help me!!!
2007-05-02 08:52:46 · 27 answers · asked by LOVER GIRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well sweetie its time to really make a decision I have had it happen to me and later on I realized I didnt love the one i left and now I am about to marry the man I chose because I really did love him. think of who you are happier with and all pros and cons then make your decision
2007-05-02 08:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mommy_Oz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone is a full time job. It takes all of your time. How can you love two men and give them each the attention they deserve? It can't be done.
What should you do? You should make a choice and pick one ...... or, better yet, forget both of them and find a third one that is not in the picture right now. Then you won't run the risk of comparisons as easily.
Either way, concentrate on just one guy and do a good job with your efforts and work.
Hob
2007-05-02 17:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by Hobgoblin Kev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call that cheating and I dont think it is fair to either of the guys and mostlikely if either of the guys find out you are playing two guys at the same time they would both become pissed off and dump you. Before it goes any further pick one and dump the other. I know it may seem very hard but your going to have to do that because if one or the other finds out they will be broken hearted and you are going to be left along with a bleeding heart yourself.
2007-05-02 15:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How serious are your relationships? Is it necessary to make a choice between them right now?
If you want to be with only one person, then make a choice between them. If you are merely dating around, then enjoy your time to meet new people and experience different things.
If one or both of these guys are pressuring you to choose, then they are the ones with the problem, not you. Until you commit yourself to someone, you have all the freedom to do as you please, other peoples' feelings be damned.
If these guys feel the same way, then they should understand your choice. Otherwise, move on.
2007-05-02 16:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by malkpennington 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep them both.
There is nothing written that says it is impossible to love more then one person at the same time. From a brainwashed religious point of view its wrong. Bottom line, you can't help how you feel, but at some point you will have to since you will eventually have to choose one of them or risk losing both of them.
Good Luck.
2007-05-02 16:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi frist of all you spell both like that not like this bouth! and you need to make a list on what you like about both of them the one that has more things you like 'bout that person you choose well hope i helped!!
2007-05-02 15:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they pressuring you to make a choice between the 2 of them? If not, keep dating both of them. Have fun. (learning to spell wouldn't hurt either.)
2007-05-02 15:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont love EIITHER of them ORR you wouldnt be doing things that would hurt the other,plain and simple.You need to break up with BOTH of them and find a guy who has what you like in both of them.
2007-05-02 15:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you have two ways of looking at it. 1.Which one will give you a better future.Pay attention to the they treat you,see if love is really there.Sometimes love can fade away,so watch out.2.Which one really turns you on.Looks,build,size,and wealth.
2007-05-02 16:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by planetgreens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg.your stuck in a situation like myself.well just test them and see which one does more for you like ask each of them if they will help you out with like you don't have enough money too buy a pair of sneakers think of something and the one that helps is the one you keep the other well just play head games with him like he does with you.
2007-05-02 16:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋