Because I am one myself, and once a guy learns of that, they slowly loose interest.
When they ask me why, I tell them I am just waiting for that special someone.
Guy's don't even stick around for a week....why is that?
2007-05-02 12:43:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys are just looking for sex. Real men are willing to develop a relationship.
I personally do not like virgins due to the fact that it seems harder to get them use to love making and I would like someone who has some idea of what to do.
2007-05-02 12:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Rawbert 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is that probably the guys that you are meeting are jerks and only want to use you or other people. It would seem as all they care about is sex sex sex. Me? I would actually prefer the girl is a virgin. Also, I'm a shy nice guy. If those guys loose interest in you cause you are a virgin, it's simply cause they want to use you, trust me, I'm a guy too (I know what they think). As you mentioned above, you are waiting for that special someone. There has to be someone in the world who will love you for yourself, just keep waiting. And in the mean time, NEVER let those selfish guys take advantage of you! The girl I love right now I love for who she is, and I want a relationship with her, I do not want to use her or anything, that is the type of guy you should find.
2007-05-02 19:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you are lucky those type of guys don't stick around. They are only after one thing S E X. Once they get it, they will move on to the next conquest. You don't want to be a conquest. Believe me, it feels horrible and takes forever to get your self esteem back. Stay a virgin until you meet someone you really love and, this is important, loves you back and wants to spend the rest of your lives together. Also, you don't have any STD's...you'll probably get one if you go with any of these type of men.
2007-05-02 19:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by billiejo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know whats wrong with them. I actually llike virgins. I just cant never seem to find them any more. I actually like dating virgins. They also like dating me. B/c when they are ready to loose there virginity they want to loose it to me. They love the fact that it was with me even if we are not together. I am a gentle person when it comes to that and take my time so I dont hurt them in any kind of way.
2007-05-02 19:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by Chris F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I' am a virgin too and most guys think virginity is an attractive quality in a female because it shows she respects and values herself. The guys you are dating are jerks and only have one thing on their mind, just sex. Don't give into pressure for those type of guys. Finds guys who are gentlemen and worthy of you. Look at Adriana Lima (the Victoria secret model) she is a virgin and guys go crazy for her. Just stay strong and wait until you are ready.
2007-05-03 18:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while they dont turn me off --- i am not really interested --- but it depends on the person and the rapport more so than if you are a virgin or not --- if you are or could be a special person (ie long term relationship/marriage) then waiting is not a problem --- best wishes
2007-05-02 19:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity doesn't turn me on or off. It is usually the personality of the person that does that.
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2007-05-03 16:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin until my wedding night 3 months ago. My husband held his interest very well, so when the perfect guy comes along, he won't mind waiting.
2007-05-02 19:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Kate 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Do they turn me off? No, there's too much danger involved.
Why do they turn other guys off? Maybe they like the adventure, or for a girl to be "experienced", or something.
2007-05-02 19:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know i aint gonna get any intimacy,so y stick around when someone else can give me something i desire in a woman and a virgin isnt gonna give it,,,its down to my needs and desires fulfilled ,i dont like compliments and platonic love .
2007-05-02 19:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by reifguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋