My boyfriend moved in with me about 2 or 3 months ago. Things were going great for a while, and now, for the past week or 2 he has been acting different. He told me a few days ago that he preferrs hugs more than kissing, when kissing is what he loved the most at the beginning. And when I confronted him last night he said that its b/c he has me in his arms. And I don't know if I should believe that. Because he also did tell me that he wanted one of his friends to come over that is a girl while I'm not home. No...better yet, while no one is home. He yelled at me when I had one of my friends over who was a guy while he wasn't home and people were home. So is it really fine for him to have another chick over while I'm not there/no one is there? I really need help with our relationship. It is going to be a year in like a week. I don't want to lose him. Thanks to anyone who can help me.
2007-05-02 01:34:09 · 10 answers · asked by Babygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are tight then it is going to be hard to have opposite sex friends, I don't care what anyone tells you. Have you ever gotten a new dress? You start to get used to it after a while you know. Nothing stays the same day to day. Feelings change everyday and I don't mean that that is bad. He may just be complacent. You must have ground rules though. Should have done that before moving in. Can't walk in a business and start telling someone how to run it. He has been running his world a long time just fiine. He probably just wants to add you to his world. Sit down and talk this out. Communication is the death of all relationships.
2007-05-02 01:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by Hey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi frnd...u r in a grt n criticul sittuation. i don't hve any idea y ur bf is acting like tht. specially when he wanna take a girl while no one around him. it's very serious. i jus wanna tell u some thing. some guys they looking at girls only for havin fun. and some they wanna jus time pass n some where only looking for a real love. i really don't know to tell u in which category i can put ur bf, coz we the people can't read anyones mind. so jus t.c of u, n to avoid this prob n soulve this u have to spk wit him. take him for a place tht gives a grt feelings, like a sunset beach o a dinner. n spk wit him, express ur feelings truely n seriously n ask him whts going on?? i hope he will spk wit u. jus express ur love to him. express as much as u can....i hope u'll get a good answer may god bless u my frnd.
2007-05-02 01:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by fayaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,I have a naughty idea,just let him bring that chick home.You should install cameras all over the place (make sure he cant see it).Then u will know what happened,so by then u will decide what to do with him if he was cheatin!But if it was really a friend,start seducing him,get him on the bed,make love.Maybe he needs a little attention.But pls install the cameras 1st!
2007-05-02 01:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Way! He should not have this girl friend over when nobody is home!!! That just doesn`t sound kosher to me! Somethings up with the kissing too. What man in his right mind would want to just hug?
2007-05-02 01:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by MISTY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About kissing thats just wierd...Your at comfortable point in your relationship,maybe thats why he prefers hugging. As for having a lady over,if he can't accept you having a guy friend over even when they're other people around-tough. He should treat you as he wants to be treated.
2007-05-02 01:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, open your eyes! Don't think with your heart. It is clear that something's not right. Love is beautiful and if he makes you so sad and makes you doubt your relationship then he does not deserve your love. I'm sure you're not a foolish girl and knows what your feeling is real. Don't let it be too late! Speak to him and demand the truth. Your future is at stake and if he truly loves you, he'd be honest.
2007-05-02 01:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult men are purely extraordinary. It feels like your relationship is physically powerful yet your boyfriend replaced into purely possibly taken lower back via his acquaintances walking in and replaced into possibly somewhat embarrased. don't get your thoughts harm and don't provide tricks which you have been upset. he's permitted to have acquaintances too and whilst his acquaintances are around he can not be putting his interest on you the entire time. don't be needy yet whilst it happens each and all of the time and it gets worse then point out some thing. does not sound that undesirable to me in spite of the indisputable fact that.
2016-10-04 06:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumb him or stick up for yourself. If you have guys over and he get mad. Then he is basically jealous, If another man is jealous then it is because he would do the same thing. So let him know how you feel and if he dont like it. Find a man that will.
2007-05-02 01:39:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but i cant help
2007-05-02 01:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk ask him
2007-05-02 01:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by crackg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋