Family & Relationships - 2 May 2007

2007-05-02 06:45:29 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she found this man on line. and now she wount talk to me about anything and i am stuck with all the bills and she didnt work before and i cant stand this anymore she was talking to the man on line from 8am to2pm m to fri when i was at work

2007-05-02 06:45:17 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have a disagreement about pornography. I think that they can be a valuble marital aid, and I don't think that there is anything wrong with it. I am not addicted or anything, and I do not wan't to watch it all the time, I just need to have time to blow off steam. She won't let me watch anything on tv that may have women in bikinis or anything, or have friends, or go to stripclubs, etc. I think that these things are important for a guy to blow off steam from the rest of the week.
My wife thinks that a married man should never watch, or wish to look at another woman, and if he does than there is something wrong with him. She thinks that these things are ok if he is single, but should immediately stop when married.
What do you think?

2007-05-02 06:42:42 · 28 answers · asked by Aaron 3 in Marriage & Divorce

feel bad for liking him? Whats that mean?

2007-05-02 06:41:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how small they where. He didn't say if it was a good or bad thing to him. Now I feel SUPER insecure. Even more than i was before. I am only an A. What can I do to be less insecure? I weigh like 105, so I can't help being small.

2007-05-02 06:40:11 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 06:38:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I like to be a gentleman. I like to open doors for the lady. Treat them like a queen. Make sure they get food before I do. Do my best to please a lady and keep them happy. I also like to make ladies laugh. Thank u for answering.

2007-05-02 06:38:18 · 16 answers · asked by eegle70 2 in Singles & Dating

my fiance and i are very fed up of his family interfering in our relationship they make our lives a misery me and my fiance get along great but i am 13 years older than him and he is a bit disabled his family treat him like a disabled 5 year old even though he is 28, we want to move away from them all and live our own lives and be happy, but we dont know how to tell them this, any ideas. please no silly answers.

2007-05-02 06:34:18 · 5 answers · asked by judrop111 2 in Family

My step-mom today called me at school and said that she couldnt bring me food for my game but to tell my dad she did so she could keep the money. I told her that i wasnt going to do that and sheh got mad so we started fighting and she told me that It wa sprobally my fault that my mom died because i am such a little brat. The dean of students at my highschool saw me crying afterwards and asked me what was wrong i told him that i didnt want to talk about it should i have told him what went on and also why would my step-mom say it was my fault that my mom died?

2007-05-02 06:32:37 · 26 answers · asked by vermontangel90 1 in Family

we just start going out and we been married going on three years and i dont like how i look after my baby but he thinks i look hot what could be going on

2007-05-02 06:30:41 · 16 answers · asked by maria p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I ran into an old friend through my-space that I haven't seen in about 13 years. We have been talking for a few days now and it feels like no time has past. He is so easy to talk to and I feel really comfortable talking to him.

He knows that I am seeing someone (new relationship only about 2 months), but has been telling me that he really likes me and feels like we made a connections. He said that he is willing to work at this one because women like me don't come around too often. He has said that he thinks I am intellegent and he hasn't been able to talk to a woman this easily in a long time.

Obviously he wants me to dump this guy I am with and see where we could go with our relationship. Is he just spiting out lines or is he being sincere?? I really believe him, but I have issues with words and actions.....

2007-05-02 06:29:45 · 14 answers · asked by asking away 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister and I used 2 be always close, but now thats changed. she's a senior in high school and shes moving out soon. She wont talk to me and is always ignoring me. I have tried to spend special time hanging out with her, and get her a nice gift or something she wanted but nothing works!! I have also just left her alone instead incase i happen to be annoying her! when she moves out i am afraid i will have nothing to do with her anymore. I jus want to be close to her and be able to share secrets with her like we used to. What should I do?

2007-05-02 06:28:16 · 5 answers · asked by pink_dancer912 3 in Family

I met my gf 2 years ago in Los Angeles. We started dating for 4 months.Then one day she decided to leave America and move back to Korea.She was having difficulty adjusting to the new life in L.A.She wanted to stay together and start a long distance relationship.I decided to give it a try.A year goes by and I make the decision to move to Korea to be with her.I really love her and I want to marry her.So I left my job and eveything I know for an English teaching position in Korea.So I arrived to Korea 3 months ago.My girlfriend and I have been spending time together but not as much as I expected.We only see each other on the weekends because are work schedules differ.On the weekends we are happy and we enjoy the new life we have together.Then all of sudden she wants space from me.She says she doesnt see her friends and that she feels pressure to marry.She also says that I have no friends here and that she feels obligated to see me.What should I do?Give her space or move on?

2007-05-02 06:27:36 · 19 answers · asked by A Fool in Love 1 in Singles & Dating

let's say eventhough you don't want to...
or it's your first time or whatsoever...

What makes you give in to the pressure?
*or no pressure at all*

2007-05-02 06:25:52 · 58 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 06:25:34 · 3 answers · asked by Rucg 1 in Family

During a divorce, is a vehicle and the joint incumbrence therein considered both community property and community debt? Can it be listed as community property only, with a notation of the incumbrance to be included with possession of said vehicle, without listing it seperately as a community debt as well? The vehicle is my spouses, but we both signed the loan paperwork. I want him to have the vehicle and be responsible for the payments going forward as well. I cannot afford legal counsel and am filling in the paperwork myself and do not want to delay if I make an error. So, list it seperately even though it pertains to the same item, or as property and the incumbrence therein only? Thanks

2007-05-02 06:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Any ideas please, am I strange? I always seem to attract them when I am out!

2007-05-02 06:23:42 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy who had a ton of old date books stacked on his bookshelf with all kinds of stuff in it including juicy details about sex he had and just everyday stuff.

2007-05-02 06:23:13 · 2 answers · asked by Hunter T 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 06:22:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been married for 15 yrs. we have 5 boys together. His drinking has gone from occasional to practically daily and drunk every weekend. He recently passed out in my brothers back yard and is having slight black outs. He has refused to see he has a problem for 2 yrs now. I cant live like this anymore and am worried about my boys seeing alot of this. they hate it. I cant financially affford to kick him out til he gets help but it may have to come to that. He thinks he is fine. I am having heart palpatations and have recently started getting miagraines. Any advice? I have tried Alanon but it didnt help me much. Any advice at this point would be great.

2007-05-02 06:22:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am from Egypt. I work in Kuwait. I am married with 1 child. My brothers, sisters and parents keep on asking me for money when I phone home. I have a wife and a child to care for. I think that they think the money grows on trees in Kuwait. Help! How do I stop this?

2007-05-02 06:20:18 · 8 answers · asked by Mohammed S 1 in Family

My boyfriend is getting out of rehab this month. he has been there for almost a year now. He has made so much progress that I am so proud of him for. We have been together for over 6 years and do plan on getting married someday. My first cousin is getting married in July and I just forund out my bf is not invited. This was spoken about to my mom and my brother but never to me. I feel extremely hurt by this. We have always been close to the family and my boyfriend was always invited to family events before. I understand that this wedding is about my cousin and not me but I don't think its fair for him not to be invited. I don't want to miss the wedding but I don't know if I should out of respect for my boyfriend?? What could I possibly say to change their minds??

2007-05-02 06:19:12 · 29 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Weddings

guys what do yo think about asian girls?

2007-05-02 06:18:33 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

my Aunt will be celebrating her 50th Anniversary and will be having a ceremony. She would like to have wedding favors for her guest but she doesn't have very much money. Please share some ideas for affordable wedding favors I can make from home. Please list the items I need and that I can get from Walmart.

2007-05-02 06:16:29 · 9 answers · asked by MsLisaLisa 1 in Weddings

So I got all smooth and silky, put on my best looking b and p set...heels and went to go surprise my man...it was about 1am. About half way there I called n told him what I was doing, what I wanted and what I was wearing... He was too sleep to be up to it...he said I could come anyways and he would hold me but I just turned around and went back home...

What should I have done differently for a better outcome? And if its my timing what do you suggest would be a better time?

Is it silly that my feelings were hurt? and if not, how do I tell him they were?

2007-05-02 06:14:57 · 10 answers · asked by hny_rstd 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20, and I usually like younger guys. Anywhere from 16-18. My mother says it's not acceptable to girls to date younger guys. I'm usually mistaken for being younger too. What are some other opinions on this?

2007-05-02 06:14:24 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So last night I had a pretty sexual dream and I must say that it seemed so real it was the most turned on I ever was... Ok so here goes.. I was sitting at home waiting for my husband to get home, so I went upstairs in my closet and found my sexy baseball player costume It was a short white tee shirt with short blue sleeves and skimpy little white shorths with blue pin stripes on them I proceeded to put them on then reached back in my closet to get my sexy white knee highs and little black cleets!! I them grabbed the baseball bat and helmet and went back downstairs to wait for my husband to get home.. I knew that he'd be at least another hour so I put in a porn and proceeded to pleasure myself which was great in itself! By the time my husband got home I was sooo horny and ready to go I stood in the hallway by the front door as he walked in.. He pretty much dropped everything that was in his hands and came over to me and without saying a word he grabbed my arms and pushed me up against the wall and started kissing me, then slowly moving down my jaw bone and down to my neck and then back up again! I was so excited he then took me over to the chair and slowly took my shirt off then my shorts he started kissing me again and slowly worked his way down my neck, over my chest, down my stomach and eventually went down on me that lasted for sometime then of course I got up and sat him down where I basically did the same thing as I was sucking and licking him I was looking directly into his eyes... We then moved into the bedroom where I pushed him onto the bed, got on top of him and started kissing him and worked my way down a little then I moved so I could grab his penis and put it inside of me very very slowly as he grabbed my **** and played with them... I started moving up and down slowly as I was also rubbing myself.. in and out in and out until I couldn't take it anymore I started moving faster as I heard him moaning we both got off at the same time.. And I must say it was the best sex I ever had to bad it was only a dream....

2007-05-02 06:14:23 · 2 answers · asked by heather j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-02 06:12:11 · 2 answers · asked by desi07 1 in Friends

2007-05-02 06:11:26 · 10 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Family

My wife is Mexican, and she wants me to be like a Mexican Soap opera star and fight with everyone who has a disagreement with her. Recently she was arguing (civily) with my brother over how a relationship should be (she thinks that she should be in control of an entire relationship, and the two should be together always, ignoring everyone else including family). Anyway, she thinks that any time that someone argues with her over something, then I am supposed to act all macho, and punch them in the face or something. I don't understand, because I was always taught to be calm, and not to fight. Clearly if she was in physical danger I would fight for her. But she says that I am a traidor, and not doing my duty as her husband. Keeping in mind that we are not talking about strangers, we are talking about arguments with family. What do you think? Women's opinion is valued in particular.

2007-05-02 06:08:54 · 31 answers · asked by Aaron 3 in Marriage & Divorce