my friend always said she wanted me to be bridesmaid if she ever got married.
i then set her up with one of my oldest friends, they hit it off and are getting married next year :)
she decided not to ask me to be bridesmaid, didn't tell me, instead told me about her bridesmaids that she did choose.
then my other friends hassled her for not involving me in the wedding, so now she's trying to make it up to me by randomly selecting tasks for me to do so I'll feel "involved". Tasks like ushering, speeches, driving her car etc.
I'd much rather be a guest and enjoy myself. I've told her so, but she's very persistent.
would you be upset by this?
the more she tries to make it up to me, the more i want to chuck a sickie on her wedding and not attend at all. it feels like a kick in the teeth.
** by the way, I have been bridesmaid before and am NOT KEEN to do it again. I'm not having bridesmaids for my upcoming wedding either.
2007-05-02
00:01:14
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chilly
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