and not to far from now he shuld be comming home I need something sexy but ok to wear around the kiddes but I want him to just want me like never before...He has been gone for almost a year now

2007-05-02 09:22:17 · 20 answers · asked by Mommy_Oz 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 10 years and we have a daughter together.
He's been talking about marriage but I am afraid to go through with it.
It's not because I don't love him, I do... very much.
I just don't see the need to get married at this point.
We are married in every way that matters except Legally.

Would you be able to stay with someone forever without marriage ?? or is marriage now mandatory ??

2007-05-02 09:18:21 · 19 answers · asked by M.O. 5 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-05-02 09:16:59 · 16 answers · asked by Wookie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, im starting to sing that Mauren McGovern song..
i have a dilemna, i am currently working in England where i met this guy. he's independent just like me, had drugs problem b4, but had a strong connection with. after a year of being lovers i met someone from Colorado through match.com, & began calling each other.. we've seen each other 3 times already when i went the states & when he went to visit me here.
he's the sensitive type, loving but kinda clingy.
right now i love them both... but the guy in America want me 2 be with him this year, im kinda pressured to leave my job to start anew in the States... i felt more loved by him on the way he wants me or seems to need me.. should i leave my job & my lover here in England.
Help pls... my decision will change my life forever.

2007-05-02 09:14:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 09:09:45 · 14 answers · asked by Ethan's Mama 5 in Weddings

2007-05-02 09:09:26 · 21 answers · asked by crystalsohot 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i am head over heals in love w/ what i thought was going to be my fieance. the other night she went out on "ladies night" and came home smelling like a a coors light and a bottle of jovan musk put together, hint 1. about a half hour later she checks her voicemail, and theres a totally unappropriate message from her "friends boyfriend". it was def. one of those dreaded messages, hint 2. she has cheated in past and i like an idiot forgave her. now i feel like an *** if i ask to see her phone. and she refuses, hides it at night, and is always on vibrate or off. i would do anything for this girl, anything. i love her to death, and could not even begin to think about a day without her. what should i do? i have not slept or eaten in five days now, and this is eathing the **** out of me. HHEELLPP

2007-05-02 09:04:48 · 37 answers · asked by pzackon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had unprotected sex 7 days ago with an ex.bf(my first everything also the only guy i have ever had sex with)who i am having a fling with(he has a gf) currently i am worried because i am not sure if i was ovulating my last period was april 11th ish.The fling was supposed to have been payback for my bf cheating on me because i wanted to wait to have sex with him(we never had sex)and on my ex.bf's gf who i suspect he left me for.Tons of my friends have used sex as a revenge tool i dont understand why is it blowing up in my face!Its never happened to any of my friends who did this? How do i fix this?

2007-05-02 09:00:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know guys will use girls for booty calls or relationships that don't go anywhere, but what about guys doing what girls do to guys: hang out with a guy a lot but try to avoid telling him directly they aren't interested in romance so the guy will keep showing up and fawning ove her, and help her move her furniture and stuff, and be her gay shopping buddy.

I'm actually uncomfortable if I know a girl I'm hanging out with is interested in me and I'm not interested in her, and I can't think of any of my guy friends who get off on that. Any girls have guys do this to them?

2007-05-02 08:58:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this guy online,we met for a coffee,he says he wanted to date but wanted to date others so i agreed then after 6 months he gives me his key to his appartment we are intimate all the time bu the still says we are freinds with benefits afer 6 months i want a little more than friends what do i do?

2007-05-02 08:56:48 · 34 answers · asked by cookiemonster1721 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been married 3 years and I moved in to his house from another state. Earlier in our marriage when we fight he would threaten to throw me out of the house which he actually did once and had to live for a day with a neighbor. This went on for a while. Asked him countless times never to use this mental game on me, and finally he stopped. He didn't do it for a while until a month ago during a fight he told me that he bought the house for him and his children(from a previous marriage). Now he wanted to remodel the kitchen and expect me to use my paycheck (I make more money than him) to remodel it. I don't trust him anymore after what he's done. I asked him to write a document basically saying I spent money on his house. He doesn't want to give it to me, he said it should be implied that I am part of the house. We share the same bank account and I told him from now on I will separate my paycheck. This is a mess, what should I do? Can I trust him again?

2007-05-02 08:54:59 · 29 answers · asked by MMC 1 in Marriage & Divorce

whats up with that? just wondering if anyone has been through that before.

2007-05-02 08:53:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

help me!!!

2007-05-02 08:52:46 · 27 answers · asked by LOVER GIRL 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this girl who is that is 15 and im 17 but her mom doesnt want to her to date me. we both like each other alot. her dad doesnt have a problem with it but her mom does. im not sure what to do in this situation.

2007-05-02 08:52:00 · 15 answers · asked by kev-0 2 in Singles & Dating

read my other stories for background. i listened to you and stood up for myself. so they made a website gave the pictures to my friend. my mom is about to leave for two weeks and they said they want a sister know and made me kisss a picture of justin timberlink fifty times they pushed a golfball up my but and i'm still in a dress now everyone calls me tiffany

2007-05-02 08:49:57 · 3 answers · asked by cubegod666 1 in Family