Tips for flirting?

Question

I need some flirting ideas. I want to put myself out there more. I'm tired of being the single blonde that wont go out.

Answer 1

1. Approach him and start a conversation, but don't make it too obvious that you like him. If he approaches you, look him in the eyes as a sign of affection and confidence.
2. Try to touch him whenever you can, on his arm or wherever else. Don't make it too obvious.
3. Play with your hair or clothing.
4. Once you've got his attention, look him in the eyes and smile. If he smiles back, slowly look down, and repeat. Guys like girls who can show off their smile.
5. Don't make it too obvious when he's around his friends, unless you know that he likes you.
6. Laugh with him, and help him to feel comfortable around you.
7. Find a reason to whisper something in his ear.
8. Don't try to be someone you aren't. You attract the kind of person you are. Don't pretend to be a sports type when you're really a poet.
9. Talk about what you have in common, and ask questions about what you don't. People love to feel like they're interesting. (And heck, they probably are, too.)
10. Say his name a lot. This shows you're interested in who he is. Give him a nickname, so you two have a little inside joke to share. Most likely, he'll give you one, too.
11. End it by saying "I have to go but maybe I'll see you around soon." or something else you feel comfortable with. The point is make it clear that you're leaving, but if he's interested, he's welcome to pursue you...if you're feeling bold, you can give him your number, or even get his.


Tips

* Don't flip your hair too much, instead find a small stray chunk and twist it around your fingers.
* Try not to make it obvious that you are flirting.
* Don't try too hard to impress him.
* Be yourself, and add some flirting to go with it.
* Don't flirt with someone else's boyfriend or husband it only leads to trouble.
* Auto-erotic touching (touch your lips, neck, chest with your fingers or hands) - it is something people do subconsciously when they like you, but you can manipulate it.
* Boss him around or call him names (in a nice way); anything to make him notice you. He won't take offense to the name calling if he likes you.
* Whenever he's around, make sure you're having fun (laughing, etc) so that he'll want to join in.
* Take a break every now and then to leave him wanting more.
* Massages are always nice.
* Tell him you'd like to see him again if leaving, or mention that you'd like to try one of his hobbies.
* Listen carefully to what he says, and let him know you were listening through your conversation.
* Remember what he mentions in passing (it's the little things that count) and bring it up later as a question. For example, he says "I've got to go home, I'm helping my sister study for her exam tomorrow." Later, you ask, "How did your sister (call her by her name if you know it - it shows you can put two and two together) feel she went in the exam?"
* Do your research. If he mentions that he loves baseball, ask him if he watched the game on the weekend, and know the score or something that happened so you can talk about it. If you don't know much about what he likes (e.g. Baseball), get him to teach you something about it - he will feel knowledgeable and important, and it's the perfect excuse to spend time with him.
* Ask to borrow things, or for help with something, but don't be too clingy. Show him that you can handle things for yourself most of the time. This way he will be intrigued by your independence.
* Hint about a movie you'd like to see.
* Find out what his favorite band is, then when you are around him, casually hum one of their songs. Instant convo.

Answer 2

aww i hear you girl....well you should try to place yourself in areas that many single men tend to hang out...starbucks, skate parks, comedy clubs,etc. Try going to a club with a bunch of friends and situating yourself in such a way that you can make eye contact with guys that are nearby...hopefully you will be able to strike up a conversation and the sparks will start up...however, i think that there is something to be said for natural chemistry...you can't really force yourself to like someone instantly, and vice versa...just take your time and something is bound to happen soon! good luck

Answer 3

if you see the guy everyday.. go by one day and ask if he wants a lolipop :P if he says no thnx, say sumthin like ok i want to give it to you and you can eat it later :p

or if its a guy you dont know, go to him and say its your birthday and you want a hug/kiss whatever :p

OR if ifs a guy near your car, put your car keys in your pocket and go up to the guy, tell him you need help .. say somthing like my nails arnt dry and i need my car key, can you please take them out of my pocket ;)


MAKE SURE YOU DO SOME EYE CONTACT and smiLe!