Need some help here ppl!?
I like this guy, but does he like me only as a friend or more?
I have known this guy for about 4 years now. Just recently we have begun to talk to eachother again. A friend of mine has told me clearly that she 'knows' he has a crush perhaps on me because of something that has happened recently. Last weekend I had come back from the club and my 'guy friend' called me to ask if I was still coming over to his house. (Earlier I had called him to tell him I would be coming to his house) I told him that I was already home and had changed my clothes He said "ok well I was going to say i have a car, but nevermind." I physically slapped my forehead for being so naive, so I persuaded him to come pick me up and he did. He came to my house to pick me up at 2 AM. We were at his house and we watched a DVD but at the corner of my eye I noticeed that he would glance at me for a long period of time and then turn away. Also, he playfully slapped my thigh like 5 times. Oh and I gave him a scratch on his arm and he asked me to make it feel better- a kiss on his arm.
2007-05-02 10:04:58 · 6 answers · asked by thatwasme_then87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my guy friend and I started making out in his room yesterday....all of a sudden he started whispering in my ear, and asking "tell me what you want"....then things got hot and heavy. The next thing I know, he's rubbing up and down my thighs....then my bra comes off and I'm urging him to continue. We didn't have sex....nothing was messed with in the lower regions....just my upper body parts. He told me he wouldn't go that far unless I wanted to..... Is he into me or is this his way of getting a quickie? was it just lust...does he like me? or something more? oh and before anyone assumes I'm not old enough....I am, we are both 20 yrs old
2007-05-02 10:05:21 · update #1
I notice that I'm the one who has to call him all the time. Why is this? Is he just use to the fact that I will call? what can't he call me for once>?
2007-05-02 10:06:14 · update #2
Some guys like to be chased. Then they know they are wanted. They don't have to wonder about it. They can be lazy. Most guys want as much sex as they can get. How much they really like you is difficult to say. You have to date them for at least three months to tell if all they want from you is your body or if they want to have a serious relationship with you. For that reason go slow on the physical part unless you are willing to settle for just the sex and not much else from him.
Giving him more territory on your body to claim will not really make him love you more, but it could make him less interested if you give away a lot right away. Decide for yourself are you willing to be in this relationship if it is just about sex with you OR do you want to try for more with this guy. If you want more with him don't get any further than you are on the physical part. Don't allow more territory to be claimed or you will risk loosing him due to lack of interest, before he gets to know you really well on a deeper plane away from the physical parts.
2007-05-02 10:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by Toosense2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether or not he's looking for a "quickie" depends on the guy, i'd have to know him to tell you that.
as far as the calling thing goes,
wait him out for a day or so
don't call him, and see if he calls youu
if he calls you, i bet he's got some feelings.
if not, who knows?
2007-05-02 10:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Chelsea :D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes u and is being respectful. guys don't always like to call. if he wanted a quickie he would have done so. be patient with him, young guys don't always act the way u want.
2007-05-02 10:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by david w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he might like u,or he might.
he might like cuz he recalled to make sure if u are cumming,that can be a sign so yea,nd that he respect u for not having sex wit u,with your concent,dats those kind of guys u need to snatch.if i were u i ask him is he interested into u.gurl!! iono wat i will do him by da way he acts gurl,go on another sexy date if i were u lol hope things work out for yall two
2007-05-02 10:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by personaltiyqueen92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. maybe he thinks he's just in ur friend zone that's why he wouldnt go to far unless u give him that permission.. that's actually a nice gesture. he's into you, he's just not sure if he can get out of the friend zone
2007-05-02 10:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by C A M S ™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, It sounds like he may be a gentleman. Baby life is short just be honest !
2007-05-02 10:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋