-like on a first date
-i've never done it,so dont give me any rude answers!
2007-05-02 00:17:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely. He may tell you that he loves you and that he will always love you, but if you give in too soon, he will wonder why it was so easy. And if it was so easy for him, who else would it be so easy for. He will never trust you again. It's hypocrisy, but it happens all the time.
2007-05-02 00:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by illbegone_likeabatouttahell 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, Most girls who sleep with a guy on the first day (or one of the first few dates) are nothing but booty calls. Men don't want to marry a girl like that. That is why ho's are always unwed or married to losers. Good women save it and give it to someone they love, then in return you might just become a wife one day. I'm not saying you have to wait until marriage (but that is a smart thing to do), but don't give it up to just any guy because you THINK that you love him. Give it a year see if he is someone who you really care about.
2007-05-02 00:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. There have been a few rare instances where people have had sex and then got to know each other better and went on to have great relationships.
For the most part, this does not happen.
Both parties usually are NOT interested in long term commitment. Nowadays girls "use" guys about as much as guys "use" girls.
I think its fair game out there.
But for the most part, people have more respect for those who DO NOT have one night stands. If you have a feeling of self worth you would know that, you are worth the wait.
2007-05-02 00:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband told me once that if a guy sleeps with a girl on the first date, he might think she is easy and move on. BUT the truth is that i slept with my husband on the first date and we have been married for 10 years now. Oky i do not normally did that, but for some reason that night i did, and to this day i do not recret it. I have a wonderfull amazing hubby. Sometimes there is some good in some bad things, we must just wait to see.
2007-05-02 00:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
On a first date? That sure takes the mystery out of it. Doesn't seem to me like sex should be a recreational thing and it should be a little more special than that. If this is done on your first date, he'll probably put you on his list of conquests and move on to another. Really, it's more fun to go slowly and get to be friends first. If he turns out to be a jerk, better to find out before.
2007-05-02 00:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You won't learn until much later in life that they prefer the challenge. Once they've had the conquest you are not as interesting anymore. If you're looking for a long term relationship... they will also respect you more ... and consider you for friendship and marriage. Nobody wants to marry a whore. Men just use them ... get experience ... and drop them in the long run.
2007-05-02 00:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by dena_lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES - sleeping with him too soon makes you appear cheap and easy in his mind.
Don't give it away so freely!! A woman's sexuality is supposed to be a thing of great value, of very high worth - not something so freely available like a dead tree branch on the ground.
2007-05-02 01:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the guy. I slept with the guy I'm seeing now long before our first date. We were friends first. One night something happened and we decided to give in to lust. A couple weeks down the road he told me he was interested in more than just sex, but the choice was mine if I wanted to keep the relationship to friendship and sex. He has the sex now, but he's still pursuing something more.
2007-05-02 00:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most cases yes. Guys have fickle minds. They will make you secure first and then once they get what they wanted then their work is over !!
I do not want to scare you please but I read the questions from the females that their guys lost interest now. Few guys are faithful.
You may kiss him,hug him, hold his hands etc.
This depends from which nation are you from. I mean the culture part.
Do not have sex with him. Have after marriage. Most guys says they want to know before marriage how it goes between them .. My question to them is what after marriage they are not satisfied then ? Will they leave their wives ?
This is never ending procedures.
2007-05-02 00:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, I found my husband as a one night stand, I wouldn't tell other people its okay to do, I guess fate gave us a helping hand. I was out night clubbing and had a few drinks, I met him and was v attracted to him. We have been together v happy for 7 years and have a two year old daughter.
2007-05-02 00:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by misstth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋