Family & Relationships - 2 May 2007

is it right that i should refer to him as my bf, even though neither of use has asked each other out. we talk ever day and regularly have sex and hang out together. is he or isnt he??

2007-05-02 14:00:32 · 6 answers · asked by darkness_says_hi 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 14:00:14 · 3 answers · asked by baby boo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I am getting inducted into Alpha Lamda delta this sunday and my mom is coming down to see me. My mom is recently separated from her husband and has been vulnerable lately! Anyhow I have an apartment with my boyfriend, whose family also is plan on coming down this weekend. They always seem to be competing for our attention and I think that my mom is a little upset that they are also coming down this weekend, since it is moms weekend and the induction ceremony at my college! My boyfriends family will probably stay at a hotel and my mom will probably stay here! My mom plans leaving my sister (13 yrs) at home because she said she needed a break from my sister (she can be a handful sometimes)! Anyway my sister and my boyfriends sister are friends and my sister is upset that my mom wont let her come! AH what do I do so my weekend isnt horrible!!!!

2007-05-02 14:00:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-02 13:59:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-02 13:59:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He is the father of my children and is not an easy person to live with, I know he is no good for me and we have been apart for several years, but I still hold some hope in my heart, yet he shows no signs of the same feelings, I don't want to still love him. Why do i feel this way. It actually hurts on top of it especially when he talks about seeing other women. Maybe I just need to find the right man for myself and get over him.

2007-05-02 13:58:48 · 12 answers · asked by dmesterse 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't have a choice any more if I want to find a girl. I failed at on-line dating, my friends won't fix me up and I don't know any single women my age (21). I have to approach some young women I don't know at my favorite hang-outs. Do I even have a slim chance in finding a date? Do women actually date men they meet in public or just those they meet through friends? Does anyone think I shouldn't even try?

2007-05-02 13:58:47 · 11 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I am helping my sister plan a low cost wedding and we have most of the stuff figured out,but thought I'd ask if anyone else had any other helpful ideas?They are having the ceremony at a Knights of Columbus outside pavillion where the reception can be held right afterwards.It's perfect to have an outside wedding and reception at the same time so there's no giving directions to the reception hall,lol,not to mention the money saver it is.A guy I work with DJs on the side so he's agreed to do me a favor and cut me a deal,and there's more than enough family to make the food.It's going to be a semi-small wedding so there's no problem there.Besides the pavillion rental fee, minister fee, invitations, food, DJ,and table toppers is there anything else we are forgetting?There's so much to plan and figure out and with a small budget you tend to forget about the other little things.Can anyone think of anything else I have left out of my "to do list"?Websites would also be appreciated, thanks!!!

2007-05-02 13:58:22 · 6 answers · asked by Just Me 7 in Weddings

OK; whomever I befriend... they eventually end up getting in trouble with teachers or they start acting a bit more...uh... "outgoing" you can kind of say... It is like a reign of terror seems to surround me and whoever I come in contact with ends up pretty much screwed too. I always get in trouble... but them too? I have turned quiet, respectable people into loud/funny people.

Am I a bad girl or something? Am I manipulative?

2007-05-02 13:54:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2 years ago, i had it all. I was dating the most beautiful and outgoing girl. I asked her out under the stars on a summer night. It was all so perfect. Soon enough, however, she dumped me and changed her whole image. She ditched her gorgeous friends and joined the band. She started dating a fat nerdy band geek. Throughout the next year, i dated many girls on and off but it always seemed that the ones that i liked the most would dump me, and the ones that i didnt like as much i would dump sooner or later. I never found a girl that i liked as much as the one who joined the band. We'll call her 'band girl.' Now, its been almost a year since my last girlfriend. I'm fresh out of high school now so im not around as many girls as i used to be. Im so lonely, and i still dwell on that first relationship with band girl. Will i ever find a girl that i like as much as her? I feel like im in a rut right now! I just want someone to be with so i can be happy again!

2007-05-02 13:53:59 · 5 answers · asked by helpandseek 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-02 13:47:20 · 31 answers · asked by cemout 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Most of the men I have dated in the past have been very outgoing, loud and center of the attention type guys. Recently I borke things off with one of those types and now got set up with a nice, guy next door type. He is really sweet and seems to be a great guy. The problem is that he is getting divorced, works at a job where he is gone a lot, and when he is home he has his 6 yr old 5 of 7 days of the week. He is living with a friend during the divorce, waiting to see the outcome...so there are all these obstacles. It seems like a lot of work for a simple good guy. I am not sure I have that in me right now. I think I need someone emotionally available... (which he says he is) and can date without all the drama. Anyhow... just not sure if I should stick it out for one of the "Good guys"?

2007-05-02 13:45:54 · 1 answers · asked by Mitch 2 in Singles & Dating

i blush constantly...escpecially around the guy i like, but its not even just that i blush if somebody complements me. do you know of any way i can stop blushing!!!???

2007-05-02 13:42:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some flirting ideas. I want to put myself out there more. I'm tired of being the single blonde that wont go out.

2007-05-02 13:39:18 · 3 answers · asked by Rachael 1 in Singles & Dating

We are really close. We talk about everything... but i'm not sure if I like him the same. Plus there is the factor that he always finds a new girl in a week; he ssays he has changed....but how can i believe him??? And there is also the sake of our friendship on the line. I'm so confused!

2007-05-02 13:38:21 · 1 answers · asked by U know u love me! 1 in Friends

My man loves porn. But it's not just the movies...it's mostly about the women. He looks up particular porn stars that he wants to see and I even caught him looking at teen porn. (He will be 28 this summer.) And he loves female body builders that pose nude! Now Im to the point where I feel like he might be comparing me to these whores(physically) and so I don't like him looking at me naked anymore. I feel like if he's horny, he should just go get some oil and go get on his computer. lol What does he need me for? To fantasize that Im someone else? Are my feelings justifyable or am I just insecure?

2007-05-02 13:32:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was asked to attend a birthday party, and bring a gift, for my mother's second husband's first wife's boyfriend. Another time I was asked to have dinner with my father's second and third wives' children from their previous marriages, so they could complain about my father after their mothers' left him. Has anyone else had family that would not go away? My family wants me to accept their cast offs, and I just want to get on with my life. Anyone else?

2007-05-02 13:28:20 · 4 answers · asked by kitzyababa 3 in Family

Is it to long?
To short?
fair?
unfair?
what is the meaning of it to you.

pretty deep, but, i like deep questions

2007-05-02 13:25:25 · 8 answers · asked by scott in minnesota 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my wife were talking one night and i asked her are you in love with me or do you love me? She said i don't love you any more what should i do?

2007-05-02 13:19:22 · 14 answers · asked by John S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Kids live with my ex Mother inlaw,there Step Grandpaw in Tn., i live in Arkansas

2007-05-02 13:15:06 · 3 answers · asked by rosesflowersskyblue 1 in Family

2007-05-02 13:11:47 · 34 answers · asked by Rich M 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I need help on something to do on a very first date.

2007-05-02 13:10:22 · 16 answers · asked by Daniel H 1 in Singles & Dating

A kid at my school got told on for having a switchblade. When the SRO came to get him, he kicked it under the table towards one of his and my best friends. My friend,trying to cover for one of his bff's,hid in his shoe until the bell rang then threw it out. When the friend who originally had the switchblade got interrogated,he blabbed the name of the friend who had covered for him! Now the friend that covered for him was suspended for 5 days and can't go on the 300 dollar class trip to Boston where there are NO refunds,this just happens to be the SAME punishment as the person who had the switchblade AND the guy that had sold it to him on the track bus! How stupid is that?!

2007-05-02 13:04:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'M SERIOUS, I'M VERY TICKLISH AND FLINCHY! MY FRIENDS LOVE TO TICKLE ME LIKE CRAZY. THEY SAY IT CAN RELIEVE STRESS AND IT KIND OF DOES TAKE AWAY THE STRESS. IT FEELS LIKE TORTURE BECAUSE ONCE WHILE I WAS SITTING IN CLASS MY FRIEND NEARLY SCARED ME BY SNEAKING UP ON ME. SHE HELD ME DOWN AND HER FRIEND TOOK OFF MY SHOE AND BEGAN TICKLING ME. I WAS LAUGHING LIKE CRAZY AS I TRIED TO GET UP, BUT THAT CAUSED HER TO HOLD ME DOWN TIGHTER. THIS HAPPENED AT SCHOOL DURING MY FREE PERIOD FROM CLASSES. MY FRIENDS ALWAYS FIND ME, SIT ME DOWN AND TICKLE TORTURE ME. IT'S FUN BUT IT FEELS LIKE TORTURE AFTER A WHILE! SHE KNOWS THAT I'M VERY FREAKED OUT ABOUT THINGS SO SHE TAKES THE STRESS OUT OF ME BY TICKLING ME. WHAT CAN I DO TO AVOID THE TORTURE?

2007-05-02 13:03:07 · 4 answers · asked by faileider_lucky7 2 in Friends

2007-05-02 13:00:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like this guy, but does he like me only as a friend or more?
I have known this guy for about 4 years now. Just recently we have begun to talk to eachother again. A friend of mine has told me clearly that she 'knows' he has a crush perhaps on me because of something that has happened recently. Last weekend I had come back from the club and my 'guy friend' called me to ask if I was still coming over to his house. (Earlier I had called him to tell him I would be coming to his house) I told him that I was already home and had changed my clothes He said "ok well I was going to say i have a car, but nevermind." I physically slapped my forehead for being so naive, so I persuaded him to come pick me up and he did. He came to my house to pick me up at 2 AM. We were at his house and we watched a DVD but at the corner of my eye I noticeed that he would glance at me for a long period of time and then turn away. Also, he playfully slapped my thigh like 5 times. Oh and I gave him a scratch on his arm and he asked me to make it feel better- a kiss on his arm.

2007-05-02 12:51:52 · 11 answers · asked by thatwasme_then87 2 in Singles & Dating

I can normally get a guy, but not lately. I'm not ugly, but not EXTREMELY pretty. sometimes i think a guy likes me, but idk. What do i do?!

2007-05-02 12:51:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey, I just wanted some ways to tell if a guy likes u. I would really appriciate good answers!?! Is this one: He is a complete clown when u r not around. I am not in his class, but I am in his church, and my Best Friend says he acts beyond rediulous, but he is SO not like that at church. There are others, but I dont want to descibe all of them. Thankx for the answers!!!

2007-05-02 12:49:43 · 4 answers · asked by Star 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay.
so here is the situation.
i dont see much my boyfriend,
because all the free time he has, he plays a sport.
and yea. =( it sucks.
so i see him only at school couple times a day.
but usualy only in the morning, before classes start.
so lately, i havent spoken with him much, because he always talks to his friends and not me. he doesnt even pay attention. so i just stand there like a total stranger :(
so on wednesday, he came online after school.
and i was like, i love u so muc and i miss you. and he just completely ignored that, tho usualy he always says the same back. but then he didnt. so i was lik, may i ak u a question and he was like...yea. and then i asked " do u love me"?
and he was tryingto change the subject and stuff. and i was liek oh comon answer me.
so he said "well. u havent talked ot me lately, so i dont love u anymore. i like u hell of alot yea, but i dont love u. just a little "
so that hurt me sooo much. :(
and then i havent seen him for 2 days

2007-05-02 12:47:13 · 12 answers · asked by love<3 3 in Singles & Dating

Because I am one myself, and once a guy learns of that, they slowly loose interest.
When they ask me why, I tell them I am just waiting for that special someone.
Guy's don't even stick around for a week....why is that?

2007-05-02 12:43:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating