have you ever faked it with you partner, current or previous?

Answer 1

Always!

Answer 2

Yes, I have been trying to fake it my current partner. My current partner (deployed last 120 days) changes some times he likes to give it from the left than some days from the right. I keep trying to fake it but never can hold out. Will keep trying for the next few weeks though..

Answer 3

I was having this conversation with a guy the other night. He didn't understand why women fake it because essentially they are doing them selves out of an orgasm and why are they even bothering to have sex in the first place if they are not going to get off? I pondered.....

THE TRUTH ABOUT FAKING IT

The simple truth is we fake it because we are either tired, bored or simply want to encourage you. Most of the time we still enjoy the sex but we dont orgasm because;

1. The average woman needs around 15 mins of 'attention' to orgasm, and in my experience that's solid attention AND we have to concentrate. (based on myself and nearly every woman I have had this conversation with). THEREFORE the bloke has to be prepared to put in the time (it'll be worth it unless she's a lazy *****) and we have to feel totally comfortable with ourselves and with the bloke ie: not nervous, worried about how long its taking, what he's thinking, if we've had a shower today, if we look fat, if are toenails are painted etc. THIS TAKES TIME. Most of my girlfriends have faked it for the first 3 months of all of their relationships.

2. The mood HAS to be set just right. The WORST thing is when a bloke just goes for it without warming us up. We need to be touched, teased, caressed - you get the idea. If your idea of foreplay is heading straight for the goods before we've had a chance to even get a bit wet your not going to get anywhere.

3. Here's the shocking one - sometimes we are not really the raving sex kittens we make ourselves out to be and an orgasm isn't as important as the intimacy. Most girls put on an 'i'm a dirty little *****' show at the beginning then when you fall in love with us the sex dwindles, why? "Why?!" I hear men ask, "Why does this happen?!" Well, WE LIED. IT WAS BOLLOCKS, ALL OF IT. We want hugs more than we want to be fucked, it's true my friends - the rest is just a show. Women just don't need as much sex as men.

Believe me I am not a frigid old granny neither am I an ugly 15 stoner - I am 22, 8st, attractive and not in a long term relationship - THIS IS JUST THE TRUTH IM AFRAID. I need a good shag about 3 times a week, that suits me nicely, 3 good sessions but you guys seem to want it ALL THE TIME. Sometimes we just wan't to watch Americas Next Top Model in peace. It's not you, it's not us, it's not anything it's just a fact.

Answer 4

Previous, yes a LOT! He was quite bad at sex and would sometimes go on like a Duracell Bunny but in the same position so would fake it just to make him stop! Current, no. He always knows the spot to hit! x

Answer 5

I think that everyone in this world has faked it at least once in their sexual liftime.
I know i am guilty but i had good reason.
Needless to say i have haven't had to do that in a while. Normally you can tell when it is the real deal just by the ooeey gooeeyness (i made that word up)!!!
As far as a woman is concered. Men, well that is a given!

Answer 6

The only time I've ever faked is when I pulled a Meg Ryan in public. You know, something along the lines of When Harry Met Sally. It's pointless in my opinion to fake it. I prefer honesty.

Answer 7

For the entire time I was with my first boyfriend I faked it. In my defense I was younger and even stupider than I am now! I learned from it though, he never really knew what I liked or didn't like which certainly didn't help the situation.

Now I just present myself as a challenge :p

Answer 8

yes i have faked it with past partners. but not with current bf of 3 yrs.

Answer 9

Alas yes - the need current and past has arisen ( no pun intended) although i think i have now got to the stage where the acting is a bit shoddy -

Answer 10

If I had £1 for every time I've faked it in the past I'd be a rich woman.

Answer 11

Yes because my boyfriend is ready to have his big O pretty much from the time we start, so I feel so much pressure to have mine before he does that it takes me longer then usual. So, I just fake it sometimes so that we can just get it over with.