how can I keep sex interesting with my boyfriend of almost two years?

Answer 1

Experiment, guys love it when we are adventurous buy lingerie and massage oil etc

Answer 2

Two years - and you are finding it hard to keep the sex interesting?

Somehow I don't think this is a lifetime love. Sounds like the relationship is more about sex than about people

Answer 3

The only thing that has not been said is domination. Try tying him up of having him tie you up. Also here is a trick I learned on here. Each of you write down three fantasies each on a different piece of paper. then put them in a bowl and stir them around. Then draw one out and that's what yall do. Also try hero sex where you get kidnapped and he has to come and save you and he is a hero. Also role play as a married couple. Call him your husband during sex and say your name is Ms. (Insert his name here). That last one makes for a very passionate love making session.

Answer 4

It's only been two years and you are ALREADY asking this question??? Me and my man have been together for nine years, (TOMORROW!), and we still find new things to do. Ummm, if you are into performing falatio, try wrapping him up in a fruit roll-up and use your imagination from there. There are different ways and different positions. Get a book on the Kama Sutra. You don't have to be Hindu to try new things.
And I highly suggest taking a yoga class, either by yourself or together.
Hooray for flexibility.

Answer 5

It would seem that if you are aready worried about the sex diminishing... If you're not married...it's not a good sign. What makes you think a marriage could survive if your dating isn't?

Sex is Sex.... fundimentally there is nothing diffferent... however, I recomend making it more of a mind connection than a physical connection...

Check into "tantra"..... it is the art of 2 minds becoming one in the intensity of making love.... it's incredble.

Answer 6

Go somewhere new & romantic or have a night picnic on the beach afterwards make love right there under the stars.

Always try new positions, remember variety is the spice of life. It doesn't have to be freaky, just exiteting

Answer 7

I have the same problem (2 1/2 years with my bf) and I tried role playing...pole dancing...or just stripper dances...lap dances....costumes and wigs work. Toys help a lot too or FOOD! Good luck!

Answer 8

try new things new positions new places like I know this is crazy but it makes things funn spices them up in a bathroom at a park in a dressing room at a store when you or your guy is trying something on go in together but you have to be quiet it is fun and it makes things intresting new positions chocolate pudding makes things fun role playing also makes things really fun handcuffs uniforms cute little outfits that are sexy

Answer 9

You could buy a sex book, goto little gatherings where they give you sex tips, or you could goto a near by porn shop with your boyfriend to buy goodies

Answer 10

just spice it up. make a date to go to the adult store or even try something new. even something you guys did when you starting having sex. ie... outside or somewhere around the house, on the washer or dryer. just use ur imagination. there is no limit what you guys can do.

Answer 11

Oral sex is the key.............do it and love it......we can tell when it's being done just to please us........notgood.......
Inviting a girlfriend over might work, if you don't love him....the scene might break you apart................do you have phone sex at unexpected times? do you have sex outdoors? do you have a webcam where you can go on line and do things with other couples, guys, girls., etc.....
I've gotta go now that I'm all charged up.......Where's my wife?