We finished class and we were talkign about relationships after the college class. Then I was messing with her and stuff and before she started walking to her car saying goodnite, I went to her and we hugged and I was trying to kiss her ... I KISSED HER ON THE CHEEEK AFTER I HUGGED HER and then I hugged her again and then i told her I really like her!!! IDK why i didnt want to it just came out OMG is she gonna run away???? we have been friends for awhile and everyone in class says we are BF GF but I used to deny it IDK why so she dont get mad...but she dont mind and today someone said something about her telling me to ask my girlfriend AKA her for the answer for hw and i said ok..and she was right there and they alll wondered why i didnt say that she aint my GF..so One guy actually says he never denied it and she(GIRL) laughed.THE STUPID PART AINT THE KISS I wanted to do that!!! Its that i hugged again, is that stupid or is it just me???? I honestly dotn know why i did it?? I had no control of it, it just happened
2007-05-02 05:01:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
calm down! she didnt say anything like "lets just be friends" or anything. so i dont think you have too much to worry about. either ask her how she feels or just leave it be and see what happens, she might come around on her own.
2007-05-02 05:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously do really love her, but you just now realized it. The hugging after the kiss wasn't stupid...its like trying to let go of something you really care about, which most of the time wont happen without a fight. It sounds like she likes you too. I think it also sounds like you two are heading into a DEEP, DEEP relationship, but thats just what i think. Anyway...it sounds like you did everything right, just don't take things too fast or too slow. You did nothing wrong so stop buzzin. Maybe she REALLY REALLY liked the kiss and wants to move further than that, but you never know until you try.
2007-05-02 05:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, calm the F down. Quit second-guessing every little nuance and just roll with it, will you? Man, the only thing that'll scare a girl away in this situation is you having a total nervous breakdown over basically nothing.
It looks like you and her are an item now--good for you. Try to enjoy it, instead of stressing over it. It's supposed to be fun and exciting, not a perpetual panic attack.
2007-05-02 05:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by P.I. Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gunna be honest with you. You had complete control. If you didnt want the kiss to happen. There was a time where you had to make that choice. And if you didnt want to do it, grow some balls and stay true to what you feel and stop thinking about the sexual attraction. If you truely like this girl, I wouldnt say you messed up at all. You just worried what she thinks about you.. who cares man. She will like you for who you are if she is the one for you.. and be honest about your mistakes you felt that you made to her and I bet everything will turn out just dandy. Peace
2007-05-02 05:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by Royce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she laughed to hide her nerves. I don't think she minded the kiss or hug. If she had she would have said or done something at that time. Maybe she is waiting for you to ask her out.
2007-05-02 05:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm yourself down, it was just nerves and jitters. You can talk to he she won't break and what are you afraid of - rejection!?! How else will you know how she feels if you don't ask her? If she says yes then you can move up to the level of being GF/BF but if not, then you would know not to keep feeling like you are...Ask her about her feelings toward you and if she feels that she would want to be your GF.
2007-05-02 05:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem like one of those really shy guys... hmmm .. Anyways it was pretty dumb for the second hug, but come on we all do stupid things when we're nervous or don't know what to do. I know sometimes I bump guys and I feel stupid but, they like that I show I'm human and it's okay to show that.... They find cute like I'm nervous but, it's b/c I'm just there and I get alittle freaked out.. My suggestion is be yourself even if that happens again, she probably thought it was cute and seeing that she probably liked you she found it wierd but nice....
Don't sweat..... and ummm.... Hope it works out...
o' and don't be SHY!!!
2007-05-02 05:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda Kasual 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man your good. Not everybody is cool and smooth like james bond. Its a normal raction to be nervous. I probably would of done soemthing even more messed up.
2007-05-02 05:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by C. Hodgins B*tches Part 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In assuming you are a male - get used to the word "No", its something we hear alot as males. Sounds like she was stunned. Just explain to her what you were thinking. If she isnt responsive, well there are plenty of fish in the sea - and every dog has his day. Get over it.
2007-05-02 05:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by srmc_007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hun thats not stupid at all. you were nervous and it was a nervous reaction. its all good just enjoy the hug that you got, and just wait for the next one that comes along.
2007-05-02 05:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by Linds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋