My boyfriend told me he liked one of my friends. But he tells me not to worrie because he loves me. I'm pregnent with his baby and i'm due any day. I'm already stressed out enough. But he tells me he loves me for who I am. And that she is just a nobody. I'm forsure what I should do. I'm scared what happens if he cheats on me or if he already did. I tryed talking to the girl, and she told me not to worrie because she likes another boy not mine. She said they are just friends. So I told them both not to talk to each other. Now my boyfriend here lately has been very mean to me, always yelling and making me cry. I've tryed braking up with him but he always laugh and says yea right. He told me if I left then he'll beat up who ever I get with. I'm confuse and I need help. I love him with all of my heart and I need him or help me with our child. Please give me any information :)
2007-05-02 00:53:07 · 11 answers · asked by Mel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you guys should sit with a counselor. You guys are going to be a family, and he can't be acting like that when the baby comes around. Or maybe you could try talking to him, about how he needs to calm down and get his priorities straight because he's going to be a dad. He can't end up being a dead-beat. As for your friend, you should talk to her, and tell her that if anything has happened between her and your man, that she needs to tell you pronto. Tell her that you have to know, because you are going to have a family with this guy, and if he's already cheated on you, that means he's lied to you also.
Congratulations on the baby =]
2007-05-02 00:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by jesa ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are all working under jealousy, beat it he assured you that he loves you - why worry then? If you continue with those intentions it will be too light for him to go ahead. Hes got your baby and he loves; he even told you or they even confessed in front of you that they are not together but mere friends. Feel at easy my dear.
2007-05-02 01:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, as soon as you had unprotected sex, you put yourself in! You are a fool young lady because you've left yourself so exposed to this guy, and he knows it! you are now classed as 'soiled goods' to his mates so don't denigrate yourself any longer! Get out from under his dominance and move away to a new area where he cannot find you, and find a decent guy who will love you for who you are. Have a good day.
2007-05-02 01:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry dear u have made a great mistake by trusting him,
I don't think he will marry u , I remind u that pls take a help
from ur family, & think of ur future, b'cuse love is not a aims of ur life, so come up in ur life & face the fact , let hope for the best & wish u for a happy life
2007-05-02 01:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was very insensitive. How could your bf manage to tell you that boring thing realizing your pregnant?
I know this is hard but he doesn't deserved you.
If you don't mind try to talk about it or drive yourself out of the relationship as early as now... Let him realize what he really wants, first.
2007-05-02 01:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Information? What you need is a lobotomy. You told us he likes someone else. What do you want to hear from us? Be a fool and stalk the guy until he gets a restraining order against you? Get a life and a new boyfriend to bother, please.
2007-05-02 00:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People only let you how you let them treat you. Ask him how he'd feel if you told him you liked one of his friends.
2007-05-02 01:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, Id like to see him beat me up. BRING IT!!!
2007-05-02 00:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, when he comes back to his senses he will come to you, don't stress yourself at all
2007-05-02 00:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by onoscity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes someone else
the realtionship is over dear...
2007-05-02 00:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋