I know guys will use girls for booty calls or relationships that don't go anywhere, but what about guys doing what girls do to guys: hang out with a guy a lot but try to avoid telling him directly they aren't interested in romance so the guy will keep showing up and fawning ove her, and help her move her furniture and stuff, and be her gay shopping buddy.
I'm actually uncomfortable if I know a girl I'm hanging out with is interested in me and I'm not interested in her, and I can't think of any of my guy friends who get off on that. Any girls have guys do this to them?
2007-05-02 08:58:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People can't use you or take advantage of you if you don't allow it...most women don't maliciously use guys as you describe, but a guy may tell himself he was used if the situation doesn't turn out as he desires.
It's easier to be angry at someone else, than at ourselves (for hoping for something that wasn't going to happen).
2007-05-02 09:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes. However, this is far more an attitude of girls than it is of guys. Girls love to play that game, waiting to see if there is anything better out there. Guys tend to just want to be there way they are. They expect women to accept them exactly the way they are, or not. Girls always want to change them. That's the real problem here.
He's telling you what he wants, but you don't want to hear it, you want something else. Accept what is.
2007-05-02 09:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of there's a distinction between sexual thoughts and girls human beings basically take place to be there and sexual thoughts for some one. maximum adult adult males have particularly severe intercourse drives and there are no sexual thoughts linked. There are basically sexual thoughts and a individual they wish would be on the receiving end. yet attachment? that's yet another subject, thoroughly. adult adult males sense sexual or attractive. appealing woman walks by using. accident, not something greater. The sexual thoughts are actually not linked to the female, they are linked to the guy. completely.
2016-10-14 09:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by emanus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if they are players. And are trying to win a bet with their friends
2007-05-02 09:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by lisalau 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does a frog have a watertight ass?
Does a bear **** in the woods?
2007-05-02 09:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by Andy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just quit doing chores for girls who aint giving up the p u s s y? or are you just that stupid?
2007-05-02 09:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes guys do this if they are players. or need an ego boost
2007-05-02 09:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by da man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya but that normally changes after i get done with them lol.....they will start to like me
2007-05-02 09:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋