Family & Relationships - 2 May 2007

2007-05-02 10:50:50 · 47 answers · asked by tastetouchtantalize.com 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For instance, if a man was not thinking about sex at a given time and a woman suddenly put the idea into his head, how quickly would his mind start to focus on it? Are men ever bothered when a women wants to talk about sex?

2007-05-02 10:49:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For those of you that are happily married--when deciding to marry, were you COMPLETELY sure that he was "THE ONE" and if so, what made you so sure? Thanks!!!

2007-05-02 10:44:01 · 14 answers · asked by GG 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My (now Ex) Fiancee told me she didn't want to see me ever again, On top of that she told me, "Oh,...by the way I aborted the baby." I didn't know she was pregnant. I loved her very much, and I never treated her badly. She stormed out of my live killing our baby, and I can't get a hold of her. I'm wondered if it was something I did? But I can't ask her, I mean she didn't even take the time to lie to me. I'm wonder how you would tackle something like this so I could move on?

2007-05-02 10:42:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like you.. a lot actually.. I'd ask you out in a heart beat if summer wasn't coming up. I party a lot over the summer and i'm sure you do too and I don't want to have to call you and have to tell you I F***ed you over. If it was the beginging of the school year i'd ask you out.


He's my bestfriend's friend. (my bestfriend moved and doesn't have a phone.. or i'd be asking him) The guy I like wanted to have sex but I told him no. Was he just trying to get in my pants or was that just the teenage guy hormone thing..? I'm SO confused.


**Details on the guy**
He took me to a park yesterday and told me about what he did there when he was younger and stuff. We drove around for hours, went to some stores and out to eat with his friend. He said he wasn't talking B/S but I don't know..


Please please give me some advice.

2007-05-02 10:42:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my ex, who i speak to about maybe once a week (briefly), but haven't seen in about a MONTH texted me at 5am over the weekend "where are you, wake up, i have an important question to ask you" then when i texted him to ask what it was, NO RESPONSE! wtf, why do people DO that?!

2007-05-02 10:41:59 · 43 answers · asked by SarahS 2 in Singles & Dating

its a puffy slieve coming from the sholder of a dress that keeps falling down and showing my bare sholder, how can i get it to stay on my sholder

this isnt wesley its someone else using his user name, im a girl

2007-05-02 10:41:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-05-02 10:32:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin married a white girl. They had alot of problems and their marriage didn't last long. He regrets marrying her and said, "Asians should stick with Asians, Blacks with Blacks, and Whites with Whites, Hispanics with Hispanics." How can a couple overcome cultural differences? Is it possible to have a happy relationship despite the barriers?

2007-05-02 10:32:37 · 24 answers · asked by krazyflip 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Been with my fiance for 4 years.

During the first year he cheated on me. He acted indifferent towards me for about a month - eventually I caught him on a date with another girl. I confronted him, we had massive arguments, I tried to end it.

But here we are 4 years later. He had to work VERY hard to get me back on his side - it was probably a year before I trusted him again.

We're extremely happy now and I've had to accept what he did.
He has grown up enormously over the last 3 years and done a great deal to gain my trust back. Our relationship has been a lot stronger since his infidelity.

However, as much as I love him - it's still always there at the back of my mind. Even as we plan our wedding,......

Has anyone been through anything similar? Do you ever forget?

2007-05-02 10:32:27 · 26 answers · asked by Clare 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got engaged, and I spend a lot of time in the summer swimming in my pool. Should I be taking it off everytime i swim?

2007-05-02 10:31:19 · 12 answers · asked by jessicaL 2 in Weddings

I have trouble getting close to orgasm. I'm not sure if it's because the man I was with didn't know how to do it, or how to please me. But is there something wrong with me? What can I do to make myself orgasm more during sex?

Mature answers only please. Yes, I am old enough.

2007-05-02 10:27:51 · 11 answers · asked by Brynne 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here I have a great opportunity to have a new, unique and unusual sex adventure and I don't know what to ask for. I'd appreciate your ideas or experiences.

No third party or animal sex please. Thanks.

2007-05-02 10:24:38 · 3 answers · asked by sebsilversmith 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been friends with this girl for over 3 years. Last year, we didn't really do anything for her birthday, but when I saw her after her big day, I got her a nice gift. She really loved it and was surprised, because she didn't even have a party or anything. When my birthday came up last year, she wasn't able to make it to my birthday dinner. She never got me a gift either. But everytime I saw her, for about a month after that, she'd be like, "OMG, I forgot to bring your goft with me!" or "OMG, i left your gift in my room, and forgot to bring it down to you!" This was obviously a fake cover-up!

Soooo, now it's her birthday again and we're gonna go out for dinner. Should I get her a gift??? Hmmm?! If I do, then she'll be double gifted by me and that's messed up...but if I don't get her a gift, then I might look bad in front of everyone else who got her gifts! :o\

Maybe I should get her a tiny gift? Please help!!!

2007-05-02 10:23:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He lies mostly about small things, but has lied about bigger things in the past. His first version of the truth is never the real story. For the last 4 years, our biggest fights have been over his internet porn habit. I never had a problem with my self image until I met him, because he is always online looking at "something else". Recently, I have had some issues with fertility and have felt very un-womanly. His porn habit makes me feel even worse. He has promised over and over to stop. I have always been a laid back person regarding sex - but his continued visits to porn and "hot girl" sites are really taking a toll on me. It's so disrespectful at this point. Worse yet, when he gets caught, he gets pissed at me and doesn't talk to me for days. Shouldn't he be apologizing for being so untrustworthy? Aside from the porn issue, he is just always getting caught in little lies. It concerns me because I think to myself, "if he lies about this, what else is lying about?"

2007-05-02 10:23:08 · 18 answers · asked by blue eyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-02 10:20:36 · 20 answers · asked by J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Isn't it bad enough that they are doing it?

2007-05-02 10:20:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was previously on here regarding my ex and he says he loves me but doesnt want to be with me..............but i just cant get him off my mind i want to call him so bad ...............i just dont know what to do............should i call him? should i be more gentle about the situation? or do i just stay put and stay firm to what i want? (a solid relationship... even marriage) HELP!!!!!!!!!!

2007-05-02 10:18:40 · 4 answers · asked by Queen V 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 10:17:48 · 18 answers · asked by tr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-02 10:17:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Question: in a relationship: husband, wife, and kids…..Say that the husband and wife do not share there income they have different savings account. And say that the man is making way more money then a woman should it be right for both of them to go half and half on everything?
And say that the woman buys the kids some clothes and the husband doesn’t think it is necessary and she asks him for half of what she spent (and remind you that she makes ok money but he gets more) and he says NO the kids didn’t need clothes so I wont give you anything…Is the Fair that things like this happen not only with clothes but with other things like food, ect.

2007-05-02 10:16:45 · 12 answers · asked by Eve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and I have been having this disputue. I don't think it is possible but my friend claims it is. Is there anyone that can prove me wrong?

2007-05-02 10:14:15 · 16 answers · asked by miss gorgeous 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If they are facing issues constantly. wat can u do to encourage or make them feel better? Any suggestions?

2007-05-02 10:12:38 · 6 answers · asked by Enigmatic Queen 1 in Friends

My ex-husband used to compare me to his sisters all of the time. Its hard because one of his sisters is born on the same day and year as me.

In his eyes, she is a better mom and career woman and basically a better wife to her husband.

My ex-husband yelled at me in front of his sisters and praised his sisters. He also ignored me when his sisters were around. If I complained, I would get in trouble with his mother.

2007-05-02 10:12:05 · 17 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was with my ex-husband and daughter, I found that I did not feel any happiness. I gave up my happiness for my ex-husband and child. Is this normal?

I could not buy things for myself freely within our means or keep in touch with my family or relatives. I was also compared constantly with other women of my age and his sisters. They were always better than me.

2007-05-02 10:09:48 · 13 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm making invitations online and I don't know what they're supposed to read. Can someone please tell me what is supposed to go inside. Like, what information.

2007-05-02 10:07:18 · 13 answers · asked by raspberry_waffles 2 in Weddings

My ex ended our relationship 3 mths ago. At the time things ended she was suffering from depression. She has had it bad in the past, long before our relationship.

Our relationship was always good, and also serious, she was telling me she loved me 4 wks before ending things and we talked of moving in together. At the time things ended her dr said she was depressed and prescribed prozac (which she started taking) and counselling (which she refused). She said she didn't think she was depressed but just unhappy with the relationship as her feelings had changed over a short period. She also said she felt she held me back. I never agreed with this!

I couldn't persuade her to changer her mind. I saw her 5 wks after the break up. She seemed better, but spaced out, and had clearly been taking the prozac. We had a chat about us and she said us not being together was for the best.

We are meeting up soon. I would like to try and see if we can work but don't want to push too much! Tips??

2007-05-02 10:07:16 · 12 answers · asked by bepositive1976 1 in Singles & Dating

Need some help here ppl!?
I like this guy, but does he like me only as a friend or more?
I have known this guy for about 4 years now. Just recently we have begun to talk to eachother again. A friend of mine has told me clearly that she 'knows' he has a crush perhaps on me because of something that has happened recently. Last weekend I had come back from the club and my 'guy friend' called me to ask if I was still coming over to his house. (Earlier I had called him to tell him I would be coming to his house) I told him that I was already home and had changed my clothes He said "ok well I was going to say i have a car, but nevermind." I physically slapped my forehead for being so naive, so I persuaded him to come pick me up and he did. He came to my house to pick me up at 2 AM. We were at his house and we watched a DVD but at the corner of my eye I noticeed that he would glance at me for a long period of time and then turn away. Also, he playfully slapped my thigh like 5 times. Oh and I gave him a scratch on his arm and he asked me to make it feel better- a kiss on his arm.

2007-05-02 10:04:58 · 6 answers · asked by thatwasme_then87 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I have been together for almost 6 years. We lived together for more than 4 years, but split up and moved apart more than a year ago. Since that time we have been trying to work things out. But the same issues that broke us up are still there. He is a heavy drinker and smoker, I am a light smoker and like to drink only occasionally. I can hear him opening up beer cans at 5am before he goes to work. There were some mental and emotional abuse issues going on as well. I do loive him, and we share the same goals, I just don't know if I can deal with his habits, and I am very afraid that the emotional and mental abuse will; resume if I were to move back in with him. He is not willing to stop drinking, although he talks about quitting smoking. I am very torn as to what to do. Help!

2007-05-02 09:57:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been acting weird these past weeks. We live in apartments where a bunch of crack head people live and lately i have caught him having conversations with them.Not only that but he also gives them rides supposely to get something to eat but during midnight i find that very strange and i ask him and he says that he only took them to get food and thats it.Anyways before me and my huspand got married he was selling drugs then stopped and the whole time he was doing it i didnt know cause he also had a job but a lot of people would call his cell phone and then he confessed to me that he was in fact selling but that he stopped.So now this is going on and i am 30 weeks pregnant with our first child so i am always home how can i find out if in fact he is selling drugs again? And our income is still the same wouldnt it be more is he is selling?I need to find out cause i am not going to have our baby around any of this.

2007-05-02 09:57:27 · 22 answers · asked by Mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce