Family & Relationships - 2 May 2007

We finished class and we were talkign about relationships after the college class. Then I was messing with her and stuff and before she started walking to her car saying goodnite, I went to her and we hugged and I was trying to kiss her ... I KISSED HER ON THE CHEEEK AFTER I HUGGED HER and then I hugged her again and then i told her I really like her!!! IDK why i didnt want to it just came out OMG is she gonna run away???? we have been friends for awhile and everyone in class says we are BF GF but I used to deny it IDK why so she dont get mad...but she dont mind and today someone said something about her telling me to ask my girlfriend AKA her for the answer for hw and i said ok..and she was right there and they alll wondered why i didnt say that she aint my GF..so One guy actually says he never denied it and she(GIRL) laughed.THE STUPID PART AINT THE KISS I wanted to do that!!! Its that i hugged again, is that stupid or is it just me???? I honestly dotn know why i did it?? I had no control of it, it just happened

2007-05-02 05:01:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 05:00:12 · 16 answers · asked by reuben h 1 in Weddings

I've heard that you can get certified to perform weddings online through the universalist church...or something like that. Does anyone know how much it costs, whats involved and maybe a link to more info?

2007-05-02 04:59:03 · 10 answers · asked by Sara 4 in Weddings

I need an outsider presective on my relationship. Here it is in a nut shell....ready?! I have been with my bf on off for about three years after my divorce. We meet while I was pregnant, and lived together for almost 2 yrs, then when my daughter was born and around 6 mo, we had issues seperated, and I started dating my daughters father. ( I have two kids prior marriage) and my youngest from ex. So me and her dad start dating for around 9 mo and we break up, due to his temper, and drug use. Then a while down the road I start seeing my bf again he moves in with me. tells me he loves my kids, and they need him and we can just be friends, because after my ex and I broke up there was physical violance. So now I am with my bf and all we do is fight. He is constantly accusing me of sleeping with someone else, or telling me I am crazy if I want to leave him. He tries to tell me I am not normal because I wont give him what he wants...which is sex everyday, even tho I take care of three kids..

2007-05-02 04:58:38 · 18 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Must a husband or for that matter wife reveal all to his/her partner?

2007-05-02 04:57:46 · 25 answers · asked by Nilutpal Gogoi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have already planned most of my wedding, but now I need some ideas as to what I can give my guests for wedding favours? I don't have alot of money, and I like to make things myself if that's possible.
Any ideas? (Wedding favours are the gifts you leave on the tables for the guests to take home, and the idea is that they will then be able to remember your wedding day.)

2007-05-02 04:57:41 · 36 answers · asked by MercuryRising 3 in Weddings

2007-05-02 04:50:34 · 19 answers · asked by Lori F 6 in Weddings

2007-05-02 04:49:48 · 27 answers · asked by RedRabbit 1 in Weddings

We broke up 3 mths ago and he still has some of my things with him like games. I don't expect him to return all the gifts but I want back all the stuff he borrowed from me and the stuff I left at his house before the break up!!!

I've asked him to mail those things back to me but he hasn't replied to me and hasn't done so. How can I get them back???

2007-05-02 04:49:40 · 14 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Singles & Dating

at age 4 of cancer...She took care of him and her husband worked...but had to block it out ...temporary...in order to be able to work..and to tell people that would ask...How's little Johnny doing?'''...he would just say..."Oh, he's doing the best that he can"....(they got the hint)...ANYWAY, a year after he died...the mom felt the marriage was over...and filed for divorce...NOW I CAN UNDERSTAND THAT...BECAUSE OF THE STRESS THE MOM WAS UNDER CARING FOR A CHILD IN A NO-WIN SITUATION...But at the funeral home people were criticizing....and after she left...which i am glad she did not hear it....but they were still critizing her for leaving...why is it their business what she does????

2007-05-02 04:48:45 · 16 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-02 04:47:34 · 10 answers · asked by Naakz 1 in Weddings

my friend told me that her brother kepted asking about me
does that mean he likes me?

2007-05-02 04:41:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it possible for girls to go from being in love (talking about marriage, kids etc) to needing a break and wanting to be by urself ? now that i look at it, we were moving too fast but i thought that is how love is supposed to be - there were things that were said between us that u dont say to anyone but the one u love.
Me and my girl broke up out of no where - instead of her saying lets slow down, she said she needed to be alone at we didnt talk for 2 weeks - i wrote her a letter saying that i understand that she needs her time and i am here for her - we talked last night but she was standoffish - she got mad, and didnt seem like she cared, but of course she said she cared - but if she didnt care then y would she text me, and then call me back 3 times? we left off with her saying she would call me back, but she didnt - i should just leave her alone huh ? but there are still some things i want to get off my chest

2007-05-02 04:41:08 · 25 answers · asked by questions 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 04:38:26 · 23 answers · asked by Totty D 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister (who is well off) Ask to be booked at the hotel where my daughter's reception will be held a YEAR ago. The place is old and I think elegant. The reception costs are now at 18K. Well, she looked at the reviews of the rooms on Yahoo and 2 out of the 12 said the rooms were old and awful, the remaining were OK . Yesterday I called to confirm with her and she started SCREAMING at me that she will NOT stay in a flea bag place. I was so embarrassed and I said she didn't have to stay there but kept yelling about how could we have picked a place so bad. My daughter would be so HURT if she heard this.
My youngest daughter, her sister, died 3 years ago and We want this day to be extra special for her. I was so upset all day. My husband called her and disinvited her and told her to take her condescending behavior and park it. Did we do the right thing?
BTW I sent her flowers for her birthday last year and she called YELLING at me how awful they were, they were "near dead".

2007-05-02 04:35:16 · 19 answers · asked by dagostino09 2 in Weddings

2007-05-02 04:34:01 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 04:33:46 · 8 answers · asked by Suspect 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend Mark and I have been going out for ALMOST a year, tomorrow is our one year anniversairy.

He's 16 and a junior and I'm 15 and a sophmore. I told him I wanted to wait until I was out of high school to have sex because I don't want to have to deal with the consequences now. He agreed with my decision.

But then yesterday he told me that his friend Colin told him that he said that if we really loved each other, we should be having sex. I told him if he really loved me, he would wait.

He didn't reply, he just kind of sighed, and ten minutes later I just decided to leave.

I'm not sure what to do. We really love each other, despite the fact that we're young.

He's never normally like this, he's the sweetest, cutest guy I've ever met. We can talk about EVERYTHING together. He really listens to me. He isn't an animal or a pervert like a lot of other guys. But this surprised me.

What do I do? I still want to wait, but now I guess I'm not sure.

2007-05-02 04:33:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

look at someone what is the 1st thing that you notice for me its eyes and their smile but the most important thing to me is their personality and how they treat people

2007-05-02 04:30:12 · 9 answers · asked by jenaalyse 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 04:29:42 · 11 answers · asked by mary 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I already hav boyfren but don know why when i need , i'll think about having sex with other guys !! maybe my boyfren always busy or I fell shy so i won't ask him when i need!! Can somebody teach me how to ask him ?!

2007-05-02 04:28:01 · 8 answers · asked by chloe 1 in Singles & Dating

I have three kids and my husband and I obviously don't feel the way we used to, I miss the old us sooo much we had so much in common, and we never fought, we still love eachother but not the same way. Now we fight everyday literally which is odd considering we both hate to argue. I don't get it we are still so young I am 20 he is 24 what happened, how can two people change so much over the course of 3 years, Help........ I don't want my marraige to fall apart.

2007-05-02 04:27:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-02 04:23:27 · 7 answers · asked by shayhi 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 04:16:16 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been broken up from my x of a few years for over 2 years now,he still wants me back though. I have met many successful men since but not gotten serious with any of them. The one i really want is the one who is mutual friends w/my x and I dont see us ever being together so i am giving up. I have met someone else who i am attracted to and makes me laugh.he is not the type girls go crazy over and he does not have a college degree or make a ton of money, but he makes me happy.My question here is if you were me would you go back to the x who you caught cheating because he still loves you and makes great money,or the man you really want but because of him not wanting to break the'guy code'it wont work,or the one that does not make much money but makes you laugh and you have fun with?

2007-05-02 04:15:41 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

Question for guys and girls. The two dimples you see on fit girls backside one on each side, where a tramp stamp may go. Is there a name for them?? Do you all find them as hot as I do???

2007-05-02 04:15:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What things matter the most to you?

2007-05-02 04:15:16 · 2 answers · asked by callie 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so sick of hearing girls rip guys apart for something they have been doing for years. Not everything is about you!! I think the ones that go on and on about how wrong it is, need to give it a try themselves. It is my theory that a woman who says she doesn't masterbate is either lying, not doing it right, or never did it with a vibrating object. And what's the deal with porn? Afraid you will find things out about yourself? Or better yet, are you afraid because you will be confronting what you already know about yourself, just pushed aside? Face it ladies, it's ok for you to have a sexual side as well, and yes, even indulge in it privately. If it really isn't your thing, fine, but don't go preaching to your man, and tell him he is the scum of the earth because he enjoys it. Next time you want to go off the deep end about it all, consider this: Having sex is like a gormet meal. Masterbating is like snacking on a Snickers bar to get you through to your meal.
Just relax and have fun!

2007-05-02 04:13:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my husband very much this is why I married him. Be4 we got married we were pretty happy together. We lived together & it as great. We had been 2gether 2yrs when I found out I was pregnant. It was the happyest day of my life. He was there 4 me when I was really sick and went to most of the doctor apts. when I hit 6-7 mths things began 2 change. We argued alot we didn't spend time 2gether. He never wanted me around when he would throw partys. I was pushed 2 the side. Around this time he was on the computer alot & I found out he was talking 2 other women & he lied. We got married when I was 8 mnths & I had my daughter alittle over 9mths. After she was born I found out he cheated on me a month after we got married & rite be4 our daughter was due. We talked it out & I forgave him. Things changed 4 awhile now things are different again. He isn't cheatin he is always out with friends, working all the time doesn't act as though Im equal, & we never talk, our flame seems 2 have gone out

2007-05-02 04:09:28 · 15 answers · asked by The H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If you were working 1/1 with your personal assistant (like for several years) and you were very much attracted to each other...would you have an affair? If not---why? If so---why?

2007-05-02 04:09:08 · 11 answers · asked by mzadamz 3 in Singles & Dating