Most of the men I have dated in the past have been very outgoing, loud and center of the attention type guys. Recently I borke things off with one of those types and now got set up with a nice, guy next door type. He is really sweet and seems to be a great guy. The problem is that he is getting divorced, works at a job where he is gone a lot, and when he is home he has his 6 yr old 5 of 7 days of the week. He is living with a friend during the divorce, waiting to see the outcome...so there are all these obstacles. It seems like a lot of work for a simple good guy. I am not sure I have that in me right now. I think I need someone emotionally available... (which he says he is) and can date without all the drama. Anyhow... just not sure if I should stick it out for one of the "Good guys"?
2007-05-02 13:45:54 · 1 answers · asked by Mitch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What if supporting a guy like him with his kids provides you the emotional availability that you need in your life? Sometimes, giving love can be a healing factor in anyone's life. It might be the same thing for you.
If you like the guy, why not. He sounds a good one, not settled yet, but obviously wants to, he provides for himself and his kids... I think he is worth giving him a shot.
The only thing that will make me reluctant is that he told you he is emotionally available, does he mean he is not dating anyone now and you have his heart, or does it mean he is capable of providing you with the emotional support you need?
good luck.
2007-05-02 13:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋