me and my wife were talking one night and i asked her are you in love with me or do you love me? She said i don't love you any more what should i do?
2007-05-02 13:19:22 · 14 answers · asked by John S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sit down and talk to her to find out what happened. I am sure it did not happen over night. If you feel the marriage is truly worth saving work on it. Rekindle the romance make her feel special.
2007-05-02 13:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by Broken 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will find that you can't make someone love you and you don't want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't love you. You have options but think them out carefully. The best thing is ask her what she wants to do does she want to divorce or does she want to figure out what happen and try to change things. Since she told you she doesn't love you and decides she wants to divorce then let her pack her bags and let her leave don't roll over and play dead let her go on her own. For some reason some husbands move out but that is not the way to go. Let her file and you get an attorney and work out the agreement and get on with your life.....
2007-05-02 20:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That hurts when the one you love doesn't love you back I no I been there.I've been told that to by my husband of 18 years at the time.
2007-05-02 20:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where have you been in this marriage???? she just up and tells you one night she doesn't love, you had no indication something might be wrong in your relationship? Guess all you can do now is move on and make a life for yourself.
2007-05-02 20:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by abc 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get out you deserve better and someone who does love you why exist in life LIVE IT life is too short to be miserable
2007-05-02 20:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by skeeter195848 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband said the same thing to me 2 weeks ago. It really sucks. I don't suppose there's anything you can do. If I figure it out, I'll let you know!
2007-05-02 20:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Trisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out more....You don't say things like that without having reasons!
I guess therapy or counseling might help you.
Good luck!
2007-05-02 20:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to pack her things and go.
Call yourself a lawyer and call her a cab.
You can have a happy life, end this misery.
2007-05-02 21:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her who she does love.
2007-05-02 20:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow,
was she just messin with you?
Time to pull out all the romance you can think of,
swoon her as if you were trying to get her to date you, then, maybe she will change her mind
2007-05-02 20:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋