I get irratated at the saying ," he is only a friend" and he is single. Is it not true that a single man in only friends with a woman to get in her pants. Then deny they ever do. I just do not understand why girls and guys do that "just friend" BS.
2007-05-02 02:05:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course men can just be friends with women. The trouble is a lot of people like to think the worst of everyone, and then judge them by what they would do themselves. Could you just have a woman as a friend? I don't think so because it seems you really don't know what friendship is about. Unfortunately many men say that they only want to be "friends", when in fact, as you say, they only want to pork the fork. Life is a hard lesson, and finding true friends and friendships is a monumental task in itself.
2007-05-02 02:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by ausie down under 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see your point, and agree to an extent. However, it IS possible to be just friends. I'm single and my best friend (for over 15 years) is a beautiful female. We have fooled around in the distant past and would probably do it again if she were not married. Either way, I would never give up our frienship. She is like a sister to me.
2007-05-02 02:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single guys can be friends with women. When I was single must of my friends were women and i never once tried to get into there pants. p.s my g/f now isn't one of those friends.
2007-05-02 02:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admit, that they are allways attractive, and of course if you know them for long, how do they think, how do they feel, it just cannot be otherway.
But I aprecciate that friendship, and i always keep that little distance, even if most provoking situations.
Well, I fell once, but we stopped in the middle, and now we remember that as a joke :)
I remember in "Friends" Ross almost hhad sex with the author of "smelly cat" :) but nothing turned out.
2007-05-02 02:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's just limited to single men either. It's difficult (although probably NOT impossible) for men and women to be just platonic friends.
This was illustrated in the movie "When Harry Met Sally."
2007-05-02 02:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they think their living right ,guy's usually say this coz they don't wanna get married hanging around and doing things for free is a better option no promises involved no sadness if he leaves life is so simple for these idiots ,they think this is called fun but in other hands it's sick
2007-05-02 02:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r wrong a single man is a better friend than other men , cuz at least he dosent have a gf to worry about ur friendship with him
2007-05-02 02:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience I did have a guy friend for many years.It wasnt bs.But after about 5 years alot of sexual tension did build up because we didnt give in to the urge cause we didnt want it to ruin our friendship.Needless to say we arent friends anymoreLOL!!
2007-05-02 02:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by tmckenzieswife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well like everyone has the right to be friends.
it's not a crime.
and sometimes they may be just friends.
there doesn't have to be an attraction.
friendship is important and sometimes being good friends with opposite sex is better.
2007-05-02 02:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by teddyGisgreat! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i 100% agree with u, there is nothing called FRIENDS ONLY whether u like it or not u gonna fall n love with a single man ... this is my opinion.
2007-05-02 02:09:53 · answer #10 · answered by japan:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋