I am so sick of hearing girls rip guys apart for something they have been doing for years. Not everything is about you!! I think the ones that go on and on about how wrong it is, need to give it a try themselves. It is my theory that a woman who says she doesn't masterbate is either lying, not doing it right, or never did it with a vibrating object. And what's the deal with porn? Afraid you will find things out about yourself? Or better yet, are you afraid because you will be confronting what you already know about yourself, just pushed aside? Face it ladies, it's ok for you to have a sexual side as well, and yes, even indulge in it privately. If it really isn't your thing, fine, but don't go preaching to your man, and tell him he is the scum of the earth because he enjoys it. Next time you want to go off the deep end about it all, consider this: Having sex is like a gormet meal. Masterbating is like snacking on a Snickers bar to get you through to your meal.
Just relax and have fun!
2007-05-02 04:13:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jeanette you are a wonderful woman and I think you understand men better then most women!
Men don't enjoy porn more than being with a woman, but there are times when sex isnt available and porn is a replacement...now of course there are exceptions and if a man has a "pornotopia" then maybe he needs help. But for the most part men are sexual creatures that think about sex constantly and we are ruled by our urges.
The best is having sex with a women and watching porn with her...cant be beat...LOL
2007-05-02 04:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by jim 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Small ***** and poor performance in bed are the two top answers, just read the majority of male answers above with your brain turned on, and all the reasons are bs. It s a nasty, painful experience for a young lady. If you have to ease it in super slow into your non virgin gf so it won t hurt with lube, & have been with even one virgin you will never want to do it again unless you are some sicko rapist who gets off hurting women. Its the sd boys thing, nothing more
2016-05-18 22:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by alysha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend describes it as emotional and mental cheating. She says that if I'm "wacking off" to the porn, that there must be something that I'm seeking from somebody else other than her. Who'da thunk it?
2007-05-02 04:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Tyr_74 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Who died and made you God? Dr Ruth ? Masterbation is a normel way of humen life, and I don't think anyone need's your advice in order to perform it. And Iv'e seen a couple of porn movie's befor,and the only thing thay made me realize is thet( I have dignity )and that make's me beautyful 'inside and out ' ! I know what I've got ,and how it works.And Iv'e got a happy man.Porn has destroy'd meny relationship's ! Why do you incorrige it?
2007-05-02 07:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by lkayj4 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
THANK YOU!!!
masturbation and pron is a guy thing soooo ur right the ladies should give up on that!!!
besides if they didnt have maturbation or porn then they would be wanting sex from us a lot more than they already do...soooo yeah i agree with you all you bitches give it up!!!!
xoxo
Courtney
2007-05-02 04:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
EWWWW..... Porn is disgusting. I repress my thoughts of things like that. It is immoral to have thoughts of pleasuring yourself and not waiting to have sex until you're married.
Are you F*CKING kidding me? I think i'm gonna go put in a good movie right now and go see what pops up.
Ahhhh... Another day in paradise. ;)
2007-05-02 04:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by Scottie"T" 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Hmmm you're telling others not to preach but it looks like that is exactly what you just did...
p.s. I am not bothered by porn,but that's because no guy I am with ever needs a snickers lol :)
2007-05-02 04:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
If you are okay with your spouse looking at others and masturbating while having sex with them in his mind - bully for you. I prefer that my husband give ME that type of attention as I am his wife and I don't care to share that with anyone else, including a video or a magazine.
I don't care for porn because it is degrading and unrealistic. I don't need to act like that in order to enjoy my sexuality and I can tell you that I enjoy having sex with my husband and am no prude and we do this without the help of others in the form of porn.
I can relate to how sick you are of hearing about the porn, though, as I can empathize and tell you I am just as sick that men are using it and women are selling themselves as if they are nothing and as if sex meant nothing. It obviously isn't sacred or special to folks like them or you. That's what makes me sick. And all the bad things that go with it make me sick as well. Child predators, rapists, serial killers, abusers, etc. . the list goes on. DO SOME RESEARCH on the subject and learn from it. The media isn't going to tell you the negative effects of porn. Why would they? Get your facts straight before you rant about how those of us who are against porn as being unrealistic and ridiculous.
AGAINST PORN - NOT NEEDED AND NOT WANTED!!!
2007-05-02 04:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by Stefka 5 · 2⤊ 5⤋
every woman may not be as opened minded as you think they all should be
some for personal or religious reasons do not condone or accept these things
many women do not give or receive oral pleasure either
heck, some won't even drink off the same glass!!
2007-05-02 04:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by ann s 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i'll admit i masturbate but i dont want any dirty old pervert who hits the porn shops and has a huge porn collection in his basement.
2007-05-02 04:18:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋