Me and my husband have been married for almost a year and a half now and no matter what i say he still goes online and looks at other womens profiles and he tells them they are hot.I have told him it bothers me and it seems to me he does not care about what i think.Is that normal for guys.Am I being paronoid.I just need to know what I should do.PLEASE HELP!!
2007-05-02 09:44:56 · 24 answers · asked by hunnybear737 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had a profile before I met my fiancee and I had a ridiculous amount of guy "friends" on there once he saw the page I could tell that it irritated him that I had so many male friends. So I deleted all of them but the real friends. I think out of respect for you he needs to do the same. Although it's slim to none that he will meet these females in person, it should be done out of respect for you. It's not like he is having a true adult conversation just telling females that they are hot is disrespectful once you are in a relationship. I would be just honest with him and then if he was still ignoring your request you need to reevaluate the relationship.
2007-05-02 09:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by ASHES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief..two can play that game..you go no MYSPACE and start telling this guy or that guy that they are hot! Make it juicy, after all...it's just fun, right? And, make sure you leave a trail so he can find it easily...it has to be easy, men are a bit dense around the edges when it comes to wives..they think they own them. Good luck and have some fun. Oh, and by the way, anytime you have to ask, "should I be mad...." the answer is probably NO...you are n't mad now, why would you want to be mad???? Again, have some fun at his expense. See how he likes it. What's good for the goose is good for the gander...hell, make a party out of myspace...two computers, to keyboards, one dsl line.
2007-05-02 10:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is most defiantly not OK in my book! It's disrespectful and inappropriate especially since you have already expressed your concerns with it. He is a married man and in my opinion he is acting like he is single. If my husband ever did something like that there would be a huge problem. You have to put your foot down. Where you draw the line is up to you but if he thinks this is no big deal then who's to say that having a phone conversation with some girl and telling her she is hot isn't OK?
2007-05-02 10:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by flygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is gonna cheat if he hasn't already move out and get rid of him the only person he should be telling then they are hot is you its not normal for a newlywed man to be looking at other womens profile.If it was my husband i'd wouldn't be Fuc*ed up with it or about it i would just leave, if he wanted to be looking at other women online or off then i don't need someone like that.That is just how i am too.
2007-05-02 10:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the lady gained the burden from having infants then her husband needs to be be conscious of-how whether this remains no excuse . particularly some situations in relationships women persons get comfortable and supply up doing the particular issues they use to do like get there hair completed nails gown horny for there guy exct.. women persons get mad while a guy says issues like that because of the fact we are led via our thoughts. as quickly as we like somebody we like then fat skinny bald or what ever. adult adult males on the different hand are seen. instead of coming up her experience undesirable approximately her weight he ought to help her loose the burden. have been given to the wellbeing club together with her prepare fit meals for the the two one among them. specific the guy won't be the concern yet he would join the answer.
2017-01-09 08:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cant respect you being uncomfortable, then you need to rethink whats the basis of you all's marriage. Its not terms for divorce but ask him how would he fill if the shoe was on the other foot. If he says he doesnt care, do it and see. Sometimes, you have to make a believer out of people b/4 they understand what you are going through.
2007-05-02 09:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by daprty1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband has no respect for you or your marriage. He should not be looking for other women on the internet and then telling them that they are hot. If he can do that then let him know that you have every right to do the same thing. It works both ways. I hope that this works out for you.
2007-05-02 10:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is soooooo disrespectful. It's also immature. You guys are a couple now. It's time for him to grow up and be a man.
This guy is on the road to being a cheater so you have to decide if you can tolerate this kind of behavior or get out now before it's too late and he gives you an STD!
2007-05-02 09:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by nailgal2005 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, don't get mad!!! beat him with his own weapon: for example, tell him that he wasn't out for a little while--did anything happen? That sort of thing. I did that to my husband, and guess what? He went to party at 9pm and came back 2 hours later, telling me it wasn't any fun---and of course, it wasn't fun having to sit there wondering why the wife had told him to go out, right? So instead of getting upset, steer him toward believing that you need him out of the house for a while---that is gonna make him believe that you have someone else, and naturally, he'll stay at home to protect his property. Good Luck
2007-05-02 09:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by What Will The Spill Kill? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunnybea, Sweetie I apologize ! He does not speak for all men ! That is totally wrong. He is comitting emotional audultry. Marrige is an eternal bond shared by man and a woman. No outside entities allowed.
2007-05-02 10:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋