I recently had my relationship end in a violent way...I was knocked around, slapped and bruised up...I really thought this was the man for me, he had the brains and everything...We were both tired and a little tipsy..He promised that he would never hurt me in such a way, but the broken heart hurts more than the bruises...How will I get over him?
2007-05-02 17:36:31 · 10 answers · asked by hotmom74631 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
since this happened Sunday morning, I have been with friends and haven't seen or spoken to him.. However, he still has all of my belongings...I am moving into my own home tomorrow..
2007-05-02 17:57:36 · update #1
FIRST OF ALL YOU DID NOT DO ANYTHING WRONG. HE
DID BY PUT HIS HAND ON YOU. REGARDLESS OF WHAT
WAS GOING ON. BUT AS TIME GO ON YOU WILL GET
OVER HIM BUT FOR NOW YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT
THIING ABOUT LEAVING HIM GOOD LUCK TO YOU.
2007-05-02 18:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship is over, thank God. Most of the time they don't end until someone is really hurt badly. Under no circumstances should you take him back. If a man hits you once, he will hit you again. You didn't do anything--no wife does anything that deserves this kind of treatment. He probably learned this behavior from his father. Ask his mom if she is still around.
2007-05-03 00:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by KIZIAH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, being tipsy is no excuse and does not diminish in any capacity what he did. He did not have everything, if he did he would not have hurt you. You need to take off the rose colored glasses and see this man for what he is - an abuser!
2007-05-03 00:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by mimi s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never try to justify abuse with alcohol! That is such a copout. Just be glad that its over... Remember that men like that never change... not to mention that we cant change anyone!
Time will be your best friend... If you feel you need to cry then cry your eyes out... LET IT OUT!
Keep yourself busy
Hang out with your girlfriends
Work
Exercise
There are many things that can help you.
Good luck :)
o
2007-05-03 00:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by 90304 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you come to your senses and realize that you are in a dangerous relationship, getting away from him will be the problem. I would start now if I were you and get some help from whoever - friends, family, law enforcement, family services.
once is once too many.
2007-05-03 00:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are monsters it may take a while for it to come out but it does him hitting you is not your fault guys who hit women its makes them feel like they can controll you most of them are tring to make up for getting beat up all the time in school because there wimps
2007-05-03 00:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by tigger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did nothing wrong and you did the right thing to get away. i agree that broken hearts hurt more, b/c how do you treat it? no excuse for you to be physically manhandled like that.
2007-05-03 08:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You picked the wrong guy. Move on.
2007-05-03 00:48:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a real man would never do a woman like he has done you in my opion?
2007-05-03 02:08:13 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you thought wrong.
make him go through anger management therapy if you want to try again.
however, once is dumb, twice is stupid.
2007-05-03 00:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by j_mang 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋