now im friends with this guy that i known since i was a kid, but can a girl and a boy can be JUSt FRIENDS???
i tink tat i might like him, all the time we spend together,or it just my feeling of being alone makes me kinda like him?
2007-05-02 00:37:02 · 34 answers · asked by isabelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Girl, anyone can be friends trust me I'm a girl and my Best friend is a guy, we get along great (even though I like him and he knows) Long as you 2 get along and all that you can Just Be Friends, everyone at my school thinks my best friend is my boyfriend just don't let it get you down ignore some of the romantic feelings untill your ready to tell him or he tells you! You go girl!
2007-05-02 01:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is certainly possible to be JUST FRIENDS with a guy. However, you should probably check that that's all he wants to be, you never know he may like you to!! But before getting into a relationship with a long-time close friends always be a ware that if you take the relationship to the next level and it doesn't work out then your friendship will never be the same. Just think how much him being your friend means and whether or not you are willing to sacrifice that for a boyfriend
2007-05-02 00:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Tash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure a lot of people will tell you that it is perfectly fine and normal for girls and guys to be just friends, however, it is not necessarily true. You see nature does not work this way. Men and women are built in such a way that they attract each other. You can start off as friends but sooner or later you are bound to explore other possibilities. In addition, if you happen to like your friend a lot, there is no way else to show it except getting physical or at least feeling strongly about it. At which stage, you either take it further or risk affecting the friendship.
2007-05-02 00:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by RA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, a guy can be just friends with a girl, well, hardly ever. Most of the times it might seem they're just friends but at a point at least one of them will see the other one differently, even for a short period of time. They can be just friends, though it's very hard to find. And it depends on the age cause if eg you're married with kids, then it's much easier to be just and only friends.
2007-05-02 03:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls and boys can be good friends depending on how mature they are when it comes to drawing the line. However most friendships with the opposite sex gets entaggled with sex. It's natural to feel some thing for a guy you hang out with but you must be sure the feelings are mutual before you make your move.
2007-05-02 00:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way 2 deal with this is to spend time with different guys. If u think that UR FRIEND is better than the other boys then I think U shud go ahead and take ur current relationship to the next level with UR FRIEND. Trust me there's nothing better than having a friend as ur PARTNER.
2007-05-02 00:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure da girls and boys can be very close friends but it should be pure....i think you don't have any other boy (true)Friends as if he is the only guy to talk with u.....i just tell my view y r u feeling like this,,may be it's not correct to u but this is my view,.
1.he is so free,
2. friendly,
3.enjoyable character
i guess these are the things made u to think like this be careful before doing anything....bye i hope that you'll take a good decision.....
2007-05-02 02:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by shakthi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can remain friends till you desire and till you treat this relationship like that. But if you begin to develop other ideas and have lustful notions, and move along that direction, then it becomes a bit complicated, although many will suggest that physical relationship strengthens the friendship. But I tell you, it is a slippery path which is unstoppable leading to unknown consequences.
2007-05-02 00:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my best friend is a guy! We are only friends and have been for 14 yrs! We do everything together and I wouldn't trade him for the world. my husband totally accepts this because my friend is the one that actually introduced us and now we are all very very good friends!
2007-05-02 00:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mellycat123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the two persons mental maturity: But as somebody has pointed out,it is better dissolved the issue and be as friends: then nothing will happen:
2007-05-02 01:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by ar.samy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋