My bi polar ex girlfriend broke up with me 5 days ago, to be with some 14 year old kid.. ( shes 17) who had a crush on her, shes done this to me last year when she was going through a manic episode she broke up with me then later dated someone else for 3 months.. but he cheated on her, this time this kid seems nice enough, but after two days of dating he broke up with her because of his best friend, now after dropping off a gift at her school and not seeing her for two days I hear from her brother that they are shopping together? So I can only assume that they are dating again.. after she said two weeks ago there was no one better than me and I was everything she ever wanted in a man, and that she could never have me out of her life.. I want to wait for her so much.. but while this guys around I feel like theres no hope for me.. I really do want her back some day and I love her with all my heart what should I do? I want her to see me as the better guy for now should I stay friends?
2007-05-02 02:37:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've known her 12 years dated her on and off for 3... I dont want us to be over 100%, I want her back, but if I cant get her back right now I want to still be there for her
2007-05-02 02:38:13 · update #1
Wow, you should get credit just for being willing to stick it out with someone who is bi-polar. Personally, I would have run away a long time ago. Surely you know by now that her behavior has a great deal to do with her illness. So really, if you are willing to wait for her to get back in her right mind, that's all you can do. You should know that if she is having a manic episode, there is not much you can do to talk her out of her current behavior, so just make sure she knows you are still there so that when she snaps out of it, she'll be back. Good luck to you. If you are serious about a commitment to her, it's going to be a long road for you.
2007-05-02 02:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by e_imommy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want her to think your the better guy then just be there for her as a friend. Don't get all mad about the whole 2 weeks ago she said you were perfect for her and now she's with some 14 year old. Just be there for her as a friend when she needs you and dont try to get w/ her because that wouldn't help you as far as being the better guy because you'd be messing w/ someone in a relationship. Eventually, she'll realise that your better then the other guy and come back to you.
2007-05-02 02:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by juli3b3thx11 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm 18 and that i'm starting up my first semester of faculty q4. I nonetheless have not realized the thanks to emphasize both, and it would not seem promising (usually because i'm scared to lack of existence of the concept of driving, and the instructor i found hasn't suggested as me back, and that i don't think of i will get it in time for my first day of faculty...) i'm also getting a job on campus at my college, and that i'm very fearful about this time-honored semester. i'm afraid that i have not made the right selection, and that i'm questioning the position a level in English literature receives me, and no matter if i'd be able to maintain a superior GPA in order to keep my interest, which i'm not even particular i will like, seeing as i do not get to %. it... i'm also lacking self belief, i'm questioning if it really is the right element for me... and that i merely discovered out that the human beings i develop into relying on for moral help are both shifting away or going to a diverse college (i.e. my perfect buddy is shifting contained in the spring semester and my different perfect buddy who were given commonplace into the same college as I did also keen to ditch me very last minute...it really is significant because i do not make acquaintances really, so i will see 3 years of utter lonliness ahead for me...) there develop right into a lot extra stuff confusing me too some weeks in the past, besides the indisputable fact that it were given so depressing that my subconcious merely would not wat to imagine about it anymore... Now i'm merely sitting in the front of my computer waiting to confirm what occurs. i imagine that is common, yet after all, i will relate.
2016-12-05 05:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by smallwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go live life. You are young and what feels like love now you will find out later what love really is. Why choose someone who keeps leaving you at a drop of a hat. Find yourslef someone who gives to the relationship as much as you do.
2007-05-02 02:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by J C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she on any medication for her bipolar? I've been with my husband for 14 yrs and we recently found out the he is bipolar and is a sex addict. They have poor impulse control and if they are only on antidepressants, or not on any medication at all the mania will cause them to do stupid things including cheating, spending sprees for stuff they don't need, drugs, gambling, ect. My advice to you is that you and she are both young and if she is not on medication for both the mania and depression your in for a lot of heart ache for as long as you stay together. I know that this sucks but try to be there for her as a friend and see what happens when she finally does get on the proper meds.
2007-05-02 02:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on....why would a 17 yr old want to be w/ a 14 yr old & why would you want her back after this? Not to mention it is illegal for her to be w/ that kid. I have a 15 yr old & if some older girl came after him I'd turn her in. It may be hard but you really do need to move on & find someone who will care about you like you care about them not someone who keeps dumping you & coming back why would you want to continue to do that to yourself?
2007-05-02 02:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love to go after guys that play games with them-there's something that makes us want more, whether we can have it or not. If you truly believe that she is right for you-then I think you should support her only until she starts to make decisions that you no longer want to be apart of. Then she will take a look at what she's done to you and herself and see that you're the best person for her. Make sure she appreciates you-because then she won't leave you again.
2007-05-02 02:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by kjluvsu 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all if she is 17 and he is 14 they won't last I am betting. At 14, this boy doesn't even begin to know what he wants in a women.
2007-05-02 02:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids lol
2007-05-02 02:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will continue to break up with you and do this...
2007-05-02 02:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋