Family & Relationships - 2 May 2007

My bi polar ex girlfriend broke up with me 5 days ago, to be with some 14 year old kid.. ( shes 17) who had a crush on her, shes done this to me last year when she was going through a manic episode she broke up with me then later dated someone else for 3 months.. but he cheated on her, this time this kid seems nice enough, but after two days of dating he broke up with her because of his best friend, now after dropping off a gift at her school and not seeing her for two days I hear from her brother that they are shopping together? So I can only assume that they are dating again.. after she said two weeks ago there was no one better than me and I was everything she ever wanted in a man, and that she could never have me out of her life.. I want to wait for her so much.. but while this guys around I feel like theres no hope for me.. I really do want her back some day and I love her with all my heart what should I do? I want her to see me as the better guy for now should I stay friends?

2007-05-02 02:37:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 02:35:10 · 8 answers · asked by Wilson J 4 in Singles & Dating

am a 26yr old lady i dont av a boy friend av always been dreamin on getting married in life, i dont av any potential man in my life wat do i do

2007-05-02 02:34:50 · 18 answers · asked by liakin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

????????? women can answer to.

2007-05-02 02:34:37 · 21 answers · asked by NAESHA 2 in Singles & Dating

But I don't want to because their is nothing wrong with her Sony Ericsson W850i, she just wants to keep up with "trends" what else can I get her?


She is 19?

2007-05-02 02:33:10 · 9 answers · asked by Puma Academy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-02 02:33:07 · 13 answers · asked by blckmustng2002 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a brother who had 6 kids and they seemed to struggle through everything...
So that being said ...Do people think about the environment that the kids might be growing up in before choosing to have children?

2007-05-02 02:31:11 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

All my life I have lived in close proximity to my family. In the past few years most have moved away. At first I was devasted, but the more time I spend without them the more time I dread them coming for a visit. My father recently passed away, he had been quite ill, but he moved more then three years ago. I felt like I said my good byes a long time ago because I went from seeing him everyday to once or twice a year. I feel better not talking with them and I feel guilty about this. I guess I want to know if it's normal to not want contact any longer.

2007-05-02 02:29:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance of 2 years we have been together almost 4 has his own business, we live in a small town, anyway one of the girl's that lives here is 10 years older than him and has 3 kids called and asked him a question on her furnance, anyway they ended up calling each other back and forth about 30 times in 4 months. I found out and he said they were just friends, we were going through a rough spot at that time and he told me that he would talk to her about our relationship and he would talk to her about her relationship, I called her and she said he was just her friend and I know her next door neighbor real well and she has never seen him at her house or anything.. do you think I should worry about this? Thanks

2007-05-02 02:26:13 · 18 answers · asked by Dee S 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 02:25:57 · 5 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 02:25:03 · 3 answers · asked by ray 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We had already planned our date out. It is special to us b/c it is our anniversary. His best friend and his fiancee decided to come with us and get married to. They could not pick a date. We had our date since we got engaged. He suggested to his friend that they get married on the same day, but earlier i nthe day to save resources and time during the vacation. We are there for a week. I feel like my wedding is tainted now and not as special since they will be getting married the same day as us. He does not understand how special a wedding should be and not have them getting married on the same day as us. He said they have already printed the date on their invitations and so have we, why should they change? Should I have to get used to the fact of them getting married on "our day?" How can this be fixed?

2007-05-02 02:24:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-05-02 02:20:30 · 6 answers · asked by smmher 1 in Singles & Dating

Indicate what breed is your favorite and why

2007-05-02 02:16:47 · 18 answers · asked by doglove4u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Your analyst?

2007-05-02 02:14:00 · 6 answers · asked by PartyTime 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced for one year. My cousin has also. We come from a close family and we grew up close. Since our divorces we have spent a lot of time together, just as company nothing more. But as time goes by I feel a very deep love for her. I can't tell what kind it really is I just know I can't stand to be away from her. We have never been intimate and I don't know how she would react to it. I do think our family would be very upset, but I can live without them.

We both can no longer have children so that is not part of the problem. Is it worse than being gay? Is it the same?

2007-05-02 02:12:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a boyfriend ive been with him for 3 years now we're both 19! an every time i say my back is aching he doesnt offer to rub it or anything and im the one ending up asking him too, when i ask him he says oh baby my how long for my arm is aching or its tired or sometimes he just doesnt do it at all an the same happens with sex too he makes up excuses sayin that hes back is aching so he cant have sex now what i wanna know is this wrong can i get better??, lyk...iff he was a true boyfriend would he just have sex with me an rub my back NO MATTER WHAT, i dunno im just confused so i need your advices please????????????

2007-05-02 02:10:39 · 11 answers · asked by Babii-Girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my man have been together for like 5 mos i live wint him and we are thinking baout when we are dont with school he wants me to move to NY with him should i got or should we stay????

2007-05-02 02:07:25 · 15 answers · asked by hes my everythin 1 in Singles & Dating

I get irratated at the saying ," he is only a friend" and he is single. Is it not true that a single man in only friends with a woman to get in her pants. Then deny they ever do. I just do not understand why girls and guys do that "just friend" BS.

2007-05-02 02:05:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...and how would you respond?

2007-05-02 02:04:16 · 11 answers · asked by patzky99 6 in Friends

I have a friend who loves to call me her best friend but i don't feel the same kind of love. I'm always there for her mentally when she needs me, financially when she can't afford to make it, and any other time she needs me, but i found that everytime i talk to her she needs something. The only time she has ever did anything for me i had to ask then she hounded me about the 60 dollars when i know for a fact she still owes me way more than 60 dollars but being a friend that i am i wouldn't ask for it because i know her situation. I feel i can no longer deal with this cause i don't feel that she appreciates me as a friend. Please help!

2007-05-02 02:03:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im thinking of putting my husband and teenage son up for sale on e-bay un less any one has any better ideas im open to suggestions, D oes any one want to adopt them? help Meeeee..... A Very desperate mother..... illl pay ill wash your car... ill make you a cake.... some one give me ideas

2007-05-02 01:45:08 · 16 answers · asked by robin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to know about the meaning of Anniversary gifts, I have heard that each year represents something (paper, wool, leather, silver, etc) thus, one should give something in this material to the loved one... Does anyone out there know these meanings?? Does anyone have cool ideas on what I should give. Our first wedding anniversary is in 10 days, and I need ideas!!!
Thanks so much!

2007-05-02 01:44:32 · 5 answers · asked by Nelly B 2 in Weddings

2007-05-02 01:38:25 · 4 answers · asked by Lively_spirit 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My son has his first communion this Sunday and I have to do some serious cleaning around here. I've been playing too much on the internet. Help!!!!!!

2007-05-02 01:38:15 · 26 answers · asked by Lily P 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend moved in with me about 2 or 3 months ago. Things were going great for a while, and now, for the past week or 2 he has been acting different. He told me a few days ago that he preferrs hugs more than kissing, when kissing is what he loved the most at the beginning. And when I confronted him last night he said that its b/c he has me in his arms. And I don't know if I should believe that. Because he also did tell me that he wanted one of his friends to come over that is a girl while I'm not home. No...better yet, while no one is home. He yelled at me when I had one of my friends over who was a guy while he wasn't home and people were home. So is it really fine for him to have another chick over while I'm not there/no one is there? I really need help with our relationship. It is going to be a year in like a week. I don't want to lose him. Thanks to anyone who can help me.

2007-05-02 01:34:09 · 10 answers · asked by Babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you just have to be a mile above sea level or do you have to be in a plane?

2007-05-02 01:32:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 01:12:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have asked a few questions here and am now resolved to BEGIN TALKING to this girl I like. But, I need some tips on how to do it, especially so that it seems to be 'friend-to-friend basis' and how to actually come up to her, cause she is often with her friends and I am very shy.

I want to be a brand-new person. Someone who will pursue his love and fight for what he thinks he deserves. I will start tomorrow, hence can you please give me some tips?

Cause I have told her my feeling last year, but she said she just wanna be friends. I've been nice to her though, and she is nice to me too. But, recently she stopped replyin to my text, either because of system error or.. But, I've NEVER have collected the gut to talk to her, esp this year, we talk less and less..

And how about another guy who is after her. He would talk to her and smile at her, she would respons and reply the smile. How to cope? How to make me a better person for her?

2007-05-02 01:12:06 · 5 answers · asked by loveperhaps 1 in Singles & Dating

i need some help understanding.and i would like a womans side and a womans advise as to what i can do to work things out email me please i really need some help

2007-05-02 00:56:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce